BDSM Play Partner21 to 40 years ● 50km around USA Santa Clara

Name: Kate
Age: 20
Little Age: 2–4
Role: Little/ABDL, Submissive (eager to learn)
Location: London, UK
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: A Mommy Domme, Daddy Dom, or both (24–40 years old)
Relationship Status: Single (no prior partners)

About Me as a Little

I’m a playful, affectionate, and curious Little, still discovering the joys and comforts of this side of myself. My Little space is a safe haven where I can let my guard down, feel deeply cared for, and explore my childlike side. Whether it’s coloring, snuggling my stuffed ***s, or watching cartoons, I find comfort and happiness in loving and nurturing environments.

While I can be mischievous and curious, I thrive with kindness, firm boundaries, and consistent guidance. I’m looking for a caregiver who can create a loving, structured space where I feel cherished, safe, and small. I’m open to having either a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, as long as they are nurturing, patient, and committed to creating a supportive environment for me to thrive in.

About Me as a Submissive

Beyond my Little side, I’m also eager to explore and grow as a submissive. Though I’m new to this dynamic, I’m open-minded, willing to learn, and excited to embrace this side of myself under the guidance of a patient and experienced caregiver.

I hope to develop a dynamic that blends nurturing care with structured dominance, where I can feel supported and encouraged while also embracing the discipline, boundaries, and challenges that help me grow as a submissive. I value mutual respect and communication and am committed to learning and thriving in a safe, loving environment. Whether I have a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, I seek caregivers who can guide me in all aspects of my journey.

What I’m Looking For in a Caregiver

I dream of a Mommy and/or Daddy who are nurturing, patient, and share a passion for caregiving while also guiding me as a submissive. Together, you:

  1. Offer a Balance of Love and Structure: You create a harmonious environment filled with affection, guidance, and opportunities for growth.
  2. Enjoy Caregiving Together: You find joy in sharing responsibilities, from cuddling during cartoons to engaging in playful activities that make me feel secure and special.
  3. Encourage Submissive Growth: You guide me with kindness and firmness, helping me navigate and flourish in both my Little and submissive roles.
  4. Communicate and Respect Boundaries: You value open dialogue and mutual trust, always respecting my limits and ensuring I feel safe.
  5. Seek a Meaningful, Long-Term Connection: You’re interested in building a strong, lasting bond that grows with time, trust, and care.

    What I Offer as a Little and Submissive

    As your devoted Little and submissive, I’ll bring:
    • Playfulness: Endless giggles, cuddles, and affection to brighten your days.
    • Loyalty and Love: A deep appreciation for the love and care you provide, and a desire to give back through affection and gratitude.
    • Curiosity and Growth: Eagerness to learn and grow, both as a Little and as a submissive, with your guidance and support.
    • Dedication: A commitment to building trust, following rules, and contributing to a loving, balanced dynamic.

    My Favorite Little Space Activities
    • Cartoons: I adore Peppa Pig, Bluey, Barbie, and other happy, colorful shows.
    • Creative Play: Coloring, playing with dolls or stuffed s, and imaginative activities.
    • Baby Items: Pacifiers, bottles, bibs, and cozy outfits that make me feel secure.
    • Caregiving Moments: Being fed,
    , or cuddled while you read to me.
    • Structure and Discipline: Routines, reward charts, and gentle guidance help me feel safe and loved.

    About Me as an Adult

    Outside my Little space, I’m a 20-year-old student living in London. I’m passionate about creative hobbies like drawing and enjoy activities like martial arts and basketball. I’m also a huge fan of anime and manga, which inspire my artistic work.

    I’ve faced challenges with anxiety and past trauma, but I’m focused on growth and building meaningful relationships based on trust, care, and mutual support.

    What I Need From You

    Whether you’re a Mommy, Daddy, or both, I hope you can provide a nurturing, structured, and safe environment where I can explore my Little and submissive sides. I’m looking for caregivers who are patient, understanding, and committed to my growth. What I need from you includes:
    • Kindness and Patience: A caregiver who enjoys nurturing and guiding their Little while helping her grow as a submissive.
    • Respect for Boundaries: My Little side is strictly non-sexual. I need caregivers who honor my limits and safe words.
    • Consistency and Structure: Loving routines and structured caregiving to help me feel secure and thrive.
    • Guidance for Submissive Growth: Gentle yet firm leadership that encourages me to explore and develop my submissive side in a safe, supportive way.
    • Time and Effort: You’re willing to dedicate time to building a close, affectionate, and trusting family dynamic.

    Important Notes
    I’m seeking a caregiver or caregivers based in the UK who are open to starting with online communication and transitioning to an in-person dynamic as trust is built. This relationship is non-sexual in Little space but filled with affection, emotional connection, and long-term intentions.

    If you’re a caring and dedicated Mommy, Daddy, or both looking for a devoted Little and eager submissive to join your family, I’d love to hear from you! Please share a bit about yourselves when you reach out so we can start getting to know each other.

    Thank you for taking the time to my profile~I’m excited to begin this with the right caregiver by my side.


    Warm hugs and Cuddles,

    Diana

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