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Approaching a Domme

Deleted profile posted a topic in FemDom & Male Submission

Approaching a Domme Whilst I may not necessarily be the industry expert, as a woman who's received an inordinate amount of messages on this site, and still am receiving, I have some qualifying ex ...

January 5, 2020
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Procura-se Domme

Spot01 posted a topic in 🇧🇷 Fórum sobre Fetiches e BDSM em Português

Eu entrei no app faz pouco tempo e tenho pouco conhecimento sobre o assunto... Mas muito interesse em aprender. Conversando com um pessoal aqui, vi que tem muita gente iniciante e que gostaria de apre ...

July 17, 2024
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What should a Sub do to ready themselves before approaching a Domme?

Lincs567 posted a topic in FemDom & Male Submission

What work should a Sub do to make a better impression? Is it reading other's works to have better confidence in their role? Showcasing a variety of tools to show they have indulged in the role? Better ...

January 8
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Caregiver

Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.

Master/Mistress

A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.