“ I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness.
I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot.
I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh G’d, as a woman I want to be dominated.
I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Ainis Nin
I have a very dominant personality, in the “real world”, with my family, friends and anyone else I come across. I am known to be the person who is completely in control and can handle anything that's put before me. I am an evolving, fluctuating and growing person that will not be held to one label, if that is a problem, then I am most certainly not the girl for you. I am wild at heart and very much a free spirit. My wants and desires can change on a whim, but if I give my loyalty to you, you will have it till the day I die. I speak English and Sarcasm fluently. I am Intelligent. Curvy. Empathic. Kinky. Bossy. Creative. Kind. Passionate. I have a big ass, a big mouth and an even bigger heart. I laugh hysterically. I cry easily. I love hard. I tease. I obsess. I am a *** of nature. I am a sarcastic bitch in the nicest way possible...a sassy, bratty princess who doesn’t expect anything from anyone except loyalty...however, behind closed doors, mmmm, behind closed doors, well, that’s a whole other story...In private, I am extremely submissive...a dirty, slutty submissive who enjoys nothing more then giving up control to a strong dominant. I relish being at the beck and call of a someone worthy of my submission. I long to feel strong hands on my body, fingers pulling my hair and a voice speaking softly in my ear, completely in control of me. I am still in the midst of learning what aspects of a man or women would make them worthy of my submission.
Yes, I said worthy...I will not submit to someone who is mentally weak or intimidated or even worse, someone whom I deem untrustworthy. I need someone who isn't afraid of possessing me and knows that my submission cannot be beaten out of me, it is given when earned, show me I need to give you all of me. Why is it so hard to find someone that is honest, intelligent, witty verging on sarcastic, maybe even dorky in a charming way, a fantastic kisser who is able to make me laugh, cum and is worthy of everything I have to give. Someone who is generally one of the smartest in the room, someone who uses big words on a daily basis and knows exactly what they mean.
You are most likely a Type A, you demand respect in your daily life and clearly command it without being a narcissistic wannabe. So many fakes, WHY?!?! Please understand, as smart as you think you are, if you are pretending to be, whatever it is you feel the need to portray to the world, you will be found out eventually...look, there are death row inmates that find love, I truly believe, with all of my heart, there is someone for everyone...but, you can only put on a show for so long and really, how exhausting for you! I know, I know...there are plenty of people who would say that they have all of the aforementioned attributes, but we all know how hard it is to find a true partner who isn’t putting on a show. We are to old for reindeer games...please don’t tell me you are the best__fill in the blank, I’ve ever had...if you truly are, you will know, as I am very vocal!
I want to feel the need to be around you in my bones, is it really too much to hope for, that you might have the same need? As I am a people pleaser, I am in no way looking for an equal in that department and truthfully I don’t know if someone like that actually exists, however, my pussy drips at the thought of having that kind of connection.
Losing track of time, guessing we’ve been at it for an hour or 2 only to look at the clock and realize it’s been 4 hours of us focusing only on each other...I need skin to touch. Lips to bite. A neck to kiss while I run my nails down your back. Strong hands for my throat and tushy...I don’t think I’m asking for to much, why can’t I have it...I WANT!!!

Kinky Date35 to 55 years ● 100km around USA, North Smithfield one year ago

Do not respond if you’re not in Arizona, Southern California or Nevada. If you do respond and you’re outside of my area, I won’t answer back.

Also, please remember that you’re not my Dom, Daddy, Mr. Sir, Sire, Master, King or any title you wish to call yourself. I will not send you naked pictures nor take commands. Either treat me like a lady, or don’t even try to communicate with me. I know who I am, and I know my worth.

I’ve been in/out of the lifestyle about 5 years...In that time, I have encountered several phonies, which causes this newbie to be a little apprehensive and hesitant at first, a lot like testing the water for sharks. So far, I have mostly learned a lot about my likes, what I want to try and limits. I know I haven’t experienced this lifestyle to its fullest in the realms of romance nor as a natural submissive. I have never been collared, owned or been in a 24/7 dynamic with anyone before. It always seems to be about empty promises and sex. Yes, sex is the obvious leading reason to be on this site, however, I would really like to find an honest Dom. A man who honor’s promises made, wants to form a relationship, and earns my submission. I would like to have my experiences in the lifestyle enhanced, my limits expanded, and made to feel loved, respected, and protected.

With me, you get honesty and no head games. I’m also very deep, intellectual, silly, shy, cynical, sarcastic, outgoing, kinky, impish, funny and an extraordinarily strong submissive who prefers friendship first, will take the time to build a relationship and ultimately a monogamous LTR.

If you’re interested in chatting to see if there’s any chemistry and learning more about me and I you, please send me a message.

Hope to hear from you,
Imp

Kinky Date49 to 62 years ● 5km around USA, Glendale one year ago

Hi there, may i extend a warm welcome and thankyou for taking the time to look at my profile and pictures.

Dominance isn’t about sex.
Dominance is being there for your sub.
Dominance is working through their meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting your sub especially when they won’t accept themself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love them.
Dominance is tucking your sub in at night.
Dominance is telling your sub no.
Dominance is quieting their demons.
Dominance is being their bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off your subs anger and frustration when you do things for their own good.
Dominance is encouraging them.
Dominance is comforting them in the middle of the night when they've had a nightmare.
Dominance is guiding.
Dominance is building your sub.
Dominance is love.

ON TH FLIP SIDE
On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.
Submission is about being there for your Dom/Domme.
Submission is about being that consistent person.
Submission is building your Dom/Domme up and letting them know their loved and valued.
Submission is about listening when you want to speak.
Submission is about running to the pharmacy when you're Dom/Domme is under the weather.
Submission is helping them get ready for work when their is running late.
Submission is letting them lead, even when it’s hardest.
Submission is being his cheerleader.
Submission is honest, open communication because that’s what you're Dom/Domme deserves.
Submission is having their back.
Submission is being the hand that reaches for them in the middle of the night.
Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways
Unfortunately I can't see likes or spanks. So if your interested drop me a message

Here is a little about me, i love the outdoors and nature enjoying the tranquil surroundings and watching nice sunsets, im equally as happy at home snuggling with a good book or film of which i have a broad taste as i do with music. Talking of taste i love Italian and Indian food (to be honest just food in general lol). I discovered kink a number of years ago and I've learnt alot during those years, i love pretty things in life and this filters into my kink and I love experiencing new things. I am a very caring soul and willing to be guided through my kinks with a like minded individual. It would be lovely to have a lasting relationship with the right person but i understand this takes time to develop. Having a connection with someone is really what im seeking. If you like what you're read or my pictures send a message

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Submissive
96% Boy/Girl
95% Degradee
91% Rope bunny
78% Experimentalist
77% Exhibitionist
77% Brat
75% Masochist
73% Ageplayer
70% Voyeur
62% Slave
60% Non-monogamist
44% Vanilla
23% Primal (Prey)
15% Pet
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Sadist
0% Switch

Kinky Date30 to 50 years ● 150km around UK, Blackburn 5 months ago

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