Hi, I am an active, submissive male seeking a long term, female led relationship. I'm looking for a partner, not a playmate. I have a strong desire to serve and very much crave the control that comes from a Domme / sub relationship. I continue to feel lost without that special someone; a Lady to serve as Her loving, devoted and obedient slave.

I am not looking for a leather clad Dominatrix, simply a Lady, my Goddess / Soulmate who I can serve, love, honour, cherish, worship (not least) obey as Her permanent slave on a daily basis.

I am a single, genuine lifestyle submissive living in Leicester city centre. I seek to offer a lifetime commitment of accepting the will of my Mistress rather than simple fantasy play and hope to find someone who wants a LTR with bdsm as part of the whole relationship not separate to it. BDSM to me is more about obedience, control and servitude rather than theatrics and play scenarios and I am looking for a relationship where the power exchange extends well beyond the bedroom. What I really seek is a domestic discipline arrangement where rules, structure and punishment play a significant part. Above all I am looking for someone with whom I have common interests, a friend as well as a Mistress /Owner.

I would love to have the opportunity of a 24/7 position (or as near as normal day to day activities will allow) with a Mistress who is happy with taking control of the relationship and who genuinely enjoys owning a slave. I accept that 24/7 D/s is possible but 24/7 play is not. I am caring, tactile (when allowed to be), can hold a conversation (again when allowed) enjoy the sea, sand sun and a glass (or two) of red wine. I am single, reasonably successful, intelligent, loyal, deeply submissive and willing to become the lifetime property of my Mistress.

I recognise that we are all different and that individual Mistress' have their own desires, needs and expectations in terms of service delivery and obedience. I am very willing to receive training in order to be taught to please to the best of my abilities and to Your complete satisfaction.

Whilst I am seeking my Mistress / soulmate, it may be that She does not live alone. I am willing to serve within a poly type environment under my owners control and guidance and to serve others or in front of others if required.

I understand the concept of end chastity and orgasm control / tease denial. For me, being locked in chastity with my sexual release being determined by my owner is a very intimate form of control. I would, therefore, wholeheartedly and without reservation, submit to wearing a secure locking chastity device on a permanent basis as a condition of my service / ownership.

I am willing also to accept
d feminization / sissification and to be cuckolded if required. I also accept that it is the right of my Mistress to place me in bondage, chain cage me should She so desire. I have little experience of cages/caging/imprisonment, but this is an area I would be interested in exploring.

I am not a slut (perhaps more experienced in the area of ), but I fully accept the right of my owner to inflict physical discipline either for corrective purposes or simply for Her pleasure and amusement and at Her whim.

I am domestically trained, cleaning, washing, ironing etc. and seek a Lady who understands that my obedience will come from her control. A Lady that will turn my natural submission into my total devotion to her by owning my mind soul as well as my body. I recognise that such feelings are developed over time and that is why i would prefer a long term Mistress / slave relationship.

I hope that i am not being too idealistic and that there is a Lady out there who i can love, adore, serve, honour, worship, cherish and obey as Her permanent slave.

Kinky Date28 to 65 years ● 10km around UK, Leicester 5 years ago

Do you crave being "owned" by the right dominant? To be his. To be enjoyed, however, he wishes? Do you fantasize about being taken? Enjoy it on the rough side? Do you wish to be the one to satisfy his desires and his insatiable need for the pleasures provided by you? Are you excited by the and ness that come from being controlled by the right dom?

Are You Curious about being a sub/slave? Do you have a Hidden Submissive side? Do You Have Desires? Want to be Dominated, Kinky, Uninhibited, Willing to Serve your Master? To Let Yourself Go, and Give 100 Percent, No Holding Back. Want someone to Control You and Your Body 24/7 Someone to Own You and to Have a Master, that You Belong to, Cares for You and Takes Care of You. Age Open 18+, HWP, D/D Free, Clean, No STD',s

This isn't your typical add. I don't mean to offend, but if you're not seriously into this kind of lifestyle it's best you close the add now. You're not going to understand the deep need some girls have to serve a really Dominant man, and it will seem extreme. It's not though you have to really feel that burning craving and desire to understand. I'm an experienced Master who has a position for a complete type live in slave. The girl must be open to training, learning and trying new kinks but we can discuss that later .I'm entirely serious and know how to train a girl to her best potential. Open on race/looks. Formal rules will be followed limits set and a path to true submission or slavery mapped out. I'm looking to collar a girl long term in an intense dynamic type D/s relationship. You must be OK in moving and be my live in sub/slave once we do chat more and see if this is something you want and crave.Only contact me if you're looking to relocate Serious inquiries only, please. Title your email "I want to serve" to weed out the spam and include a pic along with any limits and an introductory paragraph. Doesn't have to be deep, but I hate one-liner.

Kinky Date39 to 57 years ● 75km around USA, Bronx 5 years ago

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