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100% Exhibitionist
100% Brat tamer
100% Brat
100% Switch
100% Degradee
100% Voyeur
100% Rigger
100% Rope bunny
100% Boy/Girl
99% Vanilla
97% Ageplayer
92% Sadist
90% Submissive
90% Primal (Hunter)
83% Daddy/Mommy
80% Primal (Prey)
77% Slave
77% Dominant
75% Pet
74% Masochist
71% Non-monogamist
66% Experimentalist
66% Degrader
59% Master/Mistress
44% Owner

Hi,

I'm looking for a Dominant to play with and get to know. I'm a masochist, into some elements of pet play, anal, slave play, bondage, choking and marking plus lots of other things I've not even tried.

Hi Ladies, If you have privacy at home and a camera then you can be MINE for the night (for a predetermined duration, like say, 2 hours). I will accommodate your limits/likes, but i am really looking for an masochist to punish. If you are learning BDSM this might be a good way to start. The use of a dildo and vaginal penetration will occur as well.

Note: I will be typing to you, not on camera. It still works well though, and you will certainly feel controlled.

Mostly looking to make some friends and if there’s a cheeky vibe maybe more!!

Please no ***agers....it won’t work!!

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95% Rope bunny
70% Submissive
60% Sadist
59% Switch
55% Slave
53% Experimentalist
53% Dominant
52% Masochist
44% Rigger
42% Mistress

I am new to BDSM. I think it really fascinating and will be exploring the Dom side. I am Not a Sub.
98% Sadist, 92% Degrader, 91% Owner, 87% Dominant, 76% Mistress, 63% Primal(Humter), 48% Vanilla, 43% Mommy, 39% Rigger, 37% Brat tamer, 28% Pet, 25% Switch, 21% Girl, 11% Primal(Prey), 9% Experimantalist, 6% Non-monogamist, 4% Submissive, 2% Ageplayer, 1% Slave, 0% Rope bunny, 0% Degradee, 0% Exhibitioniat, 0% Brat, 0% Voyeur and 0% Masochist.
I am interested in SSC, B&D, CBT, D&S, M&S, S&M, Wax play, Sensory deprivation, Sensation play, Rope bondage, Bondage, play, Feminization, Human furniture, Impact play, Knife play, Male submission, Edge play, Electro , Physical , Spanking and Verbal . You may ask if I am interested in anything else.

I'm a slave and a masochist. I'm smart, sweet, and can be bratty and need a lot of discipline. I'm drug and disease free, non smoker and a social drinker (and I prefer the same before I offer you my gift of submission) My preferences: Physical appearance doesn't really matter much. It's much more about the chemistry when we meet. Age and race isn't really important either. I've tried the vanilla thing, but it doesn't work for me, so you must be dominant and (preferably) sadistic and must have enough experience to know what you're doing. What I'm looking for is discipline, sexual service , and if I'm a good girl, some cuddling. (And if you're into electrical play, that's a definite bonus.) I don't want to do this today. I would like to exchange a few emails, talk about limits, fantasies, etc and depending on how things go, maybe meet for drinks. If you're interested, tell me a bit about yourself, your preferences, favorite toys... Convince me that I should submit to you, and we'll see where it goes.

Hi there, I have now been divorced for 24 years with a couple of significant relationships in the mean time. I'm living in NW Leeds and I'm currently a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a sometime daddy dominant. I have also successfully mentored novice subs. I'd like to meet someone, either just to be friends or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment if there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Ideally, a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side. We can simply be friends or play partners or work towards something more meaningful if mutually agreed. I am patient and I respect your choice to be submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas where we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The lady I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared kinks. She may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual or gender fluid or any variation. Is this too much to ask?
On a more casual basis, I am happy to be a disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there is a connection.

Hello,

I am a very obedient open minded masochist who enjoys being used for the pleasure of other, I never feel more complete then when I am looking into the eyes of a Dominate as they inflict *** and they just smile.......

Hello, My name is Alex : )
I'm 30 years old, and I live in western colorado.
I enjoy reading and anything outdoors.
You can do, become, or create whatever you desire. So I am a wilderness guide by trade, specializing in dogsled expeditions.
My sexual interests are somewhat varied, but I consider myself a primal switch.
I am looking for friendships, fwb, or relationships, non monogamous accepted but not required.
Foot fetish, some bondage (receiving), ass play (giving or recieving)
I am a masochist, but not into ***, and not heavily submissive (generally).
Very open minded, however, and will explore just about anything.
I like spontaneity and playfulness, and being those qualities to the table.
Seeking anything, ltr, friendship, playmates, whatever.

I am confident and experienced Daddy/Dom I am multilayered and have accepted that I enjoy different facets of kink.

The range of my interests is wide. From impact to sensuality and what is in between. I have a filthy creative mind. My sessions are tailored to meet the needs and wants. Communication and respect are important to me as well as aftercare.

• I am a great believer in RACK or Risk-Aware Consensual Kink .
  
  Ideal scenarios :

• A woman to play with her regularly. The fun could include: ddlg, bdsm, breeding sessions, impact and breath play, orgasm control and plenty more we can discuss but there is always good after-care.
  

• Submissive single ladies or attached who are into CNC for direct, rough and intense sex. Minimal talk.
  

• A baby girl who wants or needs a Daddy to nurture her.
  

• I am looking for a masochist for regular sessions. I have a Sadistic streak.
  
  Feel free to ask for more details if any of the above resonates with what you're looking for.
  
  In the vanilla world, I am educated, interested in movies, reading, current affairs, History, music, sports , cooking , Scandinavian TV Series or Nordic Noir.
  
  I am unable to see the pics of those who sent me a spank or a flirt. if interested just drop me aline and we will take it from there.
  
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I am tall. thin, creative, exotic, boyish, adventurous, slightly masochistic, submissive when encouraged. I would like to find a likeminded female for switch or D/s relationship, starting on the web and developing into a fun-based adventure with happy endings and good bits in the middle

Hi there, may i extend a warm welcome and thankyou for taking the time to look at my profile and pictures.

Dominance isn’t about sex.
Dominance is being there for your sub.
Dominance is working through their meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting your sub especially when they won’t accept themself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love them.
Dominance is tucking your sub in at night.
Dominance is telling your sub no.
Dominance is quieting their demons.
Dominance is being their bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off your subs anger and frustration when you do things for their own good.
Dominance is encouraging them.
Dominance is comforting them in the middle of the night when they've had a nightmare.
Dominance is guiding.
Dominance is building your sub.
Dominance is love.

ON TH FLIP SIDE
On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.
Submission is about being there for your Dom/Domme.
Submission is about being that consistent person.
Submission is building your Dom/Domme up and letting them know their loved and valued.
Submission is about listening when you want to speak.
Submission is about running to the pharmacy when you're Dom/Domme is under the weather.
Submission is helping them get ready for work when their is running late.
Submission is letting them lead, even when it’s hardest.
Submission is being his cheerleader.
Submission is honest, open communication because that’s what you're Dom/Domme deserves.
Submission is having their back.
Submission is being the hand that reaches for them in the middle of the night.
Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways
Unfortunately I can't see likes or spanks. So if your interested drop me a message

Here is a little about me, i love the outdoors and nature enjoying the tranquil surroundings and watching nice sunsets, im equally as happy at home snuggling with a good book or film of which i have a broad taste as i do with music. Talking of taste i love Italian and Indian food (to be honest just food in general lol). I discovered kink a number of years ago and I've learnt alot during those years, i love pretty things in life and this filters into my kink and I love experiencing new things. I am a very caring soul and willing to be guided through my kinks with a like minded individual. It would be lovely to have a lasting relationship with the right person but i understand this takes time to develop. Having a connection with someone is really what im seeking. If you like what you're read or my pictures send a message

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Submissive
96% Boy/Girl
95% Degradee
91% Rope bunny
78% Experimentalist
77% Exhibitionist
77% Brat
75% Masochist
73% Ageplayer
70% Voyeur
62% Slave
60% Non-monogamist
44% Vanilla
23% Primal (Prey)
15% Pet
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Sadist
0% Switch

New to this..here to explore my kinky side in a safe way. I'm submissive by nature and don't like to switch so I'm looking for someone that can bring my submissive side to another level.
I find it hard to find like minded people so thought this would be a good place to be able to be myself

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Brat
100% Rope bunny
100% Boy/Girl
85% Voyeur
80% Primal (Prey)
79% Slave
76% Masochist
75% Pet
71% Exhibitionist
69% Experimentalist
68% Degradee
46% Ageplayer
43% Vanilla
10% Non-monogamist
2% Primal (Hunter)
1% Brat tamer
1% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
0% Switch

What I look for in a service submissive is not what I need in a sadist top.

I like to work up to intense sex and play, and I need a sadist willing to go there. Someone who isn't going to pussy out because he's afraid there might be consent accusations the following week.

I am very clear in my communication. I don't like being ambiguous, but I'm new to the site and not yet sure what verbiage is and isn't allowed.

I'm looking for a sadist with appetites to match the hypersexual masochist in me.

I don't want or need endless cuddling. In fact, I'm more the "whip me, fuck me, and then GO AWAY" type.

I cannot host. Ever. To start, I do not play in private. There are, however, several swinger venues around NYC. I'm a regular at one of them, with easy access to two or three others I know of.

What I am offering is the ultimate symbiotic sadist/masochist "friends with benefits" arrangement.

I do not want any kind of long term committed relationship. I just got out of 30 years of marriages. I'm free and will continue to be free.

Looking for academics or creative men who like non consent, bondage, mind-control, ***, and total power exchange. I need to be controlled and objectified and used. Chicago proper only. Very few limits, but not a masochist.

I am very new to the BDSM scene and want to learn and explore my boundaries. I am submissive and masochistic and not sure if I fit into any other categories. I'm not sure how submissive or masochistic I am but i know that i do need to relinquish control.

I think I am too extreme of a slut for you to handle. And I am the kinkiest most perverted man you will ever meet in your entire life. There are very few women who can even come close to handling me. Do you honestly believe you can handle me?

I have live videos of just what an extremely sadistic and cruel mistress can do to me in live, real action.

Extreme masochist. No limits at all, will do absolutely anything.

In BDSM most entire life. Very experienced.

I am an extreme masochist with absolutely no limits at all, I will let you do absolutely anything you desire to do to me. I like cock and ball , I like having my dick beaten with floggers and leather paddles. I like for a woman to piss and shit into my mouth. I like licking the crack of a woman's ass, I like brutal and savage ass beatings with paddles, whips, canes and floggers, I like being fucked in my asshole with the largest and thickest dildos you can locate. I can currently take a 12 inch dick and getting larger all the time. I want to be able to accept a 4 1/2 inch thick dildo in my asshole before I stop stretching it.

What kind of kinky things do you fantasize about doing? I can satisfy all of your deepest, darkest, most secret cravings, desires, fetishes, and fantasies,and kinky desires. in fact I absolutely guarantee that I will satisfy all your deepest, darkest, most secret cravings, desires, fetishes, and fantasies. I am the kinkiest man you will ever meet in your entire life. I will also perform sexual activities on men and let them perform sexual activities on me as well as performing sexual activities with single women, couples, and transgenders.

I will do absolutely anything that you desire for me to do to you as well. I will say yes to absolutely everything in the entire world. You will never hear the word no come out of my mouth, ever.

My Ideal Person The most extreme sadistic mistress I can locate.

Old & Fat, But Very Experienced, strict but fair Dom, with a variety of home-made equipment & toys, requires an eager masochistic female for regular visits, (Twice Monthly) to partake in *** & pleasure sessions.
You must be adventurous, curious and open minded, these qualities must be coupled with a love of TPE.
FEMALE SUBS ONLY!!!!! However, I will consider sub/sub Couples. Will also do D/lg. & FFM.
You must be willing to travel. I can accommodate.
I do make my own implements with one thing in mind, and that is to hurt like a bitch!! So if you think you can handle them. Come on try them out!!

Second hand man....a very long way from used up....in better condition than most 20 years younger. Very physical. Having been born on a farm and been a boy scout, am told skilled in many aspects...knots and lashings, restraining methods, intensity control, oral lubrication checks, high speed and low speed servicing. Highly efficient at both quick fixes and long, slow, thorough servicing.....

It seems I have reached a point in my life where I want a long term partner. Someone to share my life and explore the world with.
My preference is for a submissive but playful or bratty girl. Over the years I have enjoyed all levels of the D/s relationship so am happy at any level...
I want to find someone who likes to travel, appreciates good food and drink, is outgoing, with a generally happy demeanor and obviously someone who enjoys an interesting and varied sex life.

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89% Master/Mistress
88% Primal (Predator)
84% Non-monogamist
84% Voyeur
63% Primal (Prey)
59% Bondage Receiver
41% Exhibitionist
40% Giver
34% Sadist
24% Switch
21% Vanilla
5% Submissive
4% Receiver
4% Masochist
0% All-Rounder
0% Slave

Im 25 bisexual passive kitty. I like pet play,being slave. I want to try lot of thinks. Im masochist. If you wanna play just text i like kinky play. Im a little shy but really naught in bed. We can do lot of crazy staff. My fantasy is kinky seks in public places

Tall, handsome, well-built, articulate, intelligent, yet often grossly inaccurate man, 38.

Cynics (and some cheap psychiatrists) may say ‘pathological liar’, but I prefer ‘creative with reality’.

Despite being half Cornish, physically has perquisite normal number of arms, legs, teeth and fingers (mostly non-webbed).

Comes complete with sense of humour, unfortunately an acquired taste as is so dry it is desiccated, so gags often useful. Will admit to being a masochist, which is probably why it works in a career that involves political machinations and being shouted at by angry people in public meetings. Career choice also ensures plenty of verbal , and begging, so only natural this carries over into other areas of life.

Comfortable discussing things over a bottle of wine in a nice restaurant or chained naked on the floor (wine optional) but understand conversation may be more controlled in the latter than the former.

Why not join me in my 36-bedroomed mansion on my estate, set in 400 acres of wild stag-populated woodland in Northumberland? Other venues available and possibly more easily accessible.

Not frightened of rejection (see job description above) but can offer good company and sometimes amusing anecdotes.