Please answer these questions when you contact me
I can not fracking wait to meet you!

Age/Location, please don't reach out if you are younger than 35.
Committed to quickly meet in a reasonable time frame? If you are out of town, are you able and ready to visit me within 2-8 weeks? Long distance is ok, if temporary and you can visit regularly. I will not play online if we have not met in person and are not in a relationship where I control the pace.
Looking for a monogamous FLR both ways? I am not looking for a cuck, as it immediately puts your primary want as the relationship priority. I'm looking for a female-led relationship.
Attracted to BBW's? (I'm a size 26. Tell me you googled it when you reach out)
For-reals single?
Educated, respectful, and stable?
Are you smoke and drug-free? I have asthma, any smoke will not work.
Are you Christian or comfortable if I attend church and talk about it?
Willing to spend the time (here, then WhatsApp, video chat, visit) to get to know ME before diving into all things kink? I have purposely NOT included all my kinks in the into sections.
The two biggest things you can do to impress me is to be steady in your communication and believe it or not, here is the sticking point for almost everyone, just be respectful! I'm professional, own my own home, and I don't have any kiddos. I have an MBA; I am serious and intellectual when I need to be and if the situation requires. A relationship (physical and emotional) takes time for me to build. I will NOT have sex until I understand that we are both looking for a relationship and giving us a chance. I have not had a lot of partners.

Hard Limits: 3rd parties, scat, , permanent marks, s, kids, , incest play, diaper play, photographs/videos of scenes, BBW , and neglect and silence.

Kinky Date35 to 80 years ● 400km around USA, Madison one week ago

Hello!

About me (not kinky):

I'm a 29 year old based in central Massachusetts who's hobbies include road biking, manga and anime, rock climbing (new for me and excited to explore it with someone!) literature, horror movies, art (creating and appreciating), and video games. In my professional life I work in health care. What I think I'd want someone reading my personal to know about me is that I'd describe myself as someone for whom emotional and intellectual connection and compatibility are both very important. I've spent a long time trying to decide if I lean more introvert or extrovert and I think I've finally decided I'm somewhere in the middle. I think I am a patient and empathetic person, and I really value empathy in the people I meet.

About me (Kinky edition):

I am new to the scene. I've attended a few munches over the years but life circumstance has kept me out of really exploring kink for a long time, but now I'm looking to see if I can't develop this side of myself. At this point I'd describe myself as a switch. There's a few different aspects of kink that I think draw me in in particular: the hedonistic side of things - I want to have vivid sensory experiences with kink. The honesty - I feel like two people getting kinky with each other are doing their best to approach each other openly and honestly without judgment about their desires, and I'm drawn to that openness. And the tasks - I'm a detail oriented person, I like to tinker and fiddle, and I feel like kink gives me an opportunity to express that side of myself in the bedroom.

What am I looking for?

First and foremost I don't feel I'm at a place in my life where right now I'm looking for my long term life partner. If that is what you are seeking I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I'm looking for a more casual connection that has the space in it to explore and let us both grow in understanding our kinky sides. I would still very much like to have an emotional connection, to get along outside of the bedroom and spend quality time together. What I would imagine this would look like is messaging and chatting first, just to see if it feels like we have any conversational chemistry, and then from there seeing if we feel like we are comfortable meeting for some casual non-kinky dates and seeing if that chemistry holds up in person.


Thank you for taking the time to read all this. If it peaks your interest please shoot me a message, and if not I hope you find someone who does tick your boxes.

Kinky Date22 to 39 years ● 100km around USA, Worcester 06.05.2024 - 01.06.2024

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