My Shibari journey began nearly a decade ago, I will never claim to know everything because there will always be more to discover if our minds have that openness to observe without judgement and decide what elements bring pleasure to the table.

My passion for shibari is driven by the rules of shibari. Which is to use the ropes correctly.

Safe. Sane and Sensual.

I can create restraint, predicament bondage easily. However, I don't do suspension.

I'm into creating sensory experiences for the pleasure of the receiver.

I have a Pick & Mix collection of Crops & Suede Floggers and a broad veriety of toy's to ensure the receiver will not be able to predict what's coming next.

I'm looking for a RopeBunny who wants to receive this kind of attention.

A full tie & tease to the point of no return for your pleasure.

Respecting your boundaries and learning about your limits are top of my list.

Obviously, there is a lot more to me than my passion for shibari. and I hope I've given any RopeBunny wanting to find a genuine connection with a man who's going to respect her, not judge her, always empower her to be who she wants to be. some relevant details.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea.

I'm a complex cocktail of erotic mischief and pleasure.

Looking for a RopeBunny, who wants to be the centre of my attention, creating bespoke erotic ropes, creating rituals together.

I'm not looking for ONS.

I'm genuinely single and have my own flat.

I don't drive, I ride a mountain bike in all weather's all year round. Which has kept me looking younger than I am.

I know I'm 63. Soon to be 64.

It is just a number.

If I knew what I have learned about sex and kink when I was younger. But, then that's why I smile so much more these days.

I've always been kinky about kissing, touching, teasing, taking my time to appreciate the pleasure of touch.

I like the way I have to focus on the ropes and their effect on your body, the sexual tension growing between us.....

Are you a RopeBunny wanting a genuine Rigger?

Are you local to Bristol?

Have I got your attention, and would you like to meet for a coffee to ensure I am who I say I am?

If that's a Yes! To all the questions.

I would like to hear from you and see what we can do about it.

Respect
Jonathan x

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Bristol

An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.

We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.

Structure & Energy

Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions

Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries

A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual

Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately


During the Scene

I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:

-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control

-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded

-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction


My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:

-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)

-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits

-Verbal and that reins her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)

-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance


Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.


Care & After

Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved

Emotional check-ins and accountability

Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate


What Matters Most

We are looking for someone who understands that:

CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license

Consent is ongoing and revocable

is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless

Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect


Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.


Please read our bio before sending me a DM

BDSM Play Partner29 to 59 years ● 140km around USA Richmond

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