I’m an experienced Dominant with over a decade in the lifestyle. I know what I’m doing — and more importantly, I know what you need. This offer is for a single, consensual scene: negotiated thoroughly, executed with precision, and left exactly where it belongs — in the realm of memory, intensity, and control.

My profile on Reddit is u/davthedominant3 if you want to see my experience.
I bring skill, presence, and the kind of calm authority that doesn’t need to shout. You bring honesty, readiness, and the ability to communicate your limits clearly. I don't demand perfection — I demand truth. I will push you, safely. I will leave you marked, maybe not on your skin, but somewhere you’ll feel for days.

The first time we meet, i promise to make it the wettest night while keeping complete discretion. I am mostly into mentally dominating the person along with physical, so if you are someone who needs a mental angle to play we will be a good fit.

You want me to take you in My hand. You want me to feed you cock and cum. You enjoy being controlled and you absolutely love sucking cock - either one is enough for you to start getting wet.

So, fine, I'll take control. I'll have you kneel for me. Perhaps a hand on your throat. Not gripping or choking, but just steering you. Directing you down to your knees.

That hand stays in contact with you. Only breaking that contact briefly so that I can stand behind you and cuff your wrists together.

One hand holds your hair by its roots, and tilts your head back. And the other spreads across your mouth and nose. Hands directing your movement, controlling your positioning and your breathing. If I'm in control the choice isn't yours, remember?

No strings. No drama. Just a controlled fall into something darker, cleaner, and more exact than anything the everyday world allows.

This is for the submissive woman who wants to give up control — fully, for once — to someone who knows how to hold it.

If this resonates, speak. If it scares you a little, good. That means you're paying attention.

I have a busy life and understand you well too. I am looking to find a safe, discreet kinky space for us both to live our wildest kinks. My profile shows my experience and how scores of woman have felt fulfilled with me. I travel a lot for work and have made sluts across multiple countries.

Kinks for you are a way to experience life in new ways, and I will guide you in this journey. Imagine yourself as a pet in a maze of sexual experiences, running around trying to get out only to realize you love being in the maze.

You by now know that I am going to be a dom you crave, so why don’t you do the good job of introducing yourself?

Kinks: Hucow, , , pet play, impact play, orgasm control, sexualisation of normal things, body watering and lots more

My reviews (Some of these girls are on my profile) "This is so addictive" "I have never been this wet so easily" "AAAA AAA" "Omg that was the best orgasm" Few of these girls verified pics are also up (I only post girls that consent to be posted)

(Safe words will be discussed at start)

NSA5km around USA Chicago

Ahoy!

I'm a 34-year-old male from Connecticut, looking for a switch female partner from New England or NY. My goal is to connect on an emotional and mature level, with shared interests in both kink and vanilla aspects of life. I want to find someone to share both the good times and the bad, growing stronger together.

What I'm Looking For:

  • Connection:

    Laughter, romance, love, and trust.

  • Priorities:

    While dating, I want to be your second priority. Your primary focus should be on yourself, your life, and your future, as mine is on me and mine. Happiness and security alone are crucial to finding them together.

  • Philosophy of Love:

    Love is an offering, not possession. It's about offering joy and easing suffering, requiring empathy and mutual sharing.

    Getting to Know Each Other:


    Once we've established trust and honesty through chatting, I'd love to meet in person, perhaps for a meal or a fun outing. Exploring new places, like a forest, would be a great way to bond.

    About Me:

  • Switch: I embrace both Dominant and Submissive roles, trusting that our compatibility will lead to a satisfying experience.
    My honest disclosure is meant to build acceptance of my nature.
  • Communication: A relationship should be a two-way street. Both partners need to be willing to compromise and fulfill each other's needs.

    Interests:

  • Gaming: PC games and Dungeons & Dragons (3.5 & 5th edition).
  • Outdoor Activities: Hiking, bonfire nights, and exploring nature.

  • Reading:

    Fantasy novels like The Legend of Drizzt, Harry Potter, Eragon, A Song of Ice & Fire, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, and the Mistborn trilogy. The Magicians, The Last Kingdom.

  • s:

    I love
    s, especially dogs. I currently own a Yellow Belly Slider Turtle named Tokka and a cat named Munch.

    Hard Limits:

  • No hard-partying or daily drinking.
  • Preference for partners under 200 lbs.

    Communication:

    I'm looking for meaningful conversations where both parties are actively engaged. I'm not a kink dispenser; I want a romantic relationship with love and kinks.

    Instructions:

    If you've read this far, start your message with "Achievement unlocked" and include some basic information about yourself.

    Thank you for taking the time to get to know me!

BDSM Play Partner21 to 44 years ● 165km around USA Plymouth

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