Name: Kate
Age: 20
Little Age: 2–4
Role: Little/ABDL, Submissive (eager to learn)
Location: London, UK
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: A Mommy Domme, Daddy Dom, or both (24–40 years old)
Relationship Status: Single (no prior partners)

About Me as a Little

I’m a playful, affectionate, and curious Little, still discovering the joys and comforts of this side of myself. My Little space is a safe haven where I can let my guard down, feel deeply cared for, and explore my childlike side. Whether it’s coloring, snuggling my stuffed ***s, or watching cartoons, I find comfort and happiness in loving and nurturing environments.

While I can be mischievous and curious, I thrive with kindness, firm boundaries, and consistent guidance. I’m looking for a caregiver who can create a loving, structured space where I feel cherished, safe, and small. I’m open to having either a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, as long as they are nurturing, patient, and committed to creating a supportive environment for me to thrive in.

About Me as a Submissive

Beyond my Little side, I’m also eager to explore and grow as a submissive. Though I’m new to this dynamic, I’m open-minded, willing to learn, and excited to embrace this side of myself under the guidance of a patient and experienced caregiver.

I hope to develop a dynamic that blends nurturing care with structured dominance, where I can feel supported and encouraged while also embracing the discipline, boundaries, and challenges that help me grow as a submissive. I value mutual respect and communication and am committed to learning and thriving in a safe, loving environment. Whether I have a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, I seek caregivers who can guide me in all aspects of my journey.

What I’m Looking For in a Caregiver

I dream of a Mommy and/or Daddy who are nurturing, patient, and share a passion for caregiving while also guiding me as a submissive. Together, you:

  1. Offer a Balance of Love and Structure: You create a harmonious environment filled with affection, guidance, and opportunities for growth.
  2. Enjoy Caregiving Together: You find joy in sharing responsibilities, from cuddling during cartoons to engaging in playful activities that make me feel secure and special.
  3. Encourage Submissive Growth: You guide me with kindness and firmness, helping me navigate and flourish in both my Little and submissive roles.
  4. Communicate and Respect Boundaries: You value open dialogue and mutual trust, always respecting my limits and ensuring I feel safe.
  5. Seek a Meaningful, Long-Term Connection: You’re interested in building a strong, lasting bond that grows with time, trust, and care.

    What I Offer as a Little and Submissive

    As your devoted Little and submissive, I’ll bring:
    • Playfulness: Endless giggles, cuddles, and affection to brighten your days.
    • Loyalty and Love: A deep appreciation for the love and care you provide, and a desire to give back through affection and gratitude.
    • Curiosity and Growth: Eagerness to learn and grow, both as a Little and as a submissive, with your guidance and support.
    • Dedication: A commitment to building trust, following rules, and contributing to a loving, balanced dynamic.

    My Favorite Little Space Activities
    • Cartoons: I adore Peppa Pig, Bluey, Barbie, and other happy, colorful shows.
    • Creative Play: Coloring, playing with dolls or stuffed s, and imaginative activities.
    • Baby Items: Pacifiers, bottles, bibs, and cozy outfits that make me feel secure.
    • Caregiving Moments: Being fed,
    , or cuddled while you read to me.
    • Structure and Discipline: Routines, reward charts, and gentle guidance help me feel safe and loved.

    About Me as an Adult

    Outside my Little space, I’m a 20-year-old student living in London. I’m passionate about creative hobbies like drawing and enjoy activities like martial arts and basketball. I’m also a huge fan of anime and manga, which inspire my artistic work.

    I’ve faced challenges with anxiety and past trauma, but I’m focused on growth and building meaningful relationships based on trust, care, and mutual support.

    What I Need From You

    Whether you’re a Mommy, Daddy, or both, I hope you can provide a nurturing, structured, and safe environment where I can explore my Little and submissive sides. I’m looking for caregivers who are patient, understanding, and committed to my growth. What I need from you includes:
    • Kindness and Patience: A caregiver who enjoys nurturing and guiding their Little while helping her grow as a submissive.
    • Respect for Boundaries: My Little side is strictly non-sexual. I need caregivers who honor my limits and safe words.
    • Consistency and Structure: Loving routines and structured caregiving to help me feel secure and thrive.
    • Guidance for Submissive Growth: Gentle yet firm leadership that encourages me to explore and develop my submissive side in a safe, supportive way.
    • Time and Effort: You’re willing to dedicate time to building a close, affectionate, and trusting family dynamic.

    Important Notes
    I’m seeking a caregiver or caregivers based in the UK who are open to starting with online communication and transitioning to an in-person dynamic as trust is built. This relationship is non-sexual in Little space but filled with affection, emotional connection, and long-term intentions.

    If you’re a caring and dedicated Mommy, Daddy, or both looking for a devoted Little and eager submissive to join your family, I’d love to hear from you! Please share a bit about yourselves when you reach out so we can start getting to know each other.

    Thank you for taking the time to my profile~I’m excited to begin this with the right caregiver by my side.


    Warm hugs and Cuddles,

    Diana

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 44 years ● 235km around UK London

Name That Vegetable

The aim of this game is to take the name of a vegetable and keep me from guessing the answer.

However, this game is about , sadistic ideas and crying. Mainly crying.

Rules of the game
1: A selection of names of common vegetables will be written by you on identical paper and placed into a box. Once selected, this is your given vegetable, and you must not tell me the name of this vegetable at all costs. You must not lie about the name of the vegetable if guessed correctly. However, I do only have 3 guesses.
You may divert and deceive your given answers to clues, i.e your vegetable is carrot, but if I asked you if the vegetable is the colour orange, you can say no. But I do not have to believe you.
You cannot change your vegetable once picked as this will hinder the true outcome and make the game less fun. Your answer will be kept safe away from me so I cannot cheat and to prove your answer at the end.

2: The session is to last no more than (24 or 48) hours, my goal is to get the answer from you within the time limit. Your goal is to keep it from me.
Unfortunately, this is a game of
and interrogation. There will be crying.
methods and limits can be discussed.
methods can include:
Shouting
Intimidation
Waterboarding
Stress positions
Hurty objects
Toilet restrictions
Sleep deprivation
deprivation
3: Limits of play

Hard limits are to be respected, soft limits are to be explored.
Two 15-minute time outs are allowed in 24 hours and Six 15-minuate time outs in 48 hours, use them wisely. (Safeword stops all play)
Crying isn’t a safe word!
I will ensure your safety during all play. This is to be a fun and exciting game.
Know your own limits, know when it’s getting too much, don’t be brave to win. Tapping out doesn’t mean you lose, it means we’ve found your limit!

Expectations
Restraints, lots of them, and for you to try and escape. I don’t think you will escape, but it’ll be fun to watch.
, obviously.

For me to win!

(I'm open to feedback/offers)

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 160km around UK Redcar and Cleveland

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