PLEASE ONLY MESSAGE ME IF

  • YOU HAVE READ AND COMPREHENDED MY ENTIRE PROFILE
  • YOU LIVE LESS THAN AN HOUR FROM THE LANCASTERMANHEIM AREA
  • YOU ARE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 32 AND 52
  • YOU ARE NOT ATTACHED IN ANY OTHER WAY
  • NO OR HAVE FLOWN THE COUP
  • YOU HAVE A DRIVERS LICENSE, CAR, MEANS OF INCOME, PLACE TO RESIDE
    (I am merely looking for someone with, at the very least, the same amount of adult responsibility that I have. I cannot believe that I have to request this, but the amount of people, my age and older that have none of those is astounding.)

    My tag line is pretty much how I wish to live my life, and is also a quote from one of my favorite movies.

    I have been involved within this lifestyle for all of my adult life about 20 years of experiences and as always, the journey has led me down many paths, and it is always ever changing.

    Im smart enough to know what I want and need, and open minded enough to know that I still have much to learn.

    I have become jaded with the lifestyle over my years of involvement, and perhaps I do have a bit of a chip on my shoulder.

    While I may identify as submissive on the lifestyle spectrum, it does not mean that I am this way with random internet strangers. Take the time to talk to me, show interest in wanting to know me, and the rest will follow.

    I am only seeking long term situations. I would, for the right match, make of them the axis that my world spins upon.

    I have been on the submissive end of the spectrum for the majority of my involvement in the lifestyle. Some of my happiest times were when I was involved in a 247live insubmissivegirlfriendwife.

    I have also experimented, and found a fondness, for the top end of the spectrum for situational play. This is usually just for play or fun. For me, it can almost be described as being a service top.

    For me, the lifestyle is so much more than the physical. For me the mental and connection is more important than the physical.

    I am NOT motivated or focused on sex and physical play. If you are only here to get your rocks off, please, just pass me by.

    On the physicalkink side of things, the activities I enjoy, in time with someone, range from flogging, cell popping, sensation play, orgasm , deep thuddy play, and especially on the top side - tease and denial.

    For non-kink interests...
    I am a taphophile at heart and am genuinely intrigued by, obsessed with, addicted to, have a strong appreciation and respect for etc. all things regarding taphophilia, death, dead things, mourning, grieving, cemeteries, etc. These interests CAN and DO filter over into my kink life in varying degrees. Always happy to talk more in private about them.

    I do have hobbies (addictions), inlcuding WoW (TaphNoir1200), horror movies, industrial and metal music, bellydancing (to industrial and metal music), reading, coloring, enjoying nature, crocheting, playing various boardcard games and am a VERY casual Magic The Gathering player.

    I have a strange sense of humor, use sarcasm as my second language and am a shining example of an introvert.

    Im also a hobbyist artist, mainly
    ting various whimsical things on stone, with a focus on dragon eyes.

    I am lightly tattooed, and have small gauges in both of my ears as well as a daith piercing.

    Yes, I am pale, chubby, freckled, crazy fuzzy chemo-hair regrowth, I have scars, I have health ailments, I have physical limitations for bondage, and am nowhere near the most gorgeous thing youll see. In saying these things I wish to get the physically focused, all about the look people out of the way.

    I also have a few health ailments including Diabetes, Intracranial Hypertension, and am currently in remission from Ovarian Cancer as of 3419.

    I am looking for a legit connection with someone for something long term and lasting.

    I have NO interest in hookups, merely play partners, etc.

    I look forward to any sincere messages.

Kinky Date32 to 52 years ● 50km around USA Manheim

It would appear I can't reply to messages which really is a shame.The gorgeous Dom's who have taken the trouble to contact me deserve my attention and I'm really sorry I can't reply. 💋My perfect would i would be the sexual submissive in a relationship. I am gay and identify as a sissy . I am probably trans and enjoy wearing feminine clothes. What I would like is to be in a relationship, both sexual and loving and hopefully long term. My day's of casual sex are hopefully over. I am retired and I will try to explain this part delicately, available on a daily , weekly, monthly basis. In a caring relationship I am available 24/7. My interests ? Outside of taking care of the needs of a Man I enjoy hiking, visiting historical sites and visiting nudist beaches when the weather is warm. To be honest I have a very limited experience of the BDSM scene but being in a vanilla relationship isn't for me. My need to be sexually Dominated is overpowering and that is why I have chosen to be on this site. My limits? Honest answer is I don't know but it would be fun finding out. I adore Men and cock, frequently play with anal sex toys and really enjoy it. I was ed in a gay pub once when a Guy squeezed my bum.so hard I couldn't move, let alone protest, and I really enjoyed the .. It's fair to assume I am perfectly fine with being degraded . I own my own home but would prefer to spend a lot of time in yours. Definitely not looking for casual sex but saying that I enjoy being the filling in a sandwich and open to threesomes. I look forward to becoming your obedient partner.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 99 years ● 100km around UK Southampton

Hi to everyone,
I have been divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a sometime daddy dominant. Additionally, I have successfully mentored several novice subs.
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment, given that there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship. Ideally, I'd like to meet a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas where we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared kinks. She may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional or one time disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.

Kinky Date18 to 63 years ● 75km around UK Leeds

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