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Fit athletic male here looking for other fit/ average couples or females for exploring and checking off fantasies. I can fit most roles for couples looking to add another. I’m clean and respectful. I know how to satisfy anyone. Open to hotwifes, group fun, bi couples, single females, dommes and subs. Message me if you’re in the tri state area and want to explore this idea. Thanks.

Somebody dominate but I also don’t mind switching roles every once in a while, I think thats hot. Somebody to control me but I will be honest I won’t make it easy as much as I’m a sub I don’t like to give everything to easily so somebody who can handle that would be nice. Also a connection but probably nothing too serious or at all.

When I’m home, I’m usually nude — it’s about comfort and confidence for me. I appreciate authenticity and someone who’s secure in themselves.

I’m drawn to structured dynamics with strong communication and clear roles. If you’re curious, respectful, and ready for something intense but grounded, let’s connect.

Kinky, extrovert and friendly. Looking for someone who enjoys switching the roles and is comfortable and enjoys pegging. I have many kinks to try and have done some.

Looking for someone to teach me their ways into BDSM. Recently discovered how feral it gets me. Willing to try both roles. Very opened my

A submissive whose still learning themselves and willing to take the journey with a Dom whose on the same journey. Someone whose doesn’t want rush straight into the roles, someone who takes the time to know themselves and their partner before actually knowing the other as this title.

I would like to meet someone who knows who they are but is still learning at that same time.

Someone that is down to try things they’ve always wanted to, or even just someone who wants to get into certain roles

Let’s have fun switching roles and let’s dominate degrade control me and have fun with the tool of choice

Freeuse? Cumslut? Daddy’s Babygurl? Several variations and roles, or mixture of could be nice.

Also experimentalist, roleplay, fantasy fulfillment.

Easy going professional male with some kink exposure and open to various roles. An open minded switch, I am looking to connect without someone on a level where we feel totally safe to mutually explore desires and fantasies. Casual but ongoing is what I seek ideally.

Hey, I’m Randy, I live in NYC, and I am 54. I am monogamous, but I am also unconventional, not traditional, not into heteronormative gender roles, and strongly anti-patriarchy.

I’m really interested in meeting either FWB or potential partner who enjoys vaginal fisting and/or extreme dildo play. Preferably 40 YO or older, average body or thin, in NYC (but preferably Brooklyn).

Seekink a confident man who knows what he wants . Into mild BDSM and whatever else we choose between us. Open to suggestions, I can be master or slave, depending on my mood. You must be able to receive it because I do prefer to be the one in charge. We can then switch roles if you so desire...
I like my man well built, and masculine. No babies or geriatrics, please.
Casual discreet hookups are desirable due to my status.

I am an experienced Daddy Dom who leads with steadiness, emotional intelligence, and real world maturity. I have spent most of my life in leadership and mentorship roles, and that calm authority carries naturally into my dynamics. I value trust, structure, and clear communication over theatrics or rushing. Im fun, silly, gamer, reader, chef, traveler, teacher, Trainer.

I am comfortable with distance and know how to maintain connection through consistency, presence, and follow through. I show up. I check in. I create safety and grounding through reliability, not pressure. Care and authority are not opposites to me. They work together.

I am drawn to a submissive who values honesty, reassurance, and growth within a fully consensual dynamic. Someone who wants to feel seen, supported, and guided. Adult only. Connection comes first and everything else builds from there.

Shy submissive sapphic cutie looking for flirts, fun, and ideally someone to make me orgasm so well I forget all about my ex(s).
I am an adventurous nature lesbian, curvy in all the right places, and am curious and open minded when it comes to kink. I'm still learning my boundaries. I'm switchy but prefer to fall into submissive roles.
I know I'm a lot of fun and I am hoping to find someone(s).to share that with.

An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.

We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.

Structure & Energy

Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions

Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries

A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual

Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately


During the Scene

I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:

-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control

-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded

-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction


My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:

-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)

-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits

-Verbal and that reins her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)

-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance


Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.


Care & After

Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved

Emotional check-ins and accountability

Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate


What Matters Most

We are looking for someone who understands that:

CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license

Consent is ongoing and revocable

is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless

Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect


Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.


Please read our bio before sending me a DM

Are you looking for someone who will tease, spoil, and put you in your place? Someone to dominate you and make you beg?
Me and my Girlfriend are looking for a third to play with. Both open to nsa and permanent roles (only if you beg nicely)
Ive already broken in one, I bet I can break you in too.
Looking for someone I can spoil on a date, take home, and ruin. I want to be your god.

Just looking for some who wants to live hard and play hard.
Sadistic pleasure dom but do enjoy other roles aswell.
A cute smile and a wicked tongue
A bottom that can take my hand and a voice that I wish to hear.
Don’t be boring and be willing to talk.
I shall be you protector and predator

currently yearning for someone to spoil with attention and gifts in exchange for absolute control over them. head, dick, whatever else you want that makes you feel appreciated. just let me use you, and we can switch roles if you'd prefer

Through this practice — through presence, discipline, and the depth of my dominance —
I awaken what lies beneath your layers.
Everything you do to control yourself and others —
the strategies, the tension, the carefully managed behavior —
I dissolve progressively and relentlessly, one layer at a time.

Steadily and deliberately,
I guide you into that space where you no longer need the roles that once protected you,
where the pretending dissolves,
and your true self steps forward —
open, ***, unfiltered.

And when your eyes meet mine in that moment,
I see something rare:
your essence calling to mine,
your vulnerability reflecting my own.

From that truth,
I gather you with tenderness,
hold you,
and protect the part of you
that is finally free to breathe.

The submissive identity fades,
and the princess emerges.

Now I know who you are.
And you know who I am.

Our connection lives beyond dominance and submission.
It lives in the recognition of two beings
who meet without masks.

Through this practice — through presence, discipline, and the depth of my dominance —
I awaken what lies beneath your layers.
Everything you do to control yourself and others —
the strategies, the tension, the carefully managed behavior —
I dissolve progressively and relentlessly, one layer at a time.

Steadily and deliberately,
I guide you into that space where you no longer need the roles that once protected you,
where the pretending dissolves,
and your true self steps forward —
open, ***, unfiltered.

And when your eyes meet mine in that moment,
I see something rare:
your essence calling to mine,
your vulnerability reflecting my own.

From that truth,
I gather you with tenderness,
hold you,
and protect the part of you
that is finally free to breathe.

The submissive identity fades,
and the princess emerges.

Now I know who you are.
And you know who I am.

Our connection lives beyond dominance and submission.
It lives in the recognition of two beings
who meet without masks.