I am a confident, experienced Domme who thrives on control, structure, and intensity. Power exchange for me is not a game—it’s an art, a connection built on trust, devotion, and discipline. I command respect, and I give clarity, direction, and care in return.

I am seeking a genuine submissive—someone who finds fulfillment in surrender, obedience, and devotion. Loyalty is non‑negotiable; if you are not ready to give yourself fully, do not waste my time. What I offer in return is a clear structure, my guidance, and the stability of a relationship where roles are truly respected.
What I Value in a Submissive

Complete honesty and loyalty

Willingness to learn, grow, and accept discipline

Politeness, attentiveness, and eagerness to serve

Emotional openness and the ability to build lasting trust

About You

You crave structure and feel centered when boundaries and rules guide you. You understand that service is an honor, not a burden. Whether through obedience, personal tasks, discipline, or deeper forms of surrender, your pleasure comes from pleasing me.
What I Offer

A strict but caring hand to guide and mold you

Genuine power exchange rooted in trust, not games

A mix of discipline, training, and rewards for earned devotion

Space for emotional, mental, and physical growth under my direction

If you are truly ready to surrender, step forward with respect and authenticity. In return, you’ll discover the satisfaction of serving a strong, commanding woman who knows exactly what she wants.

Pro-Dom/me Session33 to 75 years ● 150km around USA Nashville

If your goal is quick hookups, casual meetups, or free-flowing erotic content—I am not your playground. I will not be sending photos or videos for your entertainment. If that’s all you’re after… scroll on. [addition: this is a hard limit for me, anyone requesting photos will be blocked. I will choose when and at what stage i am happy to progress to sharing my irl life with an online dynamic, if this is not acceptable, then do not engage]

For those still reading: I am happy to engage in remote toy play, though I am not seeking in-person meetings in the near future. If the dynamic, relationship, or interactions ever reached a point where meeting in person or sharing media became relevant, that could be discussed—but only if I feel a genuine connection worth sharing.

I am a fully submissive woman with strong masochistic tendencies, craving the nuanced interplay of intellectual and physical dominance from a partner who may be a sadist, a Daddy, or a Sir/Master. I thrive in dynamic, mentally stimulating interactions where words, gestures, and intent carry weight, where obedience is never hollow, and commands are meaningful because they are earned and understood.

I am flirtatious, bright, and capable of filthy indulgence when the moment calls for it, yet I also carry a quiet need for care. I crave a Daddy who can guide, nurture, and attend to the subtler layers of a submissive’s mind and heart, helping me find comfort even in moments I struggle to reach it myself.

My submission is genuine—I to it. I carry a spark of oppositional defiance, but that fire exists to be challenged, directed, and ultimately consumed by a Sir or Master who truly understands the art of dominance beyond s***w orders. I also recognize that obedience cannot be inspired through ego alone, but through mastery, presence, and the ability to balance intellect and control.

If you can navigate that delicate interplay—acknowledging each person’s unique moods and needs as much as I do—then perhaps you are the one, or the ones, I am searching for. I am open to these roles being fulfilled by different individuals if no single person embodies them all, as long as each connection is respectful, attentive, and thoughtfully dominant.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 60 years ● 500km around UK Exeter

Hi I'm Goddess Kitty 🐈‍⬛✨A Dominant Kitten looking for obedient worshipers to serve as my minions in the DC Baltimore Area I don't like my time wasted so let's get straight to the point

I'm looking for Service Oriented Submission from good boys only:

  1. 🐕‍🦺 Guard Dog / Bodyguard ~ Collared, obedient, protective. You’ll follow me everywhere, events, outings, even the bathroom. Always ready, silent unless commanded to bark, keeping me safe and adored.

  2. 🚘 Chauffeur ~ Drive me anywhere I wish, whenever I wish. A Goddess should never have to worry about getting anywhere. An up-to-date clean vehicle is required for this position.

  3. 💇🏾‍♀️ Hair Carebear ~ Wash, detangle, braid, wrap, and style my crown exactly as I command. Massage my scalp until I purr. Treat every strand like silk spun from divinity. This is a weekly devotion.

  4. 💸 *** / Cash Cow / Human ATM ~ Your wallet is my property this week. I drain you until all you have left is enough to pay your bills. You’ll fund my pleasures, my projects, my needs of the week. I’m not stopping until I decide you’re empty.

  5. 🏡 Cuck Host ~ Provide me with a kinky safe space to play, create content, and escape vanilla life. Cucks worship from the sidelines and serve upon command. My comfort and creativity cums first.

    I have more holes I- I mean roles to be filled🤭 but this is what I'm looking for at the moment. I'm looking for actual players who want to submit to me👸🏾Not someone who just wants a quick taste. Go waste somebody else's time. I do not respond to just anyone. I only respond to respectful messages of intent. *💵 30

    Not looking for a dominant these are submissive roles**

BDSM/Fetish Family21 to 45 years USA Glen Burnie

40, Indian man exploring true submission and embracing the cuckolding lifestyle in a committed, non-traditional relationship. Highly adventurous, looking for a dominant partner willing to explore swinging, gangbangs, and a high degree of exposure/exhibitionism. I open myself fully, asking to be ‘taken’ – licking you clean, taken daily, submitting without hesitation. Ready to relinquish control completely, live to fulfill your desires, accept orders, playful punishment(no experience yet, absolutely committed), and experience humiliating chastity as proof of my devotion. Need an honest wife/dominant partner who understands and actively partakes in strong dominant/submissive power exchange, views my cuckolding fantasy as essential to us, and can lead us in adventurous roles for others. Seeking someone dedicated to an open lifestyle where they prioritize your happiness above all.

I find deep fulfillment and connection within a dynamic based on mutual respect, clear communication, and consensual exploration, where a partner’s freedom and pleasure are celebrated and supported (within passionately agreed-upon boundaries).

I believe trust and compersion are the foundations of this journey. I aim to be a reliable, supportive, and affectionate partner who prioritizes your well-being and empowerment within a committed FLR structure. I value emotional honesty, humor, and building a genuine bond that extends beyond the dynamic.

I’m drawn to confident, communicative, and emotionally intelligent women who desire a devoted companion. Kindness and respect are non-negotiable for me. I believe the best connections happen after investing time in authentic conversations to ensure compatibility and mutual goals.

Let’s connect if you value emotional depth, respect, and exploring this dynamic with someone patient and devoted. Discretion is important.

Kinky Date20 to 50 years India Hyderabad

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