Open to casual through to commitment depending on person, circumstance and feels.
Often, I get asked to steer or lead (or even navigate), and that's fun but honestly, that's never been something I would have insisted on. I find topping relatively natural but y'know, it can sometimes lack freshness.
Have always been a fan of certain consensual non-consent games and am now becoming more than curious about the paths not taken.
*NB**: I have no wish to take anyone, anywhere that they do not wish to go, yet I do love intensity, going to extremes, wherever they may be.

Things that interest me start with intensity, the kind of connection where getting into someone's head &/or having them in yours seems palpable & very, very personal. I answer to a wide range of fetishes, sensual seduction & intimate, evocative drama/roleplay.
...Allways, in the service of fun.

Often people come to play with roles mapped out. I would speak up in favour of exploration. Discovery can be so hot! ...so can vulnerability. I tend to need to meet a person before I really know the strength or the details of what I'll be interested in. But I'm interested in a lot of things.
That applies should we become casual, considered, or committed. Yes, w' the right person I'm open to any or stepping through them to find out for that matter.

Willing to go just about any place that really works for someone because when it really works for someone, it almost doesn't matter what you are doing but only how well you do it, how big your leap is and how invested you are.
I do have some favourite places though...

Kinky Date26 to 69 years ● 500km around Australia Huntleys Point

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