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31 | 6’2” | Mixed | Dom (can switch)
Newer to the scene, but not new to knowing what I want. Naturally dominant with a strong presence, but I know the value of balance — I can play both roles when the connection’s right.

Based in Queen Creek / San Tan and looking to explore. I’m open-minded, respectful, and all about clear communication and real energy. I don’t chase trends — I build trust, chemistry, and moments that hit deeper.

Looking for like-minded people: subs, switches, or just those curious about kink. No pressure, no bullshit — just honest vibes, good conversation, and the freedom to explore.

Let’s talk limits, let’s talk wants — or just talk.

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Want a version that’s more intense, more flirty, or more low-key? I can dial it to fit your vibe.

I'm a 48-year-old Dominant man with years of experience in D/s dynamics, blending firm leadership with emotional attunement. I naturally gravitate toward the roles of Master, Owner, and DaddyDom, depending on the connection and needs of my submissive.

I’m seeking a submissive woman who craves structure, service, purpose, and passionate affection within a long-term relationship. Someone who finds fulfillment in being devoted, cherished, and challenged. I value communication, consistency, and mutual growth — and I offer safety, strength, and unwavering presence in return.

If you’re emotionally intelligent, eager to surrender without losing your voice, and longing for something real and lasting… you might just belong here.

Discretion, maturity, and clear boundaries are all respected and expected. Let’s begin with honesty — and see if we find resonance.

Ahoy!

I'm a 34-year-old male from Connecticut, looking for a switch female partner from New England or NY. My goal is to connect on an emotional and mature level, with shared interests in both kink and vanilla aspects of life. I want to find someone to share both the good times and the bad, growing stronger together.

What I'm Looking For:

• Connection:
  
  Laughter, romance, love, and trust.
  

• Priorities:
  
  While dating, I want to be your second priority. Your primary focus should be on yourself, your life, and your future, as mine is on me and mine. Happiness and security alone are crucial to finding them together.
  

• Philosophy of Love:
  
  Love is an offering, not possession. It's about offering joy and easing suffering, requiring empathy and mutual sharing.
  

  Getting to Know Each Other:

  
  Once we've established trust and honesty through chatting, I'd love to meet in person, perhaps for a meal or a fun outing. Exploring new places, like a forest, would be a great way to bond.
  

  About Me:

• Switch: I embrace both Dominant and Submissive roles, trusting that our compatibility will lead to a satisfying experience.
  My honest disclosure is meant to build acceptance of my nature.

• Communication: A relationship should be a two-way street. Both partners need to be willing to compromise and fulfill each other's needs.
  

  Interests:

• Gaming: PC games and Dungeons & Dragons (3.5 & 5th edition).

• Outdoor Activities: Hiking, bonfire nights, and exploring nature.
  

• Reading:
  
  Fantasy novels like The Legend of Drizzt, Harry Potter, Eragon, A Song of Ice & Fire, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, and the Mistborn trilogy. The Magicians, The Last Kingdom.
  
  

• s:
  
  I love s, especially dogs. I currently own a Yellow Belly Slider Turtle named Tokka and a cat named Munch.
  

  Hard Limits:

• No hard-partying or daily drinking.

• Preference for partners under 200 lbs.
  

  Communication:

  I'm looking for meaningful conversations where both parties are actively engaged. I'm not a kink dispenser; I want a romantic relationship with love and kinks.
  

  Instructions:

  If you've read this far, start your message with "Achievement unlocked" and include some basic information about yourself.
  
  Thank you for taking the time to get to know me!

i’d like to play with other new members of the community that are exploring sub roles .

I’m drawn to nurturing, generous men who enjoy taking care of a partner in a meaningful way—emotionally, financially, and otherwise. I thrive in relationships where there’s mutual respect and clear roles🥰

Looking for female ejaculation, ***, anything wet fun in lots of different roles as extra-marital affair.

I'm looking to connect with a woman who enjoys being dominant-someone confident, playful, and enjoys taking the lead. Whether you're experienced or just discovering your dominant side, l'd love to explore and learn with you.
That said, I'm also open to switching roles if you're someone who likes being dominated too-I believe in mutual respect and shared fun, no matter the dynamic.
Let's chat, get to know each other, and see where things go—no pressure, just open minds and good vibes.

I enjoy dom/sub roles while out in public roleplay, bondage under clothing, clamps, plugs, etc.

full-time flirt looking for a woman who knows how to play just on the edge of trouble. I’m into connection, chemistry, and a good back-and-forth—whether that’s teasing banter, power exchange, or testing boundaries in the bedroom (or wherever else curiosity takes us).

Switch-friendly, open-minded, and more about vibes than strict roles—I like a bit of everything: light bondage, sensation play, teasing, denial, and especially when you surprise me with what you’re into. Big fan of communication, aftercare, and making sure you’re squirming in all the right ways (and a few wrong ones, too).

Let’s start with a chat, a few wicked ideas, and see where the night takes us.

I rarely apologize because I value safe healthy and consensual .That being said I owe myself a huge apology for allowing myself to be pushed out of a comfort zone having catastrophic results .That being said I prioritize mutual respect as long as the goal is always the same mutual respect in a beneficial environment of fun .and I'm not referring to the one-sided kind .if you have any questions or Curiosities feel free to ask because this is the only information I provide to leave you in the guessing game what roles do I fit in .or should I ask what rules would you like me to fit into maybe I will maybe I won't you won't know unless you try.I have high standards in morels and don't put up with b*** like not having trust because you do not tell the whole transparent authentic truth or you omit things I'm not into anyone who plays like that .

Hi,
I’m a laidback 51 year old male. I’m new to the scene, but I feel like I’m definitely leaning towards being a submissive.
I’m in a sexless marriage, and my wife is very vanilla. For about the last ten years my wife’s libido had been slowly dwindling from, sex once a week, to once a month, now we are to the point of where I’m lucky if we have sex once a year.
I love my wife, and I don’t want to leave her but I also want to have that physical intimacy and closeness with another human being. Masturbation is fine for stress release and relieving sexual frustration but I still crave the physical presence and an intimate connection with another person.

I love giving someone else the gift of an orgasm. It pleases me to know that I can give someone else that pleasure. Pure and simple. I also would really like to know what it feels like to be pegged. So if you’re into pegging or would also like to try pegging, then that would be an added bonus.

I also like going for hikes on trails with my two dogs, I enjoy listening to podcasts and I enjoy having intelligent and interesting conversations.

My top ten favourite music artists are:

The world is a stage they say

Yrsss. How delicious to play with them
There lust sitting below the surface
Hypocritical sounds of tsh tsh
While we play roles of spider and glu
One of them will be given a leading role tonight

So again. My leading lady. Help me wtite the stories. Hold my hand as we seduce our delicious prey tonight

My lady. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🤟🏽🤟🏽🤟🏽🤟🏽🎩🎩🎩🎩

A woman. A teacher. Do what you want Tell me how. If i dont like it i wont do it a second time.

Looking to meet and potentially build relationships with some throwed mfs like myself. Whether that be couples or individual, I'm not picky.

Been in and out of the lifestyle through various intimate relationships over the past 10+ years, serving different roles (primarily Daddy Dom/Switch/ Sub) so I'm open to adaptation.

As a father coming out of a decade-long on-and-off open relationship with my sons mother, I am hoping to learn to not be so "in my head" or cincal about my love/sex life as I have been the past year and a half.

Let me know if you're down to chat. Link-ups are not off the table, just be straight forward with me and I'll reciprocate.

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I'm looking for a very submissive and trustworthy lady; who is attentive and able to listen to me, communicate her feelings to me and respect me.
I'm willing to play my roles and take care of her as long as she's obedient and genuine to me always.

Anyone want to explore ABDL or DDLG? Wanting to explore multiple roles and hopefully meet friends or more along the way

Hi! I've never been with a girl before but want to try it out, I want to be a sub then completely swap roles later on 😈

I want to meet women who loves to receive oral and be dominated. I want to meet men who are of similar interest but will swap rolls of Dom and sub. And very curious about meeting a trans or possible CD. And love to play with couples and prefer to do so above all with that being said the roles of Dom sub top bottom whatever can be negotiated and put the place during the meeting or a conversations leading up to play. I have many many fetishes too many to list at this time

-LTR DOMINANT-

I'm trying to become an assassin in the gym 🤪. Looking for the Bane to my POISON IVY, the ow in my meow, Rodger to my Jessica. Someone who has there own disciplines and focuses in the gym.

If u like to laugh and genuinely like having an enjoyable time and u are able to communicate fully and value honesty, transparency, healthy boundaries and ur ready for someone real and deep then I say,

Its been sometime since i had one that was worthy of my talents, skills and loyalty. And actually knew what he was doing. I prefer my personal Male partner to be a high EI HOLISTIC ALPHA between 39-58 above 5.8" muscular built. Gymrat is a (+)( fit life is a must ). I am a "JUICE" for those who pin themselves. I do have high standards for this Role. Aftercare is important, Chemistry is key and i also enjoy swinging from time to time. Lets go on trips on our days off, adult clubs on the weekends. Ide like to make that right connection with someone to learn and push eachother. ( PLS READ TURN OFFS B4 ATTEMPTING TO APPLY FOR THIS POSITION )

If its not about trying to be with someone and its not about making . i dont have time for it.

" A Man of words and not of deeds, is like a garden full of weeds. "
-Elizabeth Fletcher-

IF UR TRYING TO GET TO KNOW ME, THEN GET TO KNOW -ME- AS A PERSON AND NOT THE ROLES I PLAY
Hit Me up lets chat see if theres a friendship to explore or perhaps more
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Go read the profile of ur friendly neighborhood living deadgirl 💋 theres even some nice hidden easteregg gems. To sink ur teeth into

I wanna meet my beautiful dream wife. She must enjoy switching roles and enjoys pegging me.

Looking for a dominant female to teach us how to be better in our roles. Soft dominant teacher

Name: Kate
Age: 20
Little Age: 2–4
Role: Little/ABDL, Submissive (eager to learn)
Location: London, UK
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: A Mommy Domme, Daddy Dom, or both (24–40 years old)
Relationship Status: Single (no prior partners)

About Me as a Little

I’m a playful, affectionate, and curious Little, still discovering the joys and comforts of this side of myself. My Little space is a safe haven where I can let my guard down, feel deeply cared for, and explore my childlike side. Whether it’s coloring, snuggling my stuffed ***s, or watching cartoons, I find comfort and happiness in loving and nurturing environments.

While I can be mischievous and curious, I thrive with kindness, firm boundaries, and consistent guidance. I’m looking for a caregiver who can create a loving, structured space where I feel cherished, safe, and small. I’m open to having either a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, as long as they are nurturing, patient, and committed to creating a supportive environment for me to thrive in.

About Me as a Submissive

Beyond my Little side, I’m also eager to explore and grow as a submissive. Though I’m new to this dynamic, I’m open-minded, willing to learn, and excited to embrace this side of myself under the guidance of a patient and experienced caregiver.

I hope to develop a dynamic that blends nurturing care with structured dominance, where I can feel supported and encouraged while also embracing the discipline, boundaries, and challenges that help me grow as a submissive. I value mutual respect and communication and am committed to learning and thriving in a safe, loving environment. Whether I have a Mommy, a Daddy, or both, I seek caregivers who can guide me in all aspects of my journey.

What I’m Looking For in a Caregiver

I dream of a Mommy and/or Daddy who are nurturing, patient, and share a passion for caregiving while also guiding me as a submissive. Together, you:

1. Offer a Balance of Love and Structure: You create a harmonious environment filled with affection, guidance, and opportunities for growth.
2. Enjoy Caregiving Together: You find joy in sharing responsibilities, from cuddling during cartoons to engaging in playful activities that make me feel secure and special.
3. Encourage Submissive Growth: You guide me with kindness and firmness, helping me navigate and flourish in both my Little and submissive roles.
4. Communicate and Respect Boundaries: You value open dialogue and mutual trust, always respecting my limits and ensuring I feel safe.

5. Seek a Meaningful, Long-Term Connection: You’re interested in building a strong, lasting bond that grows with time, trust, and care.
   
   What I Offer as a Little and Submissive
   
   As your devoted Little and submissive, I’ll bring:
   • Playfulness: Endless giggles, cuddles, and affection to brighten your days.
   • Loyalty and Love: A deep appreciation for the love and care you provide, and a desire to give back through affection and gratitude.
   • Curiosity and Growth: Eagerness to learn and grow, both as a Little and as a submissive, with your guidance and support.
   • Dedication: A commitment to building trust, following rules, and contributing to a loving, balanced dynamic.
   
   My Favorite Little Space Activities
   • Cartoons: I adore Peppa Pig, Bluey, Barbie, and other happy, colorful shows.
   • Creative Play: Coloring, playing with dolls or stuffed ***s, and imaginative activities.
   • Baby Items: Pacifiers, bottles, bibs, and cozy outfits that make me feel secure.
   • Caregiving Moments: Being fed, tucked in, or cuddled while you read to me.
   • Structure and Discipline: Routines, reward charts, and gentle guidance help me feel safe and loved.
   
   About Me as an Adult
   
   Outside my Little space, I’m a 20-year-old student living in London. I’m passionate about creative hobbies like drawing and enjoy activities like martial arts and basketball. I’m also a huge fan of anime and manga, which inspire my artistic work.
   
   I’ve faced challenges with anxiety and past trauma, but I’m focused on growth and building meaningful relationships based on trust, care, and mutual support.
   
   What I Need From You
   
   Whether you’re a Mommy, Daddy, or both, I hope you can provide a nurturing, structured, and safe environment where I can explore my Little and submissive sides. I’m looking for caregivers who are patient, understanding, and committed to my growth. What I need from you includes:
   • Kindness and Patience: A caregiver who enjoys nurturing and guiding their Little while helping her grow as a submissive.
   • Respect for Boundaries: My Little side is strictly non-sexual. I need caregivers who honor my limits and safe words.
   • Consistency and Structure: Loving routines and structured caregiving to help me feel secure and thrive.
   • Guidance for Submissive Growth: Gentle yet firm leadership that encourages me to explore and develop my submissive side in a safe, supportive way.
   • Time and Effort: You’re willing to dedicate time to building a close, affectionate, and trusting family dynamic.
   
   Important Notes
   I’m seeking a caregiver or caregivers based in the UK who are open to starting with online communication and transitioning to an in-person dynamic as trust is built. This relationship is non-sexual in Little space but filled with affection, emotional connection, and long-term intentions.
   
   If you’re a caring and dedicated Mommy, Daddy, or both looking for a devoted Little and eager submissive to join your family, I’d love to hear from you! Please share a bit about yourselves when you reach out so we can start getting to know each other.
   
   Thank you for taking the time to my profile~I’m excited to begin this with the right caregiver by my side.
   
   
   Warm hugs and Cuddles,
   
   Diana

== My BDSM Test made on FET App ==
95% Dominant
63% Submissive

== My Roles ==
95% Caregiver
70% Master/Mistress
70% Hunter
63% Brat
53% Pet Owner
50% Slave
48% Degrader
48% Brat Tamer
48% Prey
43% Sadist
38% Rigger
35% Little
30% Pet
13% Degradee
5% Masochist
0% Rope ***