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Take this how you will , but I have done the" fet life " thing a few different ways ... I have approached it as an extracurricular activity , planned and sought after mutually with someone , which brings a level of trust and comfort, with talking and discussing what we will do with each other ... I have shared wants and desires , experiences and shortfalls, and where our companionship will go ...That's all good but in truth I want more , a deeper rush and involvement with my partner , one that leaves us both speechless after , still stirring in emotions from what we just went through ..

I have learned that while getting to know one another is very helpful in building trust and comfort , the social cat and mouse with the usually unsure feeling out of a partner robs some of those hormonal , intense urges .. , hell I feel that even discussing a safe word sometimes impedes ( though understandably necessary ).... now that said not understanding boundaries and certain kinks of others can be a huge , to which I came up with the idea of the lady writing a list of likes , loves, and hell no's just as" a list " typed and sent , to clear up confusion over boundaries and can help conquer some of that with out tainting the experience ......
okay really long winded message I know my apologies but all just to say this I would like to find someone on here that would like to experience a very untainted , very passionate, very sensual subdued SUB role , one which will be the way we get to know each other , instead of , our normal guarded tenetive cat and mouse people normally have .... now Im not naive I know that for a lady the idea of a spontaneous meeting with a guy especially with the purpose of some type of physical interaction is a lot more trying and scary than it is for a guy, that's the reason I have my doubts and for this to work it would take a very special and interested lady to even give it a try
Believe me when I say that if someone was willing to try it all I can say without messing up the whole idea is that you would be in for an experience hopefully unlike any other .
As I know confidence is a major obstacle in putting yourself out to do this , let me say that I feel all women are special to be cared for and treated with reverence , so all are welcome , .. I don't have a type besides good hygiene it means little to me when compared to what I get from the reactions of the woman themselves ... I feel I know better then most women themselves what they truly derive pleasure from . It's this drive to give a lady pleasure and my desire to become a desire in a women's mind that pushes me to push the limits of a ladies true true nature ," one I feel society s down " ...I strive to leave such an impression that at any time in their day our interaction can pop in their head and leave them so wet that what their wearing is not safe
So this is my request join me in this journey give yourself to me so I can shape an experince that will last forever . I'm not looking to add knotches on a belt or brag about accomplishments , I'm hunting a special women that wants to free their self from the everyday and learn how much their body mind and spirit can be pleased , not to learn limits but to learn what their imagined limits are keeping from them .