Hello there :)

I'm a 23 years old dom leaning sadomaso switch.
If you're not a switch that's totally fine, I can be Dom/Sad/Maso without switching.

I'm very experienced (soon 11 years) but need to refresh some stuff, so I appreciate a patient and sensual journey together. BDSM for me is also mostly Non-Sexual!

I'm sapiosexual and demisexual which means I like intellectual People and take my time to get to know you. I'm not looking for a quick session, I'm looking for a Person to bond with! Very Important to know is, that I'm in a Poly couple with my partner. So if you're Poly too, that would fit best. If you're not, it's up to you if you want a dynamic without relationship.

I'm also intersex which means someone open minded, bi or pan is appreciated. I don't like to be fetishized or objectified for that.

Ageplay shouldn't be a limit for you or at least not "kinkshamed" as I am age regressor and I wanna feel comfortable with the people around me and my environment.


Now what am I looking for?
I'm looking for a cis woman devotee/switch (sub leaning). To be my slave/servitude. I know how that might sound for you, but please give me the chance to explain how this dynamic would look like for me (and if Interested also you).

I'm looking for a Woman that enjoys to help, enjoys to have structure and coordination. Someone who enjoys guidance and would trust me close eyed because she knows and understands that her submission is a Gift to me that will not be d. As a Slave you will not get Pointless tasks but a Playground for your submission. Appreciation for tasks that have been mastered and praise for simply existing the way you are. You're open to express your self, express your devotion and fulfillment for your deepest desires. Creativity either sexually or non sexualy. Whatever you're longing for - if earned I (or We my Partner and I) will do everything it takes for you to get it.

It's NOT about Sex and pointless tasks, NOT about
and might without responsibility. It's NOT about being used as a woman and it's definitely NOT rooted to misogynistic thoughts or beliefs! I want to make that CLEAR.

It's the absolute opposite.

More information can be found on my profile and personal chat! Please text us!

(If you're not a Cis woman but still feel like this suits you please text us with "Mounties" and a introduction!)

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 51 years ● 265km around France Luxeuil-les-Bains

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