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Looking for subs/slaves Men and women. I love both of your bi even better
dm me if you looking for a domme to get together with to make you smile

I’m a 30 yo Dom based in Colchester. Funny, playful, and spontaneous by nature, I love mixing adventure with a good sense of humor 🤷‍♂️ both in and out of kink.

Kink-wise, I’m looking for play partners who enjoy a confident Dom who doesn’t take himself too seriously, but knows when to turn the intensity up.

I value chemistry, clear communication, and the excitement of discovering what makes each dynamic unique. If you’re adventurous, curious, and looking for someone who can make you laugh and make you melt, let’s talk.

I’m a man in my early 30s, fit and disciplined, with a sharp mind and a hunger for surrender. Not the kind that’s about weakness—it’s about strength channeled elsewhere. I’m looking for a woman who commands attention without demanding it. Someone who understands power isn’t just taken; it’s offered. Voluntarily.

I want to kneel for you. Not out of obligation, but because the weight of your gaze alone pins me in place. I crave the precision of your voice—low, deliberate, slicing through noise. Tell me how to please you. Where to put my hands. When to breathe. When to ache.

Requirements? Confidence. Clarity. And the patience to unravel me.

Message me. Prove you’re real. And if you are… I’ll prove I’m worth your time.

20M really into latex and other things… Message to find out about the rest😌

Hello,

I am a sadistic Dom and experienced rope top. I’ve got 12 years for experience as a Dominant and 8 years as a rope top. I teach power exchange and rope and I travel as a performing rope top. I’ve been in several multi year dynamics and I’m testing the waters to see what might be out there.

I am a Master, a Daddy, an Owner, and a rope top.

My style of dominance is a mix of strict and exacting, and sweet and babying, I really enjoy the juxtaposition between the two. I demand a lot and I am equally tender and affirming.

I have far too many interests to list here, but my tops kinks all come from a love of power exchange. I love cnc, free use, , enduring to satisfy me, all forms of protocol, rope (of course), ddlg, dark taboo scenarios, service submission, pet play, and so much more.

In a perfect world, and a long term dynamic, I would find an alpha submissive who was looking to dominate other submissives with me while submitting. I am simply looking to explore with submissives right now.

Feel free to look at my profile and reach out if this interests you.

(I am new here, Idk wtf I am doing, please 🐻 with me)
(No Men, honestly not interested) 🥱



Hey! 😀 🏳️‍🌈
Thank you for clicking on my post, please read through the whole thing if you are contacting me... I would really appreciate that Here's a potato for you 🥔

Looking for AFAB, i really have no preference for gender identity and I have nothing against trans folks... I just have weird brain cells that I myself don't understand, it's a weird life. I am sorry if its yucky but I don't know how to explain it. Don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I am sorry if I am. I have no preference for body size/shape etc. No preference for Masc/Fem Just be a honest person. 🥰

This is for IRL (In Real Life) relationship... If you are in Chicago! Amazing! If you are nearby and willing to meet, amazing! I am not really looking for "online only relationship". 🥰


🍄 # Who the heck is this person? 🍄

So, ummmm... Hi... I am Alex. 32 F.

• Sapiosexual (Brains and Intellectual connection is important to me) 🧠
• Demisexusl (Emotional connection is also extremely important to me, I am extremely empathic) 💙
• Nerdy! I guess that's self explanatory 🤓
• Ambivert? But more of an Introvert. I am shy and quiet untill I get comfortable with you and then you will have to order me to stop talking lol 😆
• I can spend everyday with you if you are one of my friend / loved ones... But strangers / casual friends... Meeting them drains me out and my social battery depletes really quickly. 😭
• Love Computers. Honestly, don't wanna brag but I am kinda good at them and everything computers just come to me easily. 🖥️
• Read a book, have a lazy weekend, spend cozy time, explore the city and earth over parties anyday! (I enjoy spending quality time, making memories, doing meaningful stuff over parties n clubbing... Crowds drain me) 📚

• Extremely brutally honest, honestly can't lie to save my life. 🤔
  
  
  🍄 # Day to day life 🍄
  
  Masc presenting, cis Female (Golden Retriever Masc according to Tiktok lol)

• Have my head in one or another project all the time.
• Programming, Art, Science, Maths 😭, Animation, Development...
• Games, Sports (Wanna join the Boxing club), Music (can't live without it), SPACE, History, Food, Mythology, Chess, Board Games, Books, DIY, Crafts etc.

• Sleeping 😴
  
  
  🍄 # The Kink side of life 🍄
  

• Sub Identifies as Natural Sub, don't do it for the heck of it and kicks or what not. Need BDSM in my life to be content.
• Been into it since I was a *** (stumbled on wrong websites lol) actively practicing it since 2017.
• Into Lifestyle BDSM. It's not a game for me. I love the lifestyle. I take it seriously.
• Masochist.
• I have too many kinks and kinks change as per person... Will not write them here as a shopping list. Can be discussed in private.
• I am willing to try everything once or thrice just to be sure if its for me or not unless it's an absolute hard limit.
• Limits are extremely important to be respected at all times and must not be broken. Unless discussed otherwise.
• Safe words and Aftercare is extremely important to me.

• SSC and everything sane that comes under the umbrella.
  
  
  🍄 # What I am looking for 🍄
  
  A Domme / A Mistress (or whichever salutations you prefer )
  

• Honest ❤️
• Trustworthy ❤️
• Strict ❤️
• Soft ❤️
• Caring ❤️
• Can be a Friend 😄
• Open to Dating ❤️
• An eventual partner ❤️
• Donut Bonus if there's Attraction 🧲
• Basically someone who is also looking to be a friend, domme and be a partner ❤️

• Someone who is NOT an Asshole and resort to ghosting, manipulation, , mind fuck, drama, non-sense dom bullshit etc. (been through that, just leave me alone.) 🤷
  
  I don't want to be a mindless robot sub/slave/pet/toy/girl etc. The one that you come to when you are bored, have nothing better to do and ignore otherwise. I have been with awful doms and dommes, Sadly, I now know exactly what I have to avoid... Even the ones who look like angels are just spineless demons in disguise. I hate that people take so much advantage on name of submission... Honestly, please spare me if you are gonna do that... Target someone else please. 🤷
  
  I am an intellectual I am an empath... When i give myself to someone, I give myself completely... I don't know how to do things the half way... Its all or nothing. I devote so much of myself to my doms that honestly for the right person it can be amazing. Lemme care for you and make your life easier and make you happy Tell you all about space and science and computers and whatever the heck is topic of the day...
  I can make you any art or videos you want My phone is full of memes and thoughtful videos... Let's be friends and explore this life together! ❤️
  
  Be someone who can care for me be my friend but at same time won't hesitate to put me in my place if I am out of line. ❤️
  
  Let's go on dates Lemme cherish you and treat you like royalty You know you deserve it ❤️
  
  Honestly, if we click... It can be amazing ❤️
  
  Let's take this slow and see if we click and if we like the idea of each other... Who knows... Maybe this can be start of something beautiful ❤️
  
  NOT looking for poly. Done with that bullshit. Got only d in that scenario multiple times. 🤷
  
  NOT looking for short term. 🤷
  
  
  🍄 # Read all that? 🍄
  
  Well! We are almost done
  Somethings to keep in mind...
  

• Tired of multiple platforms so, I will ask you to move to Dscrd once I feel comfortable.
• I will ask you to verify by my personal method (after a while)... All sfw. If you are not okay with verifying... Please don't reach out. Idk about you but I don't wanna be catfished. It's good for both of us to get this out of the way.
• I will reply to messages as I see them. I might not be able to reply instantly, please be patient.
• Don't expect me to sub for you in first 11 minutes. Or a week. I am gonna take this slow. If you can't take this slow. Don't bother contacting me.
• I am not a newbie. Just because you ars a dom doesn't mean you are automatically correct. Just makes you an asshole. If you have "I am a dom only I know better" ideology, please with all due respect fck off.
• My bullshit radar is actually pretty good. So, honestly don't bother.

• I was in an awful d/s relationship few months ago... My friends made me realise (after it ended) that it was actually hella bad one... So, I am healing and I might not be at my 100% right now. But I plan to give my all to you as much as I can.
  
  
  🍄 # How to reach out 🍄
  
  Send a chat request with these things included... So that I know you can give me courtesy of at least agreeing to my tiny request of being Dmed in a certain way... Which just adds to the fact that if you can do this I can also take in account that you might also follow my request to respect my limits...
  

• Your favorite planet/celestial body. Why did you choose that planet/celestial body?
• Your Age, Sex, Location.
• Why have you decided to message me?

• A little info about you You just read a whole essay about me, I want to know a bit of you too
  
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  That's all Only looking for IRL, or hybrid... As long as you are willing to meet a lot in real life. A LOT.
  Not just online.
  
  Please be around my age or age can be just a number.
  
  Have an amazing week!
  
  p.s. please only contact me if you are serious. 🍄

How serious it is can depend on your priorities, but I am seeking a/few beautiful Sapphic sub/s who want/s to have a relatively new Domme practice her Service Top and Dominant dialogue skills, get in tune with your preferences, and spend quality, nerdy time outside of the bedroom. FWBs or Poly-Partners are acceptable dynamics for this, I love making friends and spending quality/intimate time with my partners :3

We are two women seeking a dedicated man servant to assist us in our new apartment. This is the perfect opportunity for someone eager to pamper, spoil, and obey who is ready to provide unwavering care in exchange for the privilege of belonging to us.

Your duties? Cleaning, cooking, errands, massages, and amusing our kitten while we enjoy ourselves. When you are not in use, you will wait in the servant’s quarters we provide, reflecting on how to please us better until called upon again.

We prefer a man under 45, though exceptions may be made for those with… exceptional qualities. Must be athletic enough to keep up with the demands of devotion.

As for us, we are two attractive, artistic women in our mid to late 20s, often wandering the apartment half dressed while deciding what to have you do next.

If you are ready to serve two demanding women who expect perfection, loyalty, and dedication, explain why you would be the best fit.

Looking for a FWB play partner that i can see regularly. I cannot host. Prefer men, but open to all genders. I tend to like Soft Doms and Daddies. I enjoy the soft with the rough. I'm more willing to experiment as I become closer with someone. Send me a message & we can compare kinks lol

Looking to build a real D/S connection with a submissive woman who brings trust,honesty,clear communication ,consistency,EMPTIONAL MATURITY and curiosity.
I don't mind brattiness since it's easy to handle.If you are teachable and reliable,we will get very far.

What I offer:
Discretion,clear boundaries ,confident leadership,control

Non negotiables:

After care is MANDATORY.Safewords respected,hygiene and reliability expected.

If interested ,dms open

Hi there,

Brussels based (often traveling within Europe) foot sub guy seeking a smart Dominant man to serve. Love worshipping shoes, socks and feet of my man for hours and pleasing him endlessly. Also give great BJs (optional along with spitting/watersports).

Straight guys who want a shoe/foot slave and urinal can also contact me.

Please be candid and decent when you message

Cheers

I am searching for someone who understands the art of surrender—someone who finds fulfillment in devotion, obedience, and the depth of an unspoken connection. My past has shaped me, but the future is waiting for the right person to step into it.
I offer a firm yet patient hand, structure wrapped in warmth, and the promise of a dynamic built on trust, passion, and exploration. You should crave discipline as much as pleasure, knowing that true submission is a gift freely given, not taken.
If you long to serve, to be guided, and to share in a lifestyle that blends control with care, reach out. Tell me what submission means to you, and perhaps we’ll begin writing our next chapter together.

Please be within 50 miles of Marysville

Discretion is valued. Chemistry is everything.

Seeking a domme who would wanna get food or coffee with me on thursday, when i get paid. And then end up getting tied

Attractive fit dominant older gentleman seeks younger playmate/thing to use as I will. Kinks include but not limited to. Spanking,slapping,degrading,spitting in your moth/face. All 3 places i can be inside.Dirty talk by both of us. Hair pulling light bitting (me bitting you) lots of sex in Public places (many of them filthy and semi disgusting. In return you’ll be praised and thanked for being a good girl for me and other perks tbd by your likes

I am a confident, experienced Domme who thrives on control, structure, and intensity. Power exchange for me is not a game—it’s an art, a connection built on trust, devotion, and discipline. I command respect, and I give clarity, direction, and care in return.

I am seeking a genuine submissive—someone who finds fulfillment in surrender, obedience, and devotion. Loyalty is non‑negotiable; if you are not ready to give yourself fully, do not waste my time. What I offer in return is a clear structure, my guidance, and the stability of a relationship where roles are truly respected.
What I Value in a Submissive

Complete honesty and loyalty

Willingness to learn, grow, and accept discipline

Politeness, attentiveness, and eagerness to serve

Emotional openness and the ability to build lasting trust

About You

You crave structure and feel centered when boundaries and rules guide you. You understand that service is an honor, not a burden. Whether through obedience, personal tasks, discipline, or deeper forms of surrender, your pleasure comes from pleasing me.
What I Offer

A strict but caring hand to guide and mold you

Genuine power exchange rooted in trust, not games

A mix of discipline, training, and rewards for earned devotion

Space for emotional, mental, and physical growth under my direction

If you are truly ready to surrender, step forward with respect and authenticity. In return, you’ll discover the satisfaction of serving a strong, commanding woman who knows exactly what she wants.

In need g a kinky date with a hirsute lady please!! Seeking a rare gem!

I’m a white bottom abit chunky wanting to bbc to use me

Ich suche eine echte Submissive, die Vertrauen, Respekt und klare Grenzen schätzt.
• Als selbstbewusster Dominant suche ich eine Sub, die Struktur, Disziplin und verspielte Dynamik genießt.
• Auf der Suche nach einer submissiven Partnerin, die starke Führung, Sicherheit und spannende Erfahrungen zu schätzen weiß.

Looking for a genuine submissive who values trust, respect, and clear boundaries.
• As a confident Dominant, I’m seeking a Sub who enjoys structure, discipline, and playful dynamics.
• Searching for a submissive partner who appreciates strong guidance, safety, and exciting experiences.

I am looking for a Domme for friendship and possibly to build/start something.

I want to learn, and will offer affection and devotion.