Are you a medical professional or someone with lots of medical knowledge? Would you like to help an innocent writer write a naughty piece of literature? Dm me!

In exchange, I can educate you on the various kinks I have knowledge to offer in, I'm especially skilled in helping you find your dom or subsona and how to accentuate all those delicious traits in a way that feels very full, enticing and fun and easy to do and how to add easy everyday depth and flavor to your dynamic in a way that feels very personal to you. But I know quite a bit of technique as well, depending on the kink lol. Or just anything else I know or help you edit your book or whatever feels right for you!

Also: If anyone knows any obscure or old medical tools, I'm curious! I've never seen comprehensive lists or full explanation, just lists with the stuff that's in most doctors offices.

In this one, The doctor performs an actual reasonably accurate examination, I'm thinking a bit of the head to toe, a bit of heart and circulatory systems, a bit of brain stuff, and explains why they're doing certain parts of the exam (like explaining how theyre listening for the lub dub and moving through each part of the heart and what it does).

The doctor likes asmr, and so does the patient, so the doctor may perform some of the examination with artistic license, but still getting the same information as the protocol version, like perhaps moving the Stethoscope on the forehead as well or purposefully saying things to mess up the pulse, so I'm curious if you have any

Just so I know I did what I could about the unsolicited dms, I'm asexual, my kinky interest is not for using the doctors offices as a sexy backdrop and excuse to get naked, (to each their own). It's about how biology is fascinating, and doctors have available to them lots of information to enhance nonsexual sensory play and mental closeness and exploring a patient for fun the same playful way you'd examine an open world game, the intimacy of fixing and changing things in another's body, the intimacy of being healed. And other delicious parts about the world of medicine itself.

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Chicago

Here's the situation..

I've been a member for about two years. Yet, in the approximate past two months that I've been back here, I've only met one person that I've had any sort of substantial connection with.

I'm looking mainly for women and possibly couples who are Interested in experimenting in kink & fetish to get to know and hopefully start something monumentally orgasmic with.

I'm highly intelligent, good looking and in good shape for my age. My voice seems to make women squirt like a geyser. I'm quite active in my outreach to others on FET, and I'm very fetish forward.

I have an extremely filthy imagination, and I'm not afraid to use it.

For anyone who's interested.. I also am very into anal and have been told on numerous occasions that I'm quite good at it. I'm also very sensitive and responsive to feedback from my partner and try to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for her.

I feel like I've been approaching this the right way, and yet I have found it to be SO VERY DIFFICULT to connect with women here.

I admit, I'm somewhat older (56). Also, my current relationship situation is somewhat non-standard (see my profile intro). But this is FET. If this isn't a place for fostering non-standard connections, I don't know what is.

Considering that I would be happy to put wheels to the asphalt and drive quite a few miles to meet up with a decent person, this experience so far has been underwhelming to say the least.

If you'd like to connect to get to know one another, or if you simply have advice you'd like to share, please get in touch.

If anyone has any constructive thoughts, I'm more than ready to listen.

Hope to hear from you!

Kinky Date19 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Eastford

If your goal is quick hookups, casual meetups, or free-flowing erotic content—I am not your playground. I will not be sending photos or videos for your entertainment. If that’s all you’re after… scroll on. [addition: this is a hard limit for me, anyone requesting photos will be blocked. I will choose when and at what stage i am happy to progress to sharing my irl life with an online dynamic, if this is not acceptable, then do not engage]

For those still reading: I am happy to engage in remote toy play, though I am not seeking in-person meetings in the near future. If the dynamic, relationship, or interactions ever reached a point where meeting in person or sharing media became relevant, that could be discussed—but only if I feel a genuine connection worth sharing.

I am a fully submissive woman with strong masochistic tendencies, craving the nuanced interplay of intellectual and physical dominance from a partner who may be a sadist, a Daddy, or a Sir/Master. I thrive in dynamic, mentally stimulating interactions where words, gestures, and intent carry weight, where obedience is never hollow, and commands are meaningful because they are earned and understood.

I am flirtatious, bright, and capable of filthy indulgence when the moment calls for it, yet I also carry a quiet need for care. I crave a Daddy who can guide, nurture, and attend to the subtler layers of a submissive’s mind and heart, helping me find comfort even in moments I struggle to reach it myself.

My submission is genuine—I to it. I carry a spark of oppositional defiance, but that fire exists to be challenged, directed, and ultimately consumed by a Sir or Master who truly understands the art of dominance beyond s***w orders. I also recognize that obedience cannot be inspired through ego alone, but through mastery, presence, and the ability to balance intellect and control.

If you can navigate that delicate interplay—acknowledging each person’s unique moods and needs as much as I do—then perhaps you are the one, or the ones, I am searching for. I am open to these roles being fulfilled by different individuals if no single person embodies them all, as long as each connection is respectful, attentive, and thoughtfully dominant.

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