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Many people in the BDSM community have a lifelong fascination with rope bondage. But how do you get into rope play, and what can you expect? Writer
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In the kink scene, there’s a tendency to give other kinksters the benefit of the doubt. We’re all used to being outsiders, and once we find a
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In a BDSM relationship, both the sub and Dom must know what they're getting into. We investigate the benefits and practicalities of a sex
How do you transition from a monogamous marriage into an open sexual lifestyle? My Life on the Swingset, by Cooper S. Beckett, attempts to answer
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