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Description
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A while back, Fet.com threw a Dark Horse my way! His messages were ladened with humour, so funny that I was struggling to see what lay beneath but curiosity got the better of me.
A nervous coffee together on a cold bench. So much laughter & talking that hours flew by & even then, talk of play was nervously approached so I was still unaware of what lay beneath this jovial beauty.
OH MY WORD….what lay beneath was the darkest of Dark Horses! Someone who not only allowed me to be my wild self with no judgement but someone who made me want to allow them to take care of my aftercare! Someone who proved that there was someone who could Dominate on my level.
Our beautiful journey has continued since. He is not only my Dom but also my life partner, my soul mate, the missing piece of me & my best friend & I ask that you be respectful of that.
I am a very witty (hilarious & sarcastic), honest (blunt), quirky (weird), strong minded, strong willed & well behaved experienced submissive.
After being a Domme since my age years, then leaving that behind to retrain as a sub when I was 40, I know my role very clearly.
I’m may be a big girl (size 20) but I’m also very comfortable in my own skin. I will always class my sub-self as ‘in training’ as there is always something new to learn or experience.
Looking to chat to, learn & share information with experienced Dom/mes, subs (& Wolves in grandmas clothing) within & outside the BDSM world.
I’ve made some amazing friendships & strong connections on here & that’s what’s important to me. I’m happy to continue making friendships & connections as I skip quirkily along this yellow-twisted-sadistic-brick-road.
I am Not looking for any other partners, anything ‘on the side’, any other Dom’s or friendships that suggest ‘let see where this goes’.
I’m a huge believer in ‘if you see something beautiful, say so’ so if I like your pics or comment on them please take it as a compliment, not as a come-on.
I am a BDSM owned sub, I am not here to fill your 5minute sexual whims or self kinks so if the art of your conversation only extends as far as ‘Can I see your tits’, ‘what filth are you into’ & ‘I want to fill you face with my cock’ or stimulating introductions such as ‘hi’, ‘hey’ etc please don’t bother. I will speak to you with respect & manners but also expect the same in return so if your conversation does not start with a polite ‘hello etc’ & jumps straight into some kind of kink led sentence, please don’t expect a reply.
Also I like to know who I’m talking to so a profile with a face photo on is preferable.
My roles & archetype
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I am allllll woman! Granted I have the language of a sailor, a deep booming voice & laugh like Brian Blessed & I’m not exactly the most feminine woman but I’m definitely a ‘She’.
I hate & love people equally & have always been sexually attracted to any gender as long as they’re Read more… alive, breathing, remotely interesting, weird & wonderful 😁
Equally, as much as you’ll discover Kinks & Fetishes you do like & do want to try, you’ll also come across things that you really don’t like or don’t want to try (Limits). Set boundaries & stick to them, don’t be bullied & don’t allow anyone to overstep those boundaries, equally Read more… don’t overstep anyone else’s boundaries.
Trust your instincts & don’t be ‘told’ what you should or shouldn’t be enjoying.
This is YOUR journey & you go at YOUR pace with YOUR limits.
If someone has a Kink that you don’t like or you don’t understand, that’s ok, we’re all wonderfully different, we don’t have to like the same stuff but it doesn’t mean it’s wrong, it’s just their way & you stick to your way.
Don’t watch porn & expect that is how it’s going to be!
Play scenes can be tiring but often dangerous so don’t approach anything drunk or horny. You need your wits about you.
Don’t suddenly think ‘right who’s up for it’ as it’s hard to find someone who matches us AND matches our kinks. Patience Read more… is key.
If you discover a kink that takes your fancy, chances are it’ll change or evolve over time so enjoy the moment.
Be prepared for things going wrong & be prepared to laugh at things going wrong, it’s ok to have a sense of humour.
Approach BDSM with respect & remember it isn’t always about sex
Go to clubs or munches & observe
Find out what you like & how you’d like to approach it. Gain confidence in yourself before bringing others in but also be constantly willing to learn & adapt
Most importantly ‘Enjoy Yourself & Enjoy the Journey!’
I had this happen on here a few years back & I walked away instantly.
A dynamic is built on trust whether you are embarking on a relationship or heading into play. Play can often be dangerous so we all need to be open, honest & trust eachother.
The second that trust is wobbled it’s hard to Read more… get it back.
To me, being ignored is disrespectful manipulation & not any form of play. It is a hard limit.
No discussion about forthcoming actions is wrong as limits must always be discussed.
If this is his way then fair enough, we’re all different but you already know that this behaviour isn’t within your boundaries so go out & find someone who suits you better.
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