going too far with it.

No you just don't fit that person's preferences.

Failure to prepare is preparing to fail.
Or 6 p's Perfect Planning Prevents Piss Poor Performance.

I agree subs should not be treated as a piece of meat. Especially not until its been established that that's how they want to be treated. (Unlikely) To be a good Dom is to first make a connection. You can't expect someone to just take your word that your a good Dom and they should do as you tell Read more… them. You would not do that in the vanilla world so why would you do it in kink.

To be fair. Its not an easy thing full stop. Either way you look at it. A Dom looking for a sub is expected to be experienced. Ok so how experienced is experienced worth. One or two previous play partners. Or are you looking for the one who has everything nailed down tight hes the beez kneez. Read more… Seriously come on. Inexperienced Doms. That is in my opinion a Dom who has had one or 2 experiences in the past still counts as experienced to a degree. If all anyone looks for is the creme de la creme. These 1 or 2 lesser experienced Doms will never get more experience. Better with experience. Or evolve with experience. Therefore the pool of Doms remains low. Your an inexperienced sub looking. Why not give a Dom a go. Do things at a slow pace learn together the things that perhaps the Dom has not quite gotten right yet. Increase their experience as well as your own. An experienced Dom will probably not frequent these sites too much because he already has his forever playmate/s. Think outside the box. Ask yourself how does anyone become experiwnced without experiences. (Good or bad) This is how we all grow.