I've only ever been with submissive girls in my life, even in vanilla relationships and before appearing on fet sitesI maintained the control and leadership. I am a Systems Engineering Manager at work so I have many elements of leadership in my life but otherwise I enjoy a relaxing satisfied life. I wouldn't say I am excessively strict but I do have my preferences.

So a little about me then… I enjoy playing with rope, tying up willing subs when I have the opportunity; it really does make for a good evening. I am a bit of a toy and restraint collector, I have some very nice lockable leather cuffs and collars, also handcuffs, chains and locks have made it into my toy box. I enjoy giving a good hand spanking, the challenge is often who can last longer, her bum or my hand – another good little game! What else… Flogging, paddles, wax all good fun.

I have only put a small selection of photos on here, hopefully they are the right ones to attract attention? ;-)

I'm looking for a relationship with D/s (in private), not interested in hookups. I never like describing who I am looking for because someone always breaks the mould! But I would have to go with easy going, open to new things, interested in BDSM and other kinks.