Geminijack Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 The unsolicited pics do count as harassment!! And is taking to far! I don’t send pics personally until I’m in a relationship, I was talking about greetings and greetings alone however and I also never mentioned more than one message I simply stated everyone should be greeted! And it is wrong to treat people badly!
an**** Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 10-20 minutes is a bit much but a simple thank you for reaching out but… is nice.
Jimknu Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 1 minute ago, angry_g said: 10-20 minutes is a bit much but a simple thank you for reaching out but… is nice. Yes, it can be nice, however trying to respond to 20-30 people as some has mentioned, it gets old and is more than likely unwanted if there is no response.
Jimknu Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 Neither am I, but it doesn't change the fact that one should cease and desist so to speak.
MissTakenDeep Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 7 minutes ago, Geminijack said: The unsolicited pics do count as harassment!! And is taking to far! I don’t send pics personally until I’m in a relationship, I was talking about greetings and greetings alone however and I also never mentioned more than one message I simply stated everyone should be greeted! And it is wrong to treat people badly! And we’re trying to explain why we don’t always greet back, but you don’t seem to be grasping what any of these women are saying about their experiences.
Jimknu Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 1 minute ago, MissTakenDeep said: And we’re trying to explain why we don’t always greet back, but you don’t seem to be grasping what any of these women are saying about their experiences. Just take a week off to respond to every message you've ever received, how hard is that? 🙄 *Sarcasm*
Deleted Member Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 4 minutes ago, MissTakenDeep said: And we’re trying to explain why we don’t always greet back, but you don’t seem to be grasping what any of these women are saying about their experiences. I give up. No point talking to a brick wall
Jimknu Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 1 minute ago, Lady_Char said: I give up. No point talking to a brick wall I feel like this kind of discussion would be better with some alcohol.
an**** Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 I don’t persist if ignored or rejected, nor do I send unsolicited dick pics. I have no problem with getting ignored or rejected and I generally reach out because I find someone interesting with special attributes after reading their profile. I’ve met some amazing people here and am always on the lookout for fun loving, like minded folks who are here for the same reason.
MissTakenDeep Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, Jimknu said: I feel like this kind of discussion would be better with some alcohol. So do I…and I stopped drinking 10yrs ago 😩🤦🏻♀️😂
Jimknu Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, angry_g said: I don’t persist if ignored or rejected, nor do I send unsolicited dick pics. I have no problem with getting ignored or rejected and I generally reach out because I find someone interesting with special attributes after reading their profile. I’ve met some amazing people here and am always on the lookout for fun loving, like minded folks who are here for the same reason. So if there's something in the profile that interests you, you probably say more than just "hi," "hello," or "hey," the post specifically talked about the generic "hey you" but could also include the copy and paste stuff people send to everyone. This isn't really talking about a well thought out message, however the concept still applies.
Pr**** Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 13 minutes ago, Geminijack said: The unsolicited pics do count as harassment!! And is taking to far! I don’t send pics personally until I’m in a relationship, I was talking about greetings and greetings alone however and I also never mentioned more than one message I simply stated everyone should be greeted! And it is wrong to treat people badly! If a woman gets a message and responds to it knowing she is not interested she opens herself up to other messages from this person. On this site if she does not respond she can not get a second message from that person.
MissTakenDeep Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 1 minute ago, Mrgoodtime124 said: If a woman gets a message and responds to it knowing she is not interested she opens herself up to other messages from this person. On this site if she does not respond she can not get a second message from that person. This has been explained MULTIPLE times 🤦🏻♀️ Thanks for trying though 😂❤️
Strix Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 I have decided to take all that's everyone has said. I will be as respectful as I have since joining the app. I will message better than I usually do by discussing more of what we may have an interest for and see where that takes me. If she doesn't reply to my first message then I will take that as not interested in getting to know me as a person, and move on.
Jimknu Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 1 minute ago, Mrgoodtime124 said: If a woman gets a message and responds to it knowing she is not interested she opens herself up to other messages from this person. On this site if she does not respond she can not get a second message from that person. As long as the message is still open, you can send multiple messages to someone. I have sent multiple messages (2+) while correcting my grammar.
an**** Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 Oh, I only send messages with intent and forethought. At least I think I do. I know I’ve never sent one that said hey or hi or hello. 😂
Strix Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, angry_g said: Oh, I only send messages with intent and forethought. At least I think I do. I know I’ve never sent one that said hey or hi or hello. 😂 I know I've done same but now will attempt to put more into messages I may send
an**** Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 I honestly want to meet people. Get to know them even if on a superficial level because I find the person to be someone I would sincerely like to get to know.
Jimknu Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 It's just common courtesy, don't send pictures unless it's agreed upon, don't message multiple times to someone without a genuine response (regardless of the site), and try to be creative in your message as it sounds like some people get "hey" messages way too often without a complete thought.
Dustykat Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 (edited) 5 minutes ago, angry_g said: Oh, I only send messages with intent and forethought. At least I think I do. I know I’ve never sent one that said hey or hi or hello. 😂 No you haven't been disrespect and I did answer you and You were very respectful 🧚♀️ Edited March 27, 2022 by Dustykat
an**** Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 I love meeting and getting to know people here. I’ve me awesome people from literally all over the world. It’s fantastic!!!
Deleted Member Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 7 minutes ago, MissTakenDeep said: This has been explained MULTIPLE times 🤦🏻♀️ Thanks for trying though 😂❤️ But this time it's from a man. Maybe that will help???
an**** Posted March 27, 2022 Posted March 27, 2022 Yes you did Dustykat. Thank you. I still think you’re amazing 😊🌹
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