Registration Fees /financial tributes (scam?)

January 22, 2023

I’ve tried to connect with Domme’s several times and I always end up ghosted or it doesn’t work out for one reason or another. But I had a potential domme in the first hour of talking to her ask me how much I can tribute to her, meaning (give me $). Subsequently she also asked me to pay her before meeting her in person even. So I could be registered in her dungeon.

I’m fairly sure this is a scam (tbh not sure if she’s gonna be lurking this thread) but she also got angry when I refused and politely explained why I couldn’t do it (I actually said I could and offered to hand deliver it instead of send it) and she was still upset.

Do any dom(mes) actually require this sort of thing up front with no previous meetings?

January 22, 2023

It's a scam but based on things that may in some instances be expected

So, for example if you are booking a Pro Domme, you would often be expected to pay a 50% deposit up front.

If you are engaging in online play, you would be expected to pay for the time

And, there are some dungeons that require a membership - but - you would pay/arrange that directly with the dungeon, usually in person.

January 22, 2023

Not that I know, that's a scam all day long x

January 22, 2023

It’s a scam, thankfully never fell for it but if anyone ever asks you for *** on a dating app you should never pay them. Also, if you truly think you connected with someone you should meet in a public space first not blindly send *** anyone you don’t even know.

January 22, 2023

Stinks of scam unfortunately x

January 22, 2023

Only pro doms since they have their sources and links. But “doms” on here are 99% of a scam.

January 22, 2023

I have worked as a pro domme.
It definatly isn't the right way to go about it.

I have always met subs on a totally casual meet and greet to determine compatibility.

Terms should be made very clear! But I certainly would not give up ANYTHING without a casual meet first 😇

January 22, 2023

100% scam. If people want to get paid, but REFUSE cash, they are not real.

January 22, 2023

Thanks I thought so, I figured as much, I just know that for every lonely dude like me, there’s gotta be like 10 more who might have considered it and at least a couple who fell for it, so it’s a good reminder. And like the hardest part is when they double down, tbh

January 22, 2023

Agreed, scammed way to many times on sites-sucks because it hard enough to get over the hurdle
Of ones insecurities

January 22, 2023

In my experience most online "dommes" are scammers and will keep on asking for ***

January 22, 2023

Follow my NUMBER ONE rule of internet dating…. NEVER EVER give someone *** that you’ve never met in person. This is very clearly a scam. Block this person on all possible platforms and don’t look back.

January 22, 2023

It’s a scam

January 22, 2023

Those are complete scammers. They will send you videos of someone saying it’s them and such. But when it comes to meeting they want *** a “tribute” to them first. Never, and I repeat NEVER send them *** over the web. If they aren’t willing to meet in public they are a scammer.

January 22, 2023

If she suggests that you register at her dungeon. That would mean she’s a pro domme.

So basically from the sounds of it, you’re trying to talk to someone for free that charges for their time and you’re upset that these pro dommes are asking you to pay for it?

Maybe looked for women who aren’t professional dommes, who don’t charge for their time?

January 22, 2023

Lol never fall for the tribute scam they will take your *** and you will never hear from them again. It’s probably a good general rule to not send anybody *** you met online bcus it usually never works out unless there willing to play by your rules.

January 22, 2023

Its a scam. You shouldn't ever send *** to someone for any reason. Report their account and block them.

January 22, 2023

Never send *** via the web to anyone you don’t really know or trust. There are too many lazy and entitled people these days, trying to extract *** from people to fund their desires. If you want a Domme, check out your local dungeon or attend munches. It gives you a chance to get to know someone before handing over your hard earned ***.

January 22, 2023

Anyone here that solicits *** from you or on any dating app and hasn't met you in person tells you why they are here. They are either scamming or don't view the app for dating but part of their enterprise or business so to speak.

January 22, 2023

I hate *** or gifting begging Dommes. Financial situations should never be part of the BDSM world

January 23, 2023

A lot of met are screaming scam but most of you are looking for very young girls tribute if fair as long as their is a proper arrangement

January 23, 2023

If they want *** or for you to "buy content " , guaranteed scam. *** is not a part of the foundations of BDSM.

January 23, 2023

And frankly those scammers are ruining the world of BDSM.

January 23, 2023

Any one that requires this is a scam. Bottom line. Check the internet for scams. If they do want you to have your own toys, you can purchase them yourself. If they require any fee which they shouldn’t you can pay in person. If they are real and in your area, they will allow you to meet for coffee to even make sure the chemistry is right. If they are the real deal, they will require nothing you have mentioned.