Deep Throat beginner.

[YorkshireBiker]

We’re training my wife to take me all in but there’s a gag reflex to work on, she’s happy to practice on me and find something else to practice with. I was wondering if there’s any positions we can use that might also help, or be easier for a beginner.

For now she will be in charge of how much she takes which I’m fine with so we don’t really want a position where I’m the one fucking her throat or generally thrusting as she’s not comfortable with that yet. 

[Deleted Member]

Practice makes perfect is all...

Edited April 17, 2023 by Deleted Member

[ut****]

practice large gulps of water , fruit juice and soft foods.. bananas etc.. using the back of throat to swallow

[Ri****]

Also squeezing thumb in palm of hand with fingers helps with it also. To help train can use some numbing agent in throat and after spray wait about 20 mins so it doesn't numb penis

[northern_dom]

Please dont use a banana. If it snaps she really will ***. Its all about the tongue stopping your penis going into her throat initially. Move the tongue out of the way and you will have much more success.

[an****]

I see these are all men’s comments…not that they couldn’t have the experience, but what about some female advice.

[El****]

What a noble endeavour .😏 Committed focus on practice with constant positive rein***ment will yield the best results.

[Ae****]

2 minutes ago, MT9876 said:

What a noble endeavour .😏 Committed focus on practice with constant positive rein***ment will yield the best results.

A noble endeavour 😭😂

[LikeMBig4]

I’m interested in this as a side project for my self

[LikeMBig4]

What can I do to make you feel comfortable with me

[Deleted Member]

I can’t offer positions but tips for the gag reflex… instruct her to squeeze her left thumb by tucking it into her fist as you get closer to her throat. Let her know to breathe through her nose steadily. Humming also helps and overall taking your time down there and relaxing your throat. Best of luck to you both

[Deleted Member]

For me, hanging my head off the edge of the bed helps to open it all up. Also paying attention to what is consumed, allergies make my throat feel a bit smaller.

[Deleted Member]

Sorry, one more thing to add - also being distracted by being played with myself also helps. Hands, a vibe, a third person between my legs - all help!

[Fa****]

There are some “numbing” sprays you can buy that claim to help. However I can’t vouch for their safety or efficacy. The one I saw was on a TikTok channel by Moxie Rose.

[YorkshireBiker]

4 hours ago, Ngtykinkprincess said:

For me, hanging my head off the edge of the bed helps to open it all up. Also paying attention to what is consumed, allergies make my throat feel a bit smaller.

That’s the only position I could come up with, thanks to porn, but she’s not comfortable with that yet as I’d be the one pushing. 

[YorkshireBiker]

There might not be any specific position to try, and I couldn’t think of any others, but I appreciate the replies on ideas for working on the gag reflex. I did say to her that’s it’s probably just practice practice practice. I certainly wouldn’t have any complaints if she wants to practice on me more. 

Edited April 18, 2023 by YorkshireBiker
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[Ar****]

34 minutes ago, FatefulDestiny said:

There are some “numbing” sprays you can buy that claim to help.

I'm currently waiting upon a delivery of one, although I did order it with my own rough throat in mind over these grim recent weeks.

If I get worse again, I'll send you my feedback 😂

Edited April 18, 2023 by Aranhis

[YorkshireBiker]

My wife is a nurse so if she wanted to she could get some medical grade numbing stuff and numb her entire body. Hmmm? 

[Fa****]

17 minutes ago, Aranhis said:

I'm currently waiting upon a delivery of one, although I did order it with my own rough throat in mind over these grim recent weeks.

If I get worse again, I'll send you my feedback 😂

I used to love tyrozets for my sore throats. Difflam spray was also good 

[li****]

I use to have terrible gag reflex, my Dom actually helped me by telling me to breathe through my nose. Also he'd tell me to practice on a dildo when he wasn't there and strangely enough a toothbrush when I brushing my teeth he'd tell me to scrap the back of my tongue which would help with gag reflex too funnily enough that did actually help 😝   

[Deleted Member]

I found the best thing I started doing was making sure not to eat too soon before a session at least a few hours and loads of water before hand!

[Deleted Member]

6 hours ago, YorkshireBiker said:

That’s the only position I could come up with, thanks to porn, but she’s not comfortable with that yet as I’d be the one pushing. 

If she wraps her arms around your thighs she can pull you in closer. Or if she pushes on your thighs she can push out out away. Gives a bit more control.

[QXX666]

On 4/18/2023 at 1:48 AM, anchorage740 said:

I see these are all men’s comments…not that they couldn’t have the experience, but what about some female advice.

And what would be the difference unless you are looking for some wanking material experience ?? 

[QXX666]

It’s all about the position and control from the receiving side. 
there is a technic for most things but sometime it’s not always 💯 efficient or working. Depends the size and of course the mind set. 
Plenty online tips… 

[Ha****]

Iv been learning with an 8 inch rubber dildo and once i relax my throat i can get it down my neck lol.
Now i know why the girls have so much saliva when doing it right!