Question for male subs?!

[ch****]

Seeing her enjoy the things she's doing to me

[ca****]

Treating me as an instrument or object of her pleasure. A mouth, hole, dick, etc. to make use of and play with, to receive squirt or *** and strapon cock.

[Ba****]

Just pounding me and hopefully Cummings inside me and telling me how much of a slutty little bitch I am to her.

[Subrob3]

Giving her pleasure. Submissively but also very passionately giving her oral is the big one for me, but also something as simple as running a sweet smelling  candlelit bath for her.  Gently bathing her is even better.   Maybe a foot massage while she soaks in the warm  scented water by just candlelight.

Then you have pegging as a favorite of mine.  Even better if she can orgasm from it.  That would be huge.!

I love longer term bondage or confinement,  where you feel *** while in it and greatful when she finally let's you out. Lol

I also love making a clean and tidy home for her. Someplace that she can relax and feel that everything is taken care of and just the way she likes it. All she would need to do is occasionally inspect my work and offer critiques on where I can improve so I can  demonstrate to her that I strive daily to be the best partner she could ever want.  Taking pride in that. 

 

 

[B-****]

What I enjoy is for her to be in control an demanding me to do what she wants

[Tj****]

For me it’s all about *** and orgasm denial. My thing is the cuckold scene. Everything about it turns me on.

[SissyBiCouple1]

I love being dressed up, spanked, face sitting, made to gag on a strapon and then pegged...l like being told that l'm her slut...

[B-****]

6 hours ago, Tjw75 said:

For me it’s all about *** and orgasm denial. My thing is the cuckold scene. Everything about it turns me on.

I would love for you to do that to me

[TimtheMerciless]

Kitty , did you find the replies surprising, or pretty much what you thought. 

 

My top tip, whatever you do , do it slow. 

Generally the guys mention bondage I notice. So if suggest after immobilising them tell them you are going to do x , but then go away ( not far due they don't *** on a fly) . Say it's a whip - make a big fuss of finding it . Then make a fuss over putting it on the table , then make a fuss over finding a gag - or a fuss over deciding you need a different whip .  Then a fuss over putting it somewhere else like on the table.

 

So you build tension without doing anything. The feeling of impatience from the sub will enhance the powerlessness. So by the time you actually do anything , they'll be very wound up.

 

Take breaks micro -  from whatever you do to stroke his hair - or something low key. Or go and look out of the window.  

 

You can make then minutes of whipping last and hour and a half. Or a day! 

 

 

[Sp****]

Some sort of subtle public *** like commenting on my diaper that she made me wear or being set up for failure and being spanked in front of her friends and I love it when when really role playing and is upset with me and I get spanked for real

[Al****]

I’m a fairly big guy, 6’4” ish, so I’m always assumed to be the top in public, ie, at restaurants, and I love it when my femdom will do soft dom, but claiming things, like grabbing checks out of my hands and make me apologize to her in front of the waiter

[Dr****]

when she talks over you

when she answers for you

when she overrules your ideas

when she changes your mind

when she makes your plans

when she ***s your hand

when she calls you out

when she shuts you up

when she corrects your behavior

when she gives you rules to follow

when she shushes you with a finger

I love them all

[Ro****]

(We are long distance for now) My dom is a very loving and caring dom. I’d say she’s a soft dom majority of the time. I love when we get to talk on the phone in the mornings and evenings when I’m driving to and from work or when I go to bed she’ll talk until I fall asleep. It super sweet but what I also love is when she’s a little harder on me than normal. Sometimes I’ll try to get her hot and bothered, be maybe a little bratty and she’ll flip it right back on to me. I’ll end up being a mess wanting to please her more. The mind fucking is just so much fun and so intimate

[Deleted Member]

The moment I greet her and kneel naked at her feet as she places my collar and leash around my neck.

[be****]

How certain were you that you were into this before you tried?