SELF-TAUGHT OR INTRODUCED?

[LordMacTire83]

Yea I would have to add to my original statement... when I was in my mid-***s I saw a bondage porn movie called, "The Story of 'K' "... and then not long after that I saw, "Top Secret" with Vanessa Del Rio in what I think is one of her VERY BEST movies to date?!

[Matt4u4305]

One of my older brothers friends used to pull me into the basement of my house and suck my cock. I was 15 she was 19. My brother always had his friends over and she just always paid extra attention to me and was always saying things like “when matty turns 18 I’m all over it “. One day she was hanging out in the basement when I walked downstairs and she told me to shut the basement door and come back done where she dropped to her knees and blew me. This turned into a 1-3 time per week occurance.

She always said “it’s ok cause it’s just oral “. She had a boyfriend. She was very very sexy. But she loved my cock and always said it was bigger than anything she’s ever had and one day she wanted it inside her.


So i turn 16 and now she’s having me rub her pussy and she’d dry humping me. She suggested I start coming to her house after school do we can have more privacy and I knew this meant she wanted to have sex.

So now 3-4 days a week after school I was at her house fucking her.

She started putting on pornos that showed girls being ***d to have sex by guys. She said she wanted ne to do those things to get.

[Ii****]

i think it was more self taught bc i had a dream about me getting kidnapped when i was 10 years old and then kind of forgot about it... until i decided to check out "bound and gagged women" on google and youtube when i was 13. i got busted after i tried to gag myself (it was very embarrassing) which led me to "research" my interests in private and im trying to find the courage to be more open

[Declan-Delain]

Climbing accident when I was 15, I fell off a ledge and was paralysed for a couple of hours. It was horrifying.
I thought about it a lot through my ***s and it just sort of went from there, the utter ***ness of it. Very interesting to me

[Si****]

I was definitely self-taught. And I felt very alone as a result. Mentorship and education makes everything better.

[ma****]

Molested

[Se****]

Emma Peel from the Avenger's, was responsible for my first fetish, those long thigh high black boots

[Wo****]

I introduced my wife to fetish lifestyle. Doesn't do much for me but she likes it. I personally knew about fetishism at a young age. My parents would talk to us kids about almost anything. Discovering new things almost daily though so that's nice. That's you for taking the time to read my comment and have a fetishtic day.

[Wo****]

Thanks*

[mo****]

If you are self taught pay a lot of attention to understanding a collapsing knot vs non-collapsing knot. In the heat of the moment you might get bits wrong and it might not be pretty, but if you know it's not going to collapse your better off then thinking you got it right and the knot being pretty. Of course check-in more if you're new . Don't do self taught suspension, in my opinion, seek out a mentor or class.

[mo****]

My apologies I thought this was rope related. I think the sentiment of check-in more applies to any kink if you or your partnr are new.

[Deleted Member]

I been using a vibrator on myself since I was around 11 years old. Practiced sucking myself around the same age. I knew I liked anal play and felatio but didn’t want anyone to know. Would end up finally playing with another guy and losing my anal virginity at the age of 32.

[Deleted Member]

I was trained as a teeenager as a sub. I had an amazing older Misstress who trained me then helped me when I switched. 26 years a Dom now

[SashaLeroux]

Hmmmm intriguing?  I’d say I ntroduction via partners or porn. Seeds planted then self play or research cements it. 

[Craigpanther]

My friends *** fighting with him she sat on top of him that unlocked an inner fetish I didn’t think I had 

[Deleted Member]

Bit of both I learned of a Misstress for 2 years and then went my own way. Learning of every sub I have been with. The secret is never be so arrogant to think you know everything, because you dont. Always learn