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woodworth27476
New to the scene

I’m new to the scene and looking for a mentor or dom to show me the ropes ;P I wanna learn all there is about this community. If you want to talk more hit me up
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 30 years ● 495km around USA Antioch
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Wiggie
Looking for her

Looking for a sub, slave who prefers well endowed men to connect with… drinks, coffee or lunch
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 77 years ● 140km around USA Paw Creek
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Lion4Miss
Calm, loyal sub seeking confident dominant woman

I am a calm, intelligent and emotionally stable Scandinavian man who naturally enjoys a submissive dynamic with a strong, confident woman.

What attracts me most is psychological dominance, trust, loyalty and a clear, respectful power exchange rather than extreme or chaotic play.

I value connection, communication and mutual respect. I am discreet, well-educated and have a balanced life, but I deeply appreciate being guided and controlled by the right woman in a consensual and structured way.

I am not into primal hunting dynamics or rough chaos – I prefer a classic, elegant and mentally focused D/s relationship.

Looking to meet a dominant woman who is secure in herself, enjoys leadership and appreciates a devoted, reliable and respectful partner.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years Sweden Steninge
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Jmedia201
Pegme

Looking for gentle fem dom.
BDSM Play Partner ● 31 to 54 years ● 50km around USA Media
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Sitonmyfacemami
Any Dom woman

Any Dominate woman in Philly area looking for a switch/sub male to play with experiment with or just have a fun time.. DM ME
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 120km around USA Philadelphia
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babyh777
Where’s my new sub?☺️

I’m looking for a hot young hung sub/sissy that will melt under my pretty hands. I’m looking for a consistent play toy who wants to be ruined but also likes to hangout and cuddle💖
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 33 years ● 40km around USA San Antonio
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Dorothy211
Looking for an experienced safe Dom

Interested in finding some play partners with some experience idr mind gender when it comes to exploring kinky stuff romantically I’m straight but bi-curious
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 48 years ● 65km around USA Schenectady
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Kinky_Rose
Sub looking for owner

A sub Looking to be owned by a suitable partner 24/7
BDSM Play Partner ● 50 to 70 years ● 100km around UK Plymouth
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RJR5150
Lookng

Looking for a sub who would like to get to know one another and have fun while doing it!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Waxahachie
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emb4701
28m sub looking for domme to explore with

28m sub new to kink in an active sense. I've always been curious but I've never really put myself out there before now. I'm looking to find a domme locally to connect with and explore this side of myself more.
Please DM me if you want to chat and get to know each other more :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 25km around USA Colorado Springs
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sibby2145
Daddy Dom

I’m looking for a daddy dom. Message if you would like to chat.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 500km around USA Arcata
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spookyrose95
Looking for a local experienced Dom

I'm an experienced submissive human who loves to obey, and because of that I'm looking for a Dominant.

Please review over my profile and reach out if you think we would vibe! I'd love to go over kinks and limits.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 50 years ● 95km around USA Taylorsville
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ArmandoDom
Procuro sub

Moro na capital SP.
Eu gosto de tudo ... Mandar uma mensagem para nos conhecermos e marcarmos um encontro talvez tomar um cerveja
Casais são bem vindos.
Se for bom, estou aberto a algo mais do que casual.
Not: Não vou te pagar para me encontrar com você ou sexo .. Não estou desesperado.
Meu português não é perfeito 😄
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 32 years ● 15km around Brazil São Paulo
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knottyspanks
Seeking pet/sub/slave for BDSM long term

Hi! I’m seeking a sub/slave/pet for BDSM long term relationship. I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable being a sub/slave/pet.. boundaries to be discussed. I will respect boundaries. I am looking for communication, consistency, subservience, submissiveness, sweetness, loyalty, respect. I’m not into games or drama.. please be std free. I am std free. Aftercare is always a priority after. Let’s chat and see if we have chemistry. TIA
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 190km around USA Dingmans Ferry
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knottyspanks
Sub/slave/pet wanted..

I’m looking for a sub/slave/pet, for long term relationship.. I’m a BDSM dom with 25 yrs exoerience who will occasional switch but prefer Dom.. I’d like my partner to be open and ready for a long term relationship.. NO GAMES! NO DRAMA! Only the utmost consistency, communication, boundaries, respect, and honesty needed.. let’s talk and figure things out.. if I interest you please send a message! TIA
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 160km around USA Dingmans Ferry
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birmingham768048
Brand new

Brand new to this whole thing, but I’m really interested in it, I’m 100% a sub and want to be a pet/baby/slave sorta thing and I want a master who will I can serve, not looking for any permanent relationship for now just someone to talk to and Mabey eventually meet up
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Birmingham
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Dack2022
Any Dommes/Femdoms need Subs?

Looking for a dominant female to explore with for my wife and/or I. A Dom who is open to trying new things with us. A Dom who is strong and assertive. Who is looking for longer term more consistent things or a one time/short term situation.
Maybe she likes being worshipped, begged, pleasured, etc.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 80km around USA Stony Point
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Naughty_Nicky
Roleplay (;

(32yo Dom Male for submissive)

Have a few scenes already in mind & specific kinks I’d like included (depending on shared interests/limits.. specifics will be discussed in private) let’s play x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Frederick
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Cars__son
Looking for a dom in calgary

19 year old male
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 185km around Canada Calgary
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.