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Tom787
Looking for a domme

Hi I am a sub and ive been looking for a domme for some time. My kinks are ***,sph,pegging and more
Please message me if intrested 😃
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 165km around USA Weymouth
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bristol192
Pleasure dom looking for size queen

Looking for a sub woman that enjoys pushing the limits of her pleasure. If you like large toys, fists, edging, ***d orgasms and anal - message me.
(London based)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● Le Boudoir Club in UK London
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primalindulgence
Seeking submissive(s) or slave(s) to train.

Experienced BDSM Primal Dom. Like me and I will message you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 54 years ● 195km around Australia Gilston
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Blu3Luv
Fun Couple Looking For A Female Sub

Young, fun, adventurous couple ✨🔥 Open-minded, playful, and full of chemistry 😈💋 Looking for a like-minded woman to share flirty, passionate, steamy vibes 💕💦 Respect, communication & mutual pleasure are key 🙌🏽🖤 No drama — just great energy & unforgettable nights ⚡️🌙
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 40 years ● 80km around USA Las Vegas
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nyla777
little looking for dom in person only

hiii feel free to text me to get to know me more if interested must be willing to do a phone call
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 80 years ● 40km around USA Blackwood Terrace
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Brian760
Looking for someone that is real and serious

“I’m seeking a woman who is naturally submissive in spirit and genuinely interested in building a real, trusting relationship with a confident, caring dominant partner. Mutual respect, communication, and emotional connection matter deeply to me.”
That kind of wording shows strength and kindness. It lets people see the man behind the dynamic—the one who leads with intention, not just control.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 60 years ● 200km around USA Statesville
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Riahbaby26
I just wanna wanna be somebody new sub

Somebody dominate but I also don’t mind switching roles every once in a while, I think thats hot. Somebody to control me but I will be honest I won’t make it easy as much as I’m a sub I don’t like to give everything to easily so somebody who can handle that would be nice. Also a connection but probably nothing too serious or at all.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 28 years ● 135km around USA Tulia
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perseusexe
Need a sub who knows how to please

Looking for a female sub who knows how to please their Dom and likes being filled up and or used
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 27 years ● 500km around USA Windsor
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VickyAncona
Sissy seeking to submit

Submissive looking to connect with a dominant Woman for chat with the possibility of a female led relationship. If you are a controlling dom with sadistic tendencies and need a whimpering bitch to train, please reach out to me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Concord
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oakcustar
Looking for full time dom

I want someone who is going to control my sexuality. Tell me what I am allowed to do and when. I will be ready for you at a moment's notice or wait all week for you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 59 years ● 25km around USA Oakland
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thatharleyguy07
No limits but I’ll respect yours

We can meet up and do anything I have no limits I’m dom and sub I’m available day and night sooo pleaseee pm meeeee
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Katy
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foxhandsome
Petplay Request

Hello, looking a dom for local or online petplay. Thank you ❤️
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 40km around USA Colorado Springs
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Daddy4You01
Cage Training

Calling all bratty subs and stray kittens!

I have an opening in my life for a princess little/sub pet. I’m open to both flavors.

I will provide an experience you will not soon forget. Impact play, cage training, collared and owned, discipline and punishment…

The cage is located in an unused room in my house. You can decorate it as you like. Of course this experience must be earned thru total submission. I know what you need.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 37 years ● 500km around USA Scottsdale
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Alti
Long-term Relationship

Hi, this is probably a long-shot

I'm looking for a long term relationship, hopefully a kinky one. I prefer to be a sub/bottom but I'm ok to switch if needs be.

I think a good relationship needs open and honest communication, empathy, understanding and patience.

I'm hoping that I can connect with people here and hopefully have a good relationship bloom from it.

I do have hard limits on what I will/won't do in playtime.
I'm happy to answer any questions but as I work full-time, I may be delayed in my replies (sorry in advance).
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 40 years ● 50km around Australia Gulfview Heights
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ownme08
subby for dom?

hey i’m a sub looking for doms
i’m 5,8
i have blue eyes and short brown hair
i like every kink
im down to online or in person
i’m from uk
hope to hear from you x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 270km around UK Fareham
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Donald30
Cool and kind let’s know each other

Cool person and very sub
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Smyrna
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kaollle
Looking for sub

any woman needs a dom to help with there wildest dreams let me know
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 5km around USA Englewood
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ShaneS5227
Looking for a dom or a mom

Would absolutely adore a woman to finally dominate me or someone who’s down for some roleplay, I love to travel so I’ll go the distance lol, and I can host occasionally too. Honestly down for whatever but I’m really trying to find some new more experienced people in the valley
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Phoenix
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arden24835
New sub looking for domme

Hi I’m will I’m pretty new to the whole bdsm seen but it has always intrigued me but im looking for a dominant woman willing to help me explore and teach me how to be a good submissive
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 105km around USA Morris
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Firewolf00
Dom for sub

Looking to connect with subs and chat to see if we hit it off. Prefer local. Shoot me a message if interested. Experienced poly dom looking for my collar
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 60 years ● 50km around USA Buzzards Bay
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Sissy-in-training
Male Sub seeks female Dom

The headline says it all really. I am a male sub seeking a female dom. I am very new to this but I am eager and keen to explore and learn.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 500km around UK Claughton-on-Brock
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USMCMAN1996
Pegging

I need a dom to peg me! 😩
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 18 years ● 25km around USA Atlanta
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