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bbygrl812
Barcelona Meet Up

Traveling to Barcelona in June and looking to make friends I can meet up with there. Online play and sharing pics until then so we already know what we like when you fill me up for the first time 😉🥰
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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Dallas
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Genexr66
Experienced and looking

Experienced Dom going through an active divorce looking for local sub who understands and can accept My situation
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 70 years ● 10km around USA Gardner
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Malibu00420
Looking for an experienced mommy dom 🥺

I'm looking for a mommy dom that can be strict and stern, my little side needs a firm hand 😅🥺
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Richmond
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Riley_Das
Looking for some fun

I'm a dom, who is looking for a new sub. I enjoy ropes, choking, slapping, hard rough sex, and other things. Being a masochist is basically a must.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 35km around USA Atlanta
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hot-springs206194
Maybe I should be talking to the women.

I have an orgasm fetish. My sub lives to have orgasms. Our dynamic fits both of our needs perfectly.
I hope this is not hard to understand.
My sub wants to have orgasms and would like others to watch as she twitches and shakes and convulses out of control. We would like to watch other women having the same ecstasy.
We are only interested in couples. The woman’s pleasure is our primary goal and hope her male partner wants that too.
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 70 years ● 80km around USA Hot Springs Village
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switchinitup
Anyone looking for a FWB?

Looking to explore my dom side more with someone I connect with

Happy to chat over DM to discuss further x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 40km around Australia Yokine
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ECCN
Asia male looking for a fem domme in SP

Hello. I'm from Hong Kong. 32 year old, 184cm
Currently living and working in São Paulo. Looking for a local fem domme friend to have fun together. I had experience serving as a good sub. Mainly speak Enligsh.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 120km around Brazil São Paulo
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faggot18
Looking for a hot dom

I’m looking for a hot, aggressive dom who will use me and put me in my place.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 24 years ● 25km around USA Brooklyn
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Pittsfield19
Submissive male

I’m looking for a soft dom woman who can coddle me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 42 years ● 80km around USA Pittsfield
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AHW25102000
Slave toy

Looking for a sub who likes being a brat and I can put in their place when needed who will fully offer themselves to me. Don’t be shy no
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 50km around UK Birmingham
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Stoneydominance
Looking for Sub/degradee

Im looking for Dark humor. Submissive energy & A taste for chaos. 🖤😈

I like a little attitude, a little danger, and women who secretly enjoy being challenged. The kind who say they’re “too stubborn to be controlled”… but still lean in closer.

If you’re curious, bold, a little wicked, and enjoy playful power dynamics with someone who knows exactly how to push buttons (and limits), we’ll get along just fine.

Brats welcome. Confidence required.
Let’s see how long that attitude lasts. 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 125km around USA Southampton
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nuclearcowboy145
Try femdom

I'm always the Dom with women which I still can't get enough of but I'm fantasizing about having a mistress to be my first femdom and show me what it's like. I'm kinda embarrassed, any suggestions on how to find the right woman to dominate me for the first time?

Thanks~
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Honolulu
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Holefull
Service

Hi
I am very interested and enjoy the BDSM life style. I have to be dominant in real life but I am a sub by nature. I can be switch for fun but I really would like to fully submit.
Looking for a bit of a sadist Dom.
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BDSM Play Partner ● 150km around USA Kalispell
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twistedcybersub
Cyber sub looking to be put in my place

I’m looking for some cyber fun with a dom that will treat me like the naughty girl I am. Love dirty talk, and for sure. Have a lot of links you can play with in a role play and not much turns me off. Hit me up if you think you can handle me. Older guys and anyone who wants me to be their snow bunny get fist dibs 😏
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Garden City
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allston807209
New sub eager to please

Hello everyone, not to long ago I came across an opportunity to be submissive and since that day I have been trying to try new things. I now have a dildo machine with a baseball bat sized dildo that is ***d in me while I am tied up and I want to see if someone will keep punishing me because I'm almost open to anything
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Allston
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Harrylawrence
Massive Manwhore

Any dom women in London/Croydon/Tandridge area looking for a sub?

Looking to be a sex slave, I’m also happy to switch up as I’m also a bit dom so would happily tie you up and get spicy!

Love eating pussy and arse so if that what you like drop a message!

Come and explore my dark fantasies whilst I help you with yours 😉🔥
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 20km around UK Tandridge
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swansong
Looking for a Fem Domme

Had my time as a dom now want to explore the sub side possibly even M/s dynamic. Not expecting to bottom but not opposed either. Not sure if it’s rare to find a femdomme but I’m hoping to manifest things I desire in my life haha
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 190km around USA Richmond
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fitandfuntastic
attractive sub looking for foot play :)

just looking to play around w some nice feet and worship a deserving domme :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 165km around USA Davis
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SubSlutShad02
Sub looking for a mistress

I am a submissive looking for a mistress to take me and own me as their property. Please message me if interested so we can see if we are compatible.
BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around USA Manhattan
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jjflah22snap
ISO a mistress in Maine

Hey I’m Joshua I’m 41 live in northern Maine looking for a mistress to be their slave or sub open to anything except pegging if interested pm me or snp jjflah22
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 56 years ● 405km around USA Fort Fairfield
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leicester22941
Sub in need of a mistress

I am looking for a mistress to train me and have regular sessions with.
I'm into cbt and many other kinks and have a foot fetish. I'm open to try most things and we can discuss limits when we talk.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 60 years ● 80km around UK Leicester
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.