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CuriousSubE
Looking for male Dom

I’m seeking a long-term ENM Dominant who is emotionally intelligent, experienced, secure, and who enjoys kinky within a real, evolving connection.

Pls check my profile before approach. A bit long but necessary. Thanks😊
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 68 years ● 25km around Australia Epping
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RoseGold
27F looking for sub in Seattle or surrounding area

27F seeking well trained or trainable sub.
(NOT MENTORSHIP)

Must be 24yrs or older, cis man or masculine presenting nb or trans man.
Preferably single (ENM is fine).

For lifestyle servitude and/or MF/MC mainly.


Must be in or around Seattle area (WA) as I’m seeking IRL ONLY.


No NSA


No couples
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 80 years ● 160km around USA Seattle
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Switchy_hazel
Switchy girl looking for switch/domme

I’m a switchy girl who wants to explore being someone’s pet/sub/baby and being owned, primarily as a monogamous relationship. I lean toward liking cis women, trans women, nonbinary people, femmes and trans men. You’ll need to be a very kind cis man to get my attention. I’m very happy to chat and get to know one another before any in person meets
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 90km around UK Gravesend
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BostonBWC
Wedgie giver looking for female nerds!

Love wedgies, spanking, nipple play, name calling, etc. Looking for a female preferable within meeting distance (but also open to virtual) who’s interested in chatting and maybe looking for a dom/bully
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Danvers
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Kaiser82435
Gentle yet firm Daddy Dom searching for a new prin

Not at all new to the scene, just taken a few years for personal growth... I'm looking for a sweet and obedient sexy little sub to start a new adventure with. I'm open to almost all kinks, my limits are few, but firm. Local is preferable, but I do travel and I am open to distance for a limited time. If connection forms, I will push for in person and possible cohabitation.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 38 years ● 165km around USA Knoxville
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ipswich189798
Bdsm fem dom

Look king for a sexual relationship
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Ipswich
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Mokadom
Submissive Men:Your Generosity & obedience

Dominant woman seeking submissive men who are obedient, useful, and generous. I desire complete servitude and worship. If you crave to please and submit, let’s connect and explore our desires together.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 65 years ● 175km around USA Brooklyn
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jay697
Connect?

Bored need someone to chat with~ passively seeking
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Elkridge
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AnalDaddyDomJay
Where is the serious anal submissive I been lookin

If you’re serious and looking for a LTR or to be a anal sub send me a message.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 50km around USA Harrisburg
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puppysub2332
Puppy in need of owner

Have you been looking for a sub? Maybe a sub that won’t bother you but will happily overt everything you say? Here I am!!! I’m almost limitless and I adore being humiliated, ***d and toyed with. Woof woof, come watch me humiliate myself for your amusement.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Manchester
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ray_skull
Read up

Submissive men to the front only
Send a message to actually get a response
Online fun only
Prefer around my age but if your cute Try your luck
I am STRICTLY dom stop trying me and stay in your lane.
Thx u 😘
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 31 years ● 500km around USA Antioch
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DaddyRexdom
Looking for a new bi sub

I am in Philly till Sunday. I am looking to find a sub to use and build trust and free use to play with my other sub. Age 25 - 55
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Philadelphia
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Wolf_Eyes
looking for dirty lil F sub 18-38 in South West lo

Hey, am looking for a dirty little sub that wants to be both treated like a princess and used like a dirty little toy, send me a message and let's see where things land
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around UK Weston-super-mare
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Preetypinkprincess10
Hello

Im still new to this but ima a sub looking for a dom I can click with and learn from and go from there. I'm really laid back as long as you keep it real we're good, I'm definitely a doctor who,marvel,harry potter,and a lowkey anime girl I love drawing every now and then Love places with beautiful scenery and cool aesthetic themes
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 26 years ● 5km around USA Atlanta
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MystressTiger
Seeking female submissive

I'm seeking a female submissive. I'm not interested in online only. It has to be in person at least most of the time. Ideally seeking someone who likes bondage, flogging, orgasm denial, teasing, breast play among others.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 59 years ● 115km around USA Springfield
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Dom_dancer
Looking for a long term sub

Im looking for a long term sub who is into all sorts bdsm fun. Bonus if youre open to moresomes and group play
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 75 years ● 50km around UK London
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bluecollarmrgrey
Redroomhandyman looking for that subby/switch

Absolutely down with this dynamic with lots of room to go i prefer mostly role of daddy dom/soft dom, but as you tell me your needs the fantasies build in my mind and can happen. Preferably looking straight but open to other things as well. Love rope play cuffs toys spanking items and other it is growing. Feel free to hmu
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 105km around USA Cleburne
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tbone303
Sub looking for dominant woman

Sub looking for dom woman or trans, hmu!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 175km around USA Denver
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iriv
In search of sub

Looking for a sub to experiment with occasionally
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Okemos
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MASTER_ILL
SEEKING SUBMISSIVE LOYAL SLUT TA SERVE DA ILLEST S

IF U BRATTY BUT KNOW WEN TO GIVE IT UP TO DADDY LET'S DISCUSS LINKING UP.
GET FLOGGED N FED ON GOING IF DA FREQUENCY FEEL GUDD
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 250km around USA Mountain House
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drainmybbcx
Looking for a online DOM MOMMY

Very submissive boy here looking for a Mommy to worship 🥺

degrading
sissification
raceplay
pegging
tasks
cei
joi
edging
watersports

I’ll do anything for my mistress 🥺
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London
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freakydeek
Need an experienced Mistress?

I’m hoping to find a sub who is committed to wanting to serve a Mistress. One that’s eager to play and has little to no limits. If you think this is you, feel free to message me. 🔒
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 500km around USA San Francisco
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Miss-5199
Dom/f/who loves to be in control

My main kinks are cum
Control, joi, sph, sissification, degrading and ***!
BDSM Play Partner ● USA Mi Metro
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masterrob80
Sissy maid

Sub sissy maid seeking local Wrexham owner to serve as commanded all commands obeyed service in and out of home
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Wrexham
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
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