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br33der
Looking for a sub

Looking for a submissive to get to know on a deeper level along with some kinky fun. I’m non judgmental all kinks can be discussed along with any limits. Don’t be afraid to say hi
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Bridgwater
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NickCage
Anyone looking for a dom ?

Looking for women that love to get dominated
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 20km around USA Flushing
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Joepublik72
Seeking a new subject...

Not looking for notches on my bedpost, I want a sub i can exclusively focus my attention on... so, if you feel you're ready to step up, reach out and drop me a line. Inspire me...
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 62 years ● Come As You Are Toronto in UK Redcar and Cleveland
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cumforme201
Searching

Dom in search for his sub message me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Australia Sydney
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Nyyxara
You love me don’t you

Hello Im Nyyx, Nice to meet you all I’m new here I love laughing and having a good time and I’m looking to have fun and learn new things. I would love to meet some who is kind, nice and thoughtful. I love music, art, food and trying new things. I also LOVE SHOPPING🛍️

My Birthday is also coming up soon!!

1.Rule $50 fee

  1. I will be nice to you and you do the same

    Instagram @nyyxara

    Goodgirl, Sub, Brat , Switch
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 35 years ● 500km around USA Chesterfield
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Edrotic
You want to get into it? So do I.

Would love to meet a sub willing to let themselves be controlled, be told what to do, but honestly I’m just looking for a good time. Weather that be short or long term. I’m even willing to sub for the right person.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Miltona
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structalmonkey
Sub needed

Looking for a sub who like to be tested and if she’s a good girl gets spoiled and does what daddy wants
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 80 years ● 65km around USA Aurora
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Osito951
Mexican Dom

39 Mexican Dom in search of a submissive cock loving slut. I have a high sexual appetite and I am looking for the same in a partner. I also have a fetish for eating pussy and ass. Lastly I am 420 friendly I stay in the inland empire and I can host . If you have any questions feel free to message.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 140km around USA Corona
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appleofmyeye
Sub ISO Dominatrix

Hi all! New to fet but not the kink scene. I'm recently out of a 6 year relationship and looking to dive head first into the kink scene again. I've explored all of my interests except for total devotion to a domme.

I love hikes, cute dates, live music, fetish night at clubs, motorcycles, cars, mechanic work, and travel.

Message me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 34 years ● 85km around USA Somerville
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Thedominator1985
Lady sub needed 12th May

Ladies and couples near Royal Sutton Coldfield or willing to travel to this location.

Am staying over the 12th May.

Accommodation and drinks provided.

Interested, get in touch.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 245km around UK Birmingham
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tater_tots
Daddy's Slut

Bratty middle looking for a heavy handed Daddy Dom. Aggressive but soft enough for my little to feel safe coming out too.

He Should be an experienced Daddy with a background in impact, bondage and brat taming. Emotionally intelligent, able to communicate authentically and move transparently, creative, funny and nerdy about SOMEthing.
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 48 years ● 25km around USA Phoenix
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astrapuppy1210
Throuple for an exclusive relationship

Looking for mistresses/queens who are interested in a lesbian throuple, but I'm not looking for an open relationship. Looking for a committed long-term relationship for a lesbian throupl and only exclusively the three of us. No other sub or dom outside.
But not shy to perform on stages with me as their sub. Other scenes/kinks can be negotiated
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Indonesia Menteng
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bolgare963
Cerco sub

Vorrei entrare nell mondo bdsm, chi aiutarmi?)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 45km around Italy Cernobbio
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joy16
my stuffies need a father

hii! i’m hoping to find a dom who can help me become less bratty and a better rule follower. i love stuffed ***s and spankings. i think i could be a really good girl for the right person
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 34 years ● 195km around USA Midlothian
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JustSomeGuy1207
Any Dommes on here!?

Would love to find a Dom I can serve, in person preferably, but online is fine as well!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 175km around USA Southport
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cexxtxx
Come over w a condom and use me

BDSM dom who is ok I’m already pretty drunk. Actually too a woman who ***s me to accept who I am would be hot
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Everett
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lukem90
Sub wanted

I want to meet someone interested in finding that spark and deep intimate connection while having a lot of fun .
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 75km around USA Waterloo
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new-york342566
Sub ashtray boy

Very into cigar and cigarette smoking men. A huge fetish of mine, kneeling before you while you blow that smoke in my face. Train it to serve and worship the way you want Sir.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 40km around USA Brooklyn
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EF7
Dom mommy?

Please please please message me if you’re a dominant woman who wants to have some fun.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 40km around UK Wigan
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kansas11
First Time

I am a heterosexual male that has always had a fantasy of bdsm/femdom/sub. If there is any woman who are interested in making my first time a reality. Message me directly….
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 240km around USA Manhattan
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unk0wn
Lowkey wanna be a slave

So I’m out living in Vegas and if you’re also here in Vegas that’s great. But besides that, I wanna be a woman’s slave. Like anything goes and all that. So, if anyone is a dom and wants a full sub then reach out!!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 40km around USA Las Vegas
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Candyqueen4sub
Mistress seeking a loyal and honest sunb

Are you interested in exploring some fun and adventure with me ? I’m an experienced dom type I seek a loyal and honest sub, I offer nothing less than a dream come through experience. JSYK there is an error on my profile for my gender. I identify as a female, this site wont let me correct the mistake they made. Be my lucky toy by guessing this puzzle. THREE ONE EIGHT. SEVEN FOUR FIVE. FIVE FIVE SIX NINE
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 99 years ● 150km around USA Autaugaville
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TattedVADom
Looking For Submissive Female

Looking for a submissive female who I share mutual kinks with. Most be willing to explore and pleasure seeking. Consistency is key as I would like it to be an ongoing thing. Hit me up if this might be you.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 75km around USA Carrollton
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.