What I’m Looking For:

I’m seeking partners who are open-minded, respectful, and enthusiastic about the exploration of power dynamics and sensuality. Whether you’re experienced in BDSM or just starting your journey, I believe in building connections based on trust, consent, and genuine interest.

An ongoing FWB/situationship where I am simutanelously safeguarded and pushed into the submissive I am is my ideal goal. I love the idea of being told what to do and how to do it. A part of my competitive nature is to be given expectations and expect to meet or exceed them.
Interests and Preferences:

BDSM Practices: I enjoy crossdressing,outfits,roleplaying, bondage, roleplay, latex, and erotic photogrpaghy, but I’m always open to discussing new experiences and expanding my horizons.
I love all tyes of clothing, lingerie, and costumes. My willingness to try something atleast once is something I standby.
Communication: Open and honest dialogue is crucial. I value discussions about limits, safewords, and aftercare to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both parties.

Respect for Identity: As a questioning individual, it’s important for me to engage with partners who are supportive and understanding of my identity. Respect and inclusivity are essential.
What I Offer:

A Safe Space: A non-judgmental and inclusive mind where we can explore our desires and fantasies.

Mutual Expirmentation: A chance to learn from each other, share experiences, and grow together in our understanding of BDSM and ourselves.

Adventure and Fun: An eagerness to try new things, whether it’s a creative scene or a simple, intimate connection.
If you’re interested in connecting and exploring the potential for a meaningful and exciting journey together, I’d love to hear from you! Let’s start with a conversation and see where our interests align.
Contact:

Feel free to reach out with a message introducing yourself and sharing a bit about your interests and what you’re looking for. I’m excited to connect and see what we can discover together!

BDSM Play Partner22 to 37 years ● 25km around USA Harleysville

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