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TEACHER8
Dom , looking for Female partner.

I am looking for a connection with a female that is looking to explore her submissive side. I am want to explore my Dom side ,
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 59 years ● 100km around USA Baton Rouge
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dannycool15
Anyone close to Prudhoe or North East?

I am a 24-year-old male from the northeast and I am seeking to expand my connections in the kink world. I am looking for individuals aged 18-41 who are also located near the northeast, as cannot travel far for meetups. I am pansexual and have included test results in profile. Interested individuals can message directly for more information about experiences and fetishes. Thank you for reading this Ad and hope to speak with you soon.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 41 years ● 45km around UK Gateshead
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drtymindsm
Looking for a sub

Must be into, impact play and rigging
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 66 years ● 310km around USA Belleville
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guerrilla_glue
Daddy Dom Seeking a New Little

Gentle hand. Firm voice. Safe space.

I’m a Daddy Dom who leads with intention. I’m protective by nature and deeply invested in the emotional well-being of my partner. I find fulfillment in structure, connection, and the slow, steady building of trust. I’m looking for a Little who craves consistency, attention, and soft control — someone who lights up under praise and blossoms in safety.

You: emotionally intelligent, playful, perhaps a little bratty (within reason), and ready for something real, whether that’s giggles, rituals, rules, or deep talks at 2am. Bonus if you’re nerdy, love the outdoors, or have a soft spot for dark humor and good books.

This isn’t about play alone. It’s about care, consistency, and connection. If you’re looking for a Daddy who actually shows up, I might be the one.

Let’s talk. I’ll bring the structure. You bring the sparkle.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 160km around Australia Brisbane
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insanitysheart
Looking For Daddy/Mommy/Dom

Would love to meet a rough Daddy/Mommy Dom. A dom who is rough and loves the dark side of little play. I want to go deep. I have very little hard limits. I love to be padded up. I love a lot of different things!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 95km around USA Golden
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littleryan
New sub open to anything

Just trying things out no real hard limits
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 71 years ● 30km around USA Fort Campbell
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eugene204312
Sub looking for daddy dom ♥️

Hiii I'm looking for a daddy dom to train me and roleplay with. I am very interested in being a full time submissive
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 44 years ● 500km around USA Eugene
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Synn19
In need of a sub

really just looking for a sub that i can take care of and use not really sure how this site really works yet but im just trying my best right now.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 5km around USA Flint
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FtmToy9827
“ftm” looking for an older dom

Horny Ftm With A Misgendering Kink Looking For An Older Dom To Show Me My Place And Remind Me What My Holes Are For
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Lafayette
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Ge99
Looking for a 🦄 (sub) in the Boston area

Looking for some fun to join me and my girl, if you like getting dominated and like some *** in between dm me 😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 170km around USA Fall River
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lynxiebean2004
Ddlg princess looking for daddy

just looking for a daddy dom to be mine
I love being in little space
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 38 years ● 500km around USA Seattle
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Yokolilly
Daddy dom needed

Need someone to read me my bedtime story:) a woman can be a daddy too
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 50km around Japan 墨田区
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bigman8449
I want to be a submissive sissy

I want someone to feminize me and make me their sub
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Camillus
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lynxiebean2004
Looking for a dom

Hi! I am just looking for a dom
I have been looking for a hot minute and I would love someone who would give me rules and a daily routine to follow. If we can stay online untill I am able to get a car that would be preferred. I do live at home.
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BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 36 years ● 395km around USA Seattle
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fayetteville825472
Play partner

Seeking pegging partner that is a switch and loves toys near Fayetteville NC. Must be clean naughty average or fit.
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 38 years ● 295km around USA Fayetteville
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Buzz211
21m and 21f looking for TPE puppy girl or located

Dillon Torrance here, based in Eustis, FL. My partner Mia and I are seeking a dedicated, bratty, submissive puppy girl who desires a 24/7 TPE lifestyle within a deeply affectionate and structured home.

Our dynamic is mainly Daddy/little girl (DDLG) with a strong emotional foundation. Mia is my primary and always will be. We’re poly and ready to include a pup who thrives in service, discipline, obedience, and affection—not as a romantic partner, but as a cherished pet with emotional and physical care.

What we're looking for:

Female, ages 21–25, preferably shorter than 5'3" (same height as Mia)

Fully embrace the puppy role, bratty but trainable

Genuinely need a stable, nurturing home environment

Crave routine, structure, and guidance

Be drama-free, obedient, emotionally grounded

Have a deep need for connection, purpose, and submission

Be okay with breeding kink as fantasy only — pregnancy is not welcome

Be local — within 50 miles of Eustis, FL (flexible if you’re very serious)

Be willing to meet in person — no long-distance or online-only dynamics


Note: While we prefer someone shorter, all interested puppies will be looked at with the same care and respect, regardless of height. What matters most is mindset, heart, and honesty.

We’re not just looking for a kink partner. We’re offering a place to belong—for someone who truly needs it, respects our home, and understands what it means to be cared for deeply in return.

Serious inquiries only.
Text Dillon: 352-455-7072
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 25 years ● 80km around USA Eustis
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Domature
Experienced dom/dd looking for a potential ltr

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BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Brier
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Grthquake
Soft-Dom/Gentleman seeking his Pillow Princess

Just like it says. For a night, or Forever...

Lookin for deep honest connection, and amazing sex.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 320km around USA Algona
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Fry68
Submissive Female for Pleasure Dom

I Want to meet with a submissive Lady in Springfield Missouri I am 420 friendly and a pleasure Dom I have a house so I can host
913 967 2369 HMU
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 80 years ● 40km around USA Springfield
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daddydojose
Dom guy seeking sub fem for drp and a long term re

Must be ok with exchanging numbers
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 500km around USA Fresno
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Rex02372
Come play

Looking to host a DDLB role play scenario.
Open to Dom/sub/swap
Limits respected
Love to chat about it 😛
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Fishers
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LittleLaceGrace
Sissy femboy looking for a caring dom

Looking for someone online or ip to control me and push me father than ever before into submission and feminization. I have reasonable limits but I'm looking for someone who enjoys being a soft dom or caretaker. Controlling yet kind. And I'd love to build this into something long term if it goes well. Message me, love yas.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Richmond
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Aberfemboy
Femboy 4 dom

Need a dom, especially one that will further feminise me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Ceredigion
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1997baby
Looking for master

I’m looking for a master that wants to use me, I’m a consensual sub that is new to the Scene and is looking for a Dom, Sub dynamic. Into chatting and getting to know people more.

I don’t mind a message telling me what to do 😉😘
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 25km around Australia Ballina
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.