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imthatbeta
Sub as it gets

I’m looking for a more dominant woman to take some control from me. I’d be an amazing cuckold I think haha
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Indianapolis
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bigddy71
Daddy dom

Anyone in the area looking for a daddy dom? 😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Hastings
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MajiinQ94
Fem dom Spokane area? Message me

The title speaks to what I am looking for
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Breathplayl0ver
Looking for a sub 👀

Hey yall! I just wanted to post this here saying hello! Im a semi experienced dom looking for a sub near me! I’m very experienced in cnc and breathplay and have decent experience in other categories. I’m willing to hear you out always and try new things if they seem appealing! I’m just looking for someone who I can have fun with and enjoy their presence in and out of the bedroom :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 20km around USA Malden
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Aussiex
Want to serve you as your seat

Are you a female seeking a forever face to use as your seat im yours to use whenever needed im highly experienced in all aspects of facesitting my major off limits are anything to toilet play s and play

And im open to help train new Dom's and mistresses in learning with every thing there is to facesitting
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 200km around Australia Diamond Creek
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HantsDiscreetDom
Dom for Hampshire Wiltshire Dorset Surrey Meets

Experienced Dom for single female, m/f couples, wife sub experience and D/s training .. based in New Forest but can travel .. get in touch to know more about my skills and strict rules of obedience.
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toronto914085
Let’s have some fun

Looking for sub/dom, anyone down to exchange pics or sext
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DelilahD90
Service Sub

Looking for a trustworthy service sub. A gentleman who can cook, clean, take care of drycleaning and laundry, and give an occasional foot rub. You will be treated with more based on your level of service. A man who is very secure in his masculinity and willing to humbly serve as I work and take care of more important things. And when I say cook, I mean actual culinary skills only pls.
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 44 years ● 55km around USA Madison
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mdoaksnsldo
Looking for a mommy

a submissive girl, looking for a dom mommy. train me to be your pretty little plaything
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 500km around Russia Syktyvkar
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Misclick
Looking for something refreshing

I’m a dom and I’m looking for something new and refreshing where we can talk about random things or kink talk let’s explore some fantasies and discover each others secrets
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 500km around USA Greeley
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pawtucket29998
Use and *** me

Want to someone to use the shit out of me. Sub no limits.
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subD34
Sub looking for a mistress

I'm looking to serve a kinky Domme pm me
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Kaitlin
Looking For A Mistress

I'm looking for someone who is willing to experiment with me and make me their sub/slave. I'm interested in a variety of things and I'm always up to try stuff out.
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pretty-praire21506
Switch looking to explore my sub side

Hi I am 22 years old switch and I was hoping to explore my sub side
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smeagle666976
Looking for fun

I'm trying to find a switch dom lean lady that open to sharing pics and other things and likes to erp
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MKDuke
Trucker seeking partner(s)

Looking for Daddy's good (most of the time) girl.
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jacob-d1964
Want to be dom

Looking for some to dominate me in every way. And having me come back for more. Haven’t been dominant in a long time and I need it.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 60km around USA Claremore
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pegging

22M Asian sub, seeking female-led play in Sydney
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brampton99949
Dominant Seeking Loyal Submissive

I'm looking to connect with a submissive woman who’s open-minded, loyal, and ready to explore a deeper power exchange. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or experienced and craving structure, I’m seeking someone who values trust, discipline, and mutual respect. Brats, good girls, and obedient souls—if you crave guidance, ritual, and intensity, I’m here to lead with a steady hand and a clear mind.
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Sub4Femdom7
Sub4Femdom

Any woman who wants to have a sub for any use of any kink or fetish
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sam2910
Sub looking for a kinky partner

Anyone dominant who’s up for a good time
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Jaybilly
EXPLORE TO THE MAX

I’m a Dominant who values control, clarity, and real connection. I’m not here to play games I’m seeking a submissive woman ready to explore structure, discipline, and deep surrender under the right leadership.
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.