Hi, I'm looking for someone that I can get to know and make happy.

I know everyone's time is precious and I want to make their time fun enjoyable and relaxed.

I like to please and love to be told I have been a good boy, I want to follow the rules and tasks she sets but I know I can stray a little sometimes🫣 so someone that is inventive in ways to make me learn would be helpful, I don't mind these tasks if they are of a sexual or just a mundane task, anything that makes her happy or she has one less thing to do around the house. I have had experience with ass play and loved it so would definitely like if she wishes to explore this more.

I have some in person experience of being a sub, I had been online for more than two years with one Dom starting with texts then on to cam, I then moved to in person with a different Dom due to the other being in a different country, we met a few times and I believe I was able to fulfill her needs. She liked me to cook for her, she would play and me trying to make me make a mistake. Unfortunately, she is unable to continue due to personal reasons. So now I'm looking again.

I am only looking for in person meetings but happy to chat online for bit exchange phots and information to allow you to decide if I'm right for you, preferably around east midlands, but I am willing to travel If we have a good connection.

I do have some limits but these are more or less the same as most people's, like no
, ***,kids, permanent marks, there are few more but nothing to extreme. I do like to experiment and try new things so I will try most things once unless is against my limits. I am straight but not against having other males in the room or play, this will probably take a bit of time to build up to as never done it before.

If this is something that interests you say hi so we can chat, see if we click, hopefully I will find my wonderful mistress and she her willing sub.

I will be open and honest from the start i do have a long-term partner of over 20 years and she dose not know im looking for a mistress to please, she has no interest in any kinks but i need to release the feeling to please someone.

Please note I'm not interested in people that will sell their service to me, I am also only interested in a female mistress. I would like a friend, someone when we are not playing, we can have a conversation, maybe take for a meal or go for drinks, want to be that person that you trust and feel you can try and say almost anything with. If you have gotten to the end thank you for you time.

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