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rbzee
Submissive male for spankings and more

sub male for BDSM play.
In Need Of: spankings, strappings, butt plugs dildos, strap-Ons, bondage, enemas etc., butt plugs. Perhaps CD?
BDSM Play Partner ● 55 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Budd Lake
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littleSubAshley
Daddy Dom needed

Please be single and straight
Would like to build a friendship
and trust before doing anything
Prefer it if you are within 200 MI
Respect my time
No smokers
BDSM Play Partner ● 32 to 55 years ● 410km around USA Moore
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trinthepup
Looking for dom

I want a real man to be my dom and collar me one day, not just for the bedroom, but in everyday life. Im a 20yo virgin, 5'3 and plus size, lmk if that interests yall 😚
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 26 years ● 500km around USA Lansing
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helluvafan1989
ISO DD

Looking for a daddy dom with EXPERIENCE. Must be within 60-100 miles of me. Must have a lot of experience as a DADDY. Not breaking in a new one. Must be comfortable with regression and age play. No older than 45 and I'm done being the settler 🤷🏼‍♀
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 45 years ● 150km around USA Conway
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420toy
Playful babygirl in search of BWC Daddy ✨

Seeking playful, fun, pleasure doms & daddy types. Rewards + praise >>> *** + punishment. Into a variety of kinks including (but not limited to!) orgasm control, bondage, edging, ch(o)king, an(a)l, toys, and most importantly d/s dynamics.

Looking for ongoing play, 90% virtual 10% in person. BWC ONLY, 6.5” and above please ✨ I am a size queen, do not disappoint me!

I don’t like having my time wasted, please only respond if you are aligned with my description here & in my profile 💖
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 54 years ● 125km around USA Costa Mesa
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huntsville489466
Look for

I’m looking for dom trans women or a regular man or lesbian to fuck my tight asf asshole up. As much as the please and spread my ass hold wide ass open. I’m located in central Alabama dm me if you’re interested. If your a woman who loves pegging guys I hope you a have xl dragon dildo with cum tube ready. I’m only in to public play for the first few times then going somewhere private.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 105km around USA Huntsville
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WaffleDaProto
25M Sub looking for Local-ish Dom

So! I'm looking for some nice sub time, I'm looking for a dom who actually has some experience in being a dom! Not just someone who wants to be a top and get ass, you need EXPERIENCE PLEASE.

I'm into like...everything literally. But one thing at the top of my list right now is probably ABDL, I would looooooove some little time. So! If you're nearby and are interested in a sub then shoot me a message!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 110km around USA Shelby
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solid_soul
Training needed

Hello! Newly experienced sub here looking to continue with training! I’ve got a little experience with Femdom I really love it! Been to two kink events now so I’m looking to get deeper into sub lifestyle!

Fell free to ask questions!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 330km around UK Bristol
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Jayem-7554
Sub search for you

I want to find.a.local femdom/master/cpl disciplinarian
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 82 years ● 56km around USA Paducah
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ObsidianGod
Hey y’all

Seeking domesticated slaves . Come here let’s talk. Read my profile as well.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 85km around USA Orlando
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sydney23391
Sydney- Dom here

Hi
I’m new here and I am a dominant looking for a sub girl in Sydney. Let me know if you are interested
Thanks
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Australia Sydney
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sydney23391
Sydney -Dom here

Hi. I’m new here and I’m a dominant looking for a sub girl in Sydney. Message me if you are interested. Thanks
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Australia Sydney
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markryder69Salina
Salina KS Dom Looking

New to this site. Dom, educated, professional and discrete. Seeking non vanilla.
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 80 years ● 160km around USA Salina
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SinfullMark
***d Orgasms

Daddy Dom who’s been exploring BDSM for 5 years now…with my own setup with sybian, St Andrew’s Cross and much more! I’m seeking a sub that desire to have there limits pushed in a safe space so if the idea of being tied up and ***d to cum over and over again until your begging me to stop because your overstimulated excites you then you might match my level of freak. If you’re new to kink then I’m happy to show you the ropes. Aftercare is a must for both of us!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 160km around Canada Peterborough
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luscious-leia
Sapphic Slut Seeks Your Pleasure 💖

If you'd like a femme face to sit on, or a talented tongue between your thighs, I'm your girl! Seeking LI / NYC girls & enbys to please 🥀
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Ocean Beach
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Deegn
M 18 Muscular sub looking for a domme

18M, Central Valley CA.

I work in agriculture and mechanics and live a pretty busy, hands-on life. Outside of work I’m into fitness, rock/metal music, gaming, and staying active.

I’m looking to connect with someone open-minded and confident, with good communication and realistic expectations. I’m drawn to more guided or structured dynamics and prefer to let things develop naturally over time, online or in person, if there’s chemistry.

Not interested in financial dynamics.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 150km around USA Escalon
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fort-mcmurray252947
Cum be my dom! 🤩

Would love to meet someone to explore Dom sub relationship
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 78 years ● 500km around Canada Fort McMurray
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sissyslut0
Femboy wanting to lose anal v card

I’m looking for a rough dom/domme to dress me up in any outfit (love latex or tight clothes) and train my ass enough to a useable state then fuck me brutally
BDSM Play Partner ● UK London
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JackMillan
I need a dom

I want a girl who knows who to control me and have a good time

I enjoy edging, teasing, spanking, and punishments
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 27 years ● 265km around UK Dumfries and Galloway
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submissivetop22
Looking 2 Be A Good Sub

Hi, I’m a new but obedient submissive switch who would love to be a good boy for a lovely domme tn. Please lmk if you’re interested.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 65km around USA Nashville
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.