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Sub4urfun02
Searching for another female

My master is looking for a third to join me as another sub ora mommy to use my body with my master I'm a total piece of meat if you are a female sub or dom please get in touch with me
BDSM Play Partner ● USA Missoula
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jta805
Looking for sub 805

Looking for a submissive to play with. Preferably in the 805, and can travel to me. I will be respectful of all your limits and I’m willing to do almost anything. Let me know if you’re interested, and tell me what your limits are.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Paso Robles
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Ready4Action
M4F Seeking Sub in Greater Sacramento Area

I'm looking for a local sub for NSA initially with the possibility of regular meetups. I'm very new to BDSM so I need someone willing to tell me and show me what she wants. I'm a quick learner and I will get the hang of it fast. I'm DDF, fully vaccinated, healthy, strong, responsible, and caring. Oh yea, I love sex.
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 55 years ● 50km around USA Orangevale
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RebornYankee
Looking for a second snowbunny

I’m looking for a second sub who is into race play just as much as I am my fiancé is a snowbunny and we’re looking for a 3rd bi female who’d wanna explore
Key fetishes
Race play
ing fetish
d submission
Breeding and pregnancy
Ddlg friendly
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 405km around USA Star City
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naughton129
Seeking a submissive

Dom seeking sub, preferably in North London. Happy to teach and introduce you to kink if you’re new.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 40km around UK London
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Daddysir7
Uk Dom

Uk dom on on the lookout for long term sub..
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 485km around UK Aberdeen
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LittleSpace4me
Submissive Little in need of structure

I'm looking for a Caregiver/Dom to serve, wanting to connect with my submissive side. Serious applicants only <3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 32 years ● 85km around USA California
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Chrisb_cos
Looking to date

Anybody willing to be a sub, and won’t judge me for my appearance.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 23 years ● 20km around Canada Edmonton
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alex-sub
Feeling submissive

A dom man or woman preferably a mistress
I wanna be tied up and ***d feminisation
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 5km around Ireland Dublin
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chocolatethunderman
BBC Seeking Release 10"

Someone hmu. Can go for hours. Hmu if you want pics.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Corpus Christi
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glasgow0404
M 18 sub

Sub here looking for someone to take my virginity
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Glasgow
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Raven_m22
I am a DOM looking for LTR for the wife.

We are a married couple that is fairly new to the BDSM scene. We are looking for a female sub/switch for a LTR. (We are not looking for guys). We do play fairly rough and would like someone who is into the rougher side of the lifestyle. My wife does have limits so limits are always followed. We would also be playing safe as far as precautions and protection.
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 50 years ● 115km around USA Columbia
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Dom4you2023
Looking for beginner sub who would enjoyeverything

Looking for submissive who is beginner or experienced for many years ,who would enjoy being spanked hard,who would like rough sex while getting hair pulled , being restrained. She would also enjoy sexual massage.
BDSM Play Partner ● 41 to 50 years ● 75km around Canada Lacombe
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SubTransLady
Seeking new dominants

I am looking for new dominant playmates for meets. I am polyamorous and very submissive. More details on my profile. If you like what you see please find me on Kik under the name PoliteTransLady. Thanks!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 85km around UK Sheffield
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Rollo-5311
Sub looking for a person to explore with

I don’t have much actual experience being a sub but have been wanting to find someone to explore with and have some fun. I’m open to fully online play if you’re far away or starting online and meeting up eventually if you live closer. I’m not looking for a pro dom, I just want a dominant female who wants to play around.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 500km around USA Syracuse
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Dom4you2023
Looking for my submissive mate

Looking for a submissive brat in Central Alberta,Canada area to have fun with. I am ready willing and able to explore other kinky activities. Sub should enjoy being restrained, being chocked,me pulling her hair, ,being spanked,. I'm still learning as I go. Very interested in testing boundaries both for myself and my sub.
BDSM Play Partner ● 41 to 56 years ● 100km around Canada Lacombe
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bigboy777666
Sub needed

Looking for a submissive little whore who wants to take me in all her dirty holes
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 550km around Canada Qualicum Beach
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readytoplay2551
Looking for regular

Looking for sub, switch even littlest to look after. Seeking to grow with someone and sharpen my (basic) skills. Looking to find a rope bunny or someone to train with in the comet aspects of bdsm.
Happy to play mentor for the right person but seeking something more intellectual.
Have toys, location - ready to play.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 50km around Australia Southbank
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Itsame87
Looking for a sub

Looking for a submissive to get to know so message me and let's see where it goes
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 130km around USA Youngstown
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FeetluvinD
Face pound or ***d oral

Is there any sub woman out there that likes giving oral and likes their face pounded or likes ***d oral
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Philadelphia
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mmak2488
19M submissive

I'm a college student in the buffalo area who is seeking an older woman who is experienced in the bedroom and knows what she wants who would be interested in using me as her play thing. Msg me id love to get to know eachother
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 99 years ● 10km around USA Buffalo
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JessicaSissySlave
Searching for my superior

I'm looking for someone to be my superior, train me into a sub that would please and pleasure anyone 😌 please feel free to hit me up, I'm willing to chat to anyone who is respectful and is sincere, there are very few limits I would go to for the right person who treats me right 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 300km around Ireland Blanchardstown
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Metamorhosis
I love Ropeplay

I like to meet a sub/ brat that loves rope
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Denmark Århus
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.