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fuckingwhynot
Starting some fun

Looking for a female sub who would like to start a dynamic get the semantics out the way so we can get to business happy to be online or in person whatever’s comfortable
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 32 years ● 25km around UK Warrington
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cumplaywithusnow
Fantasy made reality

Secret encounters for ladies or sub couple that would like to serve a dom /sub couple
We will provide you sexual encounters to remember
If you have ever fantasised of being a sexual servant for a super cool couple now is your chance to explore in a fun safe environment
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 50 years ● 25km around Australia Kanwal
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Ignar
Looking for a play partner in edinburgh/glasgow

Looking for a sub, Domme and FWB to talk with and maybe become play partners if both sides agree.

My Fetlife is @Ignar if you are curious.
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 36 years ● 25km around UK Edinburgh
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Lady-Dee
Looking for a Dom

Salutations. Poly and kinky. Looking for safe relationships that are on-going. I'm sexually charged. No one night stands, please. I'm Submissive and apparently a brat and rope bunny.
. I'm into flogging, toy play, oral, multiple orgasms, restrained, ***d orgasms, roll play, cuddles, affection.
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 45 years ● 25km around USA West Allis
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MistressCJ
Looking for my little slave

Pansexual dom looking for a slave to use however I want. I have 0 limits and anything goes, are you willing? Dm me if you dare.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 27 years ● 25km around USA Westville
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MistressCJ
Looking for my little slave

Pansexual dom looking for a slave to use however I want. I have 0 limits and anything goes, are you willing? Dm me if you dare.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 27 years ● 25km around USA Westville
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RestlessSoul66
Seeking BDSM Enthusiast

I'm looking for a play partner who is interested in BDSM.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 70 years ● 120km around USA Perrysburg
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Ropebunnyalex
Looking for a dom

I'm a sub looking for a Dom I love rope and cnc please hit me up
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 25 years ● 5km around UK Havant
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Lancs_bi_guy
Looking for a bi sub guy to play with

Hi, I am a Dom guy that is looking for a bi sub guy with a decent body who is looking to be blindfolded, tied and be teased and played with. Ideal guy would be willing to try light CBT with toys. My Mistress wants to be present to watch and may join in.
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 46 years ● 170km around UK Lancaster
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DaddyDom1960
Daddy Dom Seeks Eager Subs

I am an Experienced Daddy Dom/Pleasure Dom seeking FEMININE, SUBMISSIVE FEMALES for short or long term CONSENSUAL power exchanges.
You will gift to me the surrender of your body for my desires and bring peace to my life.
In return, I will keep you SAFE, HEALTHY, HAPPY, and SEXUALLY SATED.
REFERENCE AVAILABLE.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 65 years ● 400km around Canada Calgary
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Rockoirehdd
Any females interested in pegging a newbie

Hey I'm a newbie sub I'm training to be pegged I up to 10 inch dildo all way, I think I'm ready for pegging anyone interested
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 56 years ● 500km around UK London
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kracken662
Looking for a third to join me and my puppy

Hello I'm a Dom looking for a third fornme and my pup to have fun with and explore together!
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 45 years ● 25km around USA Eugene
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Rockstudson
Brisbane Dom male seeks fun submissive female

Fun,fit and kinda funny Dom male.i love edging and denial, chastity and seeking fun female.
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 55 years ● 25km around Australia Brisbane
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KittyKatO
18 y.o. girl in need of an internet dom

I'm 18 and I would like someone (30-40) to be an internet dom for me. Someone to help me chose what to wear everyday, pick out what to eat, when to clean my room, etc. I'm very naturally submissive and I just always have been. I'm also a masochist, usually I like it very, very rough. I really like getting ***d sexually. I'm currently not looking for anything irl, sorry. Obviously if we start talking I'll send you pics and videos, I'm not opposed to video/voice calls.
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 40 years USA Orlando
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dublin723
Subs

Looking for a regular female sub to do some exploring with...
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 40 years ● 25km around Ireland Leixip
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Daddydomtj
kik or Twitter

A pet or sub to talk with and have fun
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 34 years ● 25km around USA Fairless Hills
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mindfulsub
Sub male seeking dominant female

I’m looking for anyone who is interested in bdsm/bondage and looking for a submissive to play with, maybe make a regular thing if it goes well

Please don’t hesitate to message me if you have any interest inbox me
BDSM Play Partner ● 50km around UK Sheffield
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dansmith930
Sub looking to play w a dom

Wld love to meet a dom to live out a fantasy with
BDSM Play Partner ● 36 to 46 years ● 25km around USA Brookline
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Emery6791
Sub

I am a sub who wants to meet with his only Mistress
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 200km around Netherlands Groningen
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KinkyCoupleNCL
Kinky couple looking for sub

Dom/sub (M/F) couple looking for a third to join them, submissive, preferably bisexual woman eager to be shared and used by both of us. We talk on kik and see if we get along
We would also be happy with a couple with shared interests :)
Don’t be shy, contact us!
BDSM Play Partner ● UK Newcastle upon Tyne
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Holmez757
Dom looking for Sub

I want to meet and get to know, I don’t mind virtual but I do prefer to actually meeting in person at some point.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Fort Polk
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revnance42
Looking for Female/Trans dom

Hi Im looking to sub for a dom female/trans. Make me do whatever I can also dom so if youd like to switch it up thats cool too. Im open to try almost everything once.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Montclair
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jammystaps
Looking to learn

I don’t have a lot of experience but would love to be trained into a perfect sub
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 165km around UK York
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theoberta
Sissy, slutty 18 year old male sub looking for a s

Dear future Mistress,

I’m an 18 year old sub from the Netherlands. Although I’m still a bit young, I do have a little bit of experience and I have already figured out quite a lot about my kinks.
To start: I’m really submissive. I like doing anything my mistress pleases. I also have a lot of fetishes:

  • latex/leather/pvc
  • degrading
  • feet
  • boots/dr. martens
  • stomping
  • skirts/dresses
  • bondage
  • milking
  • masochism
  • exhebitionism
  • being exposed
  • torturing
  • edging
  • crossdressing
  • pegging/buttplay

  • ***d-bi/gay

    If you’re interested in making me your sissiest, sluttiest, horniest slave, feel free to send me a message and tell me you would have me serve you. I’m sure I would feel honored, my goddess.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Netherlands Voorburg
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.