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ZeroandZara_
Dom & Switch Mf couple seek sub!

As the title says, were fun, have lots of our toys, our own sex swing! Plus we have fun games, rather laid back, and can host! Come say hi x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 39 years ● 95km around UK Tewkesbury
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slavecherry
Genuine, Experienced & Loyal

I’m pansexual and happy to meet with any orientation if the connection is good. I am a very experienced lifestyle submissive lady without current guidance. Seeking a dominant human who can command and demand my submission. I can make anything kinky, it’s in my soul, but my favourite kinks are vulnerability, bondage, control, *** and chastity.
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 80 years UK Glasgow
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Ignar
Looking for a sub in edinburgh/glasgow

Looking for a sub to talk with and maybe become play partners if both sides agree.

My Fetlife is @Ignar if you are curious.
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 36 years ● 25km around UK Edinburgh
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jrroulette
Want a sub slut to play with

Become my little plaything. I love to have a little sub slut to play with. I will have you restrained, blindfolded and gages and use your body however I want. I will and tease you. Have plenty of toys and restraints to change things up. I love watching my little toy squirm and hearing the squeal. That might be from pleasure or , but I like seeing your reaction to both.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Humble
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merewether727
Dom looking for sub

Looking to meet likeminded kinky people for casual / ongoing play
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 45 years ● 50km around Australia Merewether
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GracefullE
Looking for sadist with rope skills

I’m craving a Dom with rope skills. Seems to be impossible to find one.

Prove me wrong please- bring it on and tie me down.
BDSM Play Partner ● 49 to 59 years ● 25km around USA Saint Louis
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sacramento102
Single caring and looking for experience's

New Dominant seeking new friends for lifestyle relationships. Open honest and respectful.
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 56 years ● 115km around USA Sacramento
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Wem
Who wants to let go of control?

I think I’m a fun Dom. I’m more interested in you having the time of your life by following my orders. It’s better if we chat. Ask some questions. Also, I make a lot of really bad jokes. So….bonus!
BDSM Play Partner ● 49 to 59 years ● 25km around USA Arvada
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londonbunny
Looking for a Sub ;)

I am looking for a female sub/play partner to join me and my masters for fun and potentially a lot more.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 33 years ● 25km around UK London
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Sub4sure
Sub looking to go further

Looking for a genuine Domme to serve on a regular basis ideally for the long term.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 200km around UK Cambridge
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MeesterPeter
Looking for a nice man?

Hello,
Nice and respectfully and above all honest, i look for you. I would like to have good times with you.
As a "normal" human being and as mij sub. Dare to contact me ? .... please do !
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 70 years ● 50km around Netherlands Ede
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Trey17
Looking For Someone To Go To Play Parties With

I’m looking for someone to go to kink events with and to get to know. Someone looking for regular play, learning, or content creating is fine with me. I’m open minded. A sub/slave/pet would be perfect. All good girls and brats are welcome 😌
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 32 years ● 25km around USA Glendale
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CadeS
Sub looking for Domme

I am very submissive and looking for a Domme.
There are very few things I am not into, and very few things I wouldn’t be willing to do for the pleasure of my Domme.
I want someone sadistic who knows their kinks and will *** me into them without remorse.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Tuscaloosa
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Jb7133
Looking for dom

Sub looking for dommes & Friends.
Some Vanilla interests I have are videogames especially the witcher and elder scrolls series, music and skating.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 40 years ● 50km around USA San Antonio
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Desvarzil
Older Dom looking for slave(s)

I am looking for female sub/slave(s) age 35-50 who is will completely surrender to me; body, mind and soul. Bi or Bi-curious preferred. Single/Divorced/Widowed only!
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 50 years ● 50km around USA New Tazewell
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ThatGuy99
Dom-leaning Switch looking for Sub

Looking for a submissive or switch on Oahu
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 35 years ● 160km around USA Wahiawa
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Goody8508
Patient sub

Looking for a patient sub, was recently introduced to this lifestyle and enjoyed it quite a bit.
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 60 years ● 80km around USA Stone Mountain
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Diawl
Male sub seeks domme

Hey, I'm Diawl!
I'm a kinky submissive guy who's been in the bdsm scene a fair while and am currently single, and looking to play with a woman who likes to take control ♥
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 45 years ● 150km around UK Bournemouth
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Paisleysub
Sub LF Domme for meet ups

Hi,

I'm a sub based in Paisley and I'm looking for a patient but strict Dom to explore BDSM with me. I'm new to "formal" BDSM but I've been in FLRs

Aftercare and communication is as important as the actual session to me, so someone that is willing to talk things through and understand each other.

Happy to do online meets but hopefully with the intention of real life meets in the future.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 50 years ● 25km around UK Paisley
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Paisleysub
Sub LF Domme for meet ups

Hi,

I'm a sub based in Paisley and I'm looking for a patient but strict Dom to explore BDSM with me. I'm new to "formal" BDSM but I've been in FLRs

Aftercare and communication is as important as the actual session to me, so someone that is willing to talk things through and understand each other.

Happy to do online meets but hopefully with the intention of real life meets in the future.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 50 years ● 25km around UK Paisley
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boredswitchgirl
Looking for

hi, looking for dominant guys or femdoms to train me and looking for sub guys or girls for me to joi
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years USA Glendale
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Greenville1979
Sub searching for possible Dd

Experienced Doms only, please….
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 51 years ● 120km around USA Greenville
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Sneacky
23m seeking domme/ts

I'm new to this world and totally inexperienced
I would love to chat and learn with a feminine figure
Don't hesitate to contact me
BDSM Play Partner ● France Saint-Dié-des-Vosges
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Boogaloo83
Experienced Dom wanted

Looking for a respectful, knowledgeable Dominate male to help me explore kink
BDSM Play Partner ● 33 to 43 years ● 65km around UK Sevenoaks
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
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