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Greetings, traveler,

I only stepped out of the hypno fetish closet and into true mental manipulation early last year; with that said, I have had a lifelong affliction of hypno-horniness that has led to reading, role-play, and regret of never exploring a foundational part of my sexuality. The majority of my relationships have been female-led, but if you find yourself intrigued don't hesitate to reach out.

Interests I would like to explore
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  • IQ play with a bubbly persona, a loss of the perception of time, contentment, and a fuzzy awareness

  • I pride myself on my skills of deduction, and the idea of the use of amnesia triggers to create a sense of confusion and mystery is highly alluring.

  • Conditioning over a period of time; I find the idea of playing with my sense of self like a form of edgeplay, and with my fascination with fictional characters who take on multiple identities, I would love some true roleplay.

  • I have always enjoyed a good brat taming experience; ergo, resistance play where there is a gradual...or sudden loss of control is something that I find myself fantasizing about often.

    Outside of hypnosis I have a gluttonous love of horror media and would like to see what really scares me, my reactions, and play with that loss of control.

    A combination of a humorous gift and how I've received affection in the past has instilled a curiosity in pet play and the sensations that come with that.

    What I enjoy in a hypnotist
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    Someone with an equally vivid imagination, a storyteller who loves to use the theater of the mind to become a director of a scene and enjoys collaboration

    Voices that create resonance by playing with cadence, pitch, and tone

    Deviously minded but with kindness, kind of like a double chocolate habanero cookie.

    Clever wordplay; I enjoy a flowing use of language layered with suggestion.

    Boundaries


    I'd like to establish a rapport and trust, allowing the dynamic to be organic.

    It goes without saying: respect. I fully intend on being kind and empathetic, and I'd like to hope the same.

    If you are an active listener, wickedly creative, don't mind working with someone new to exploring the edges of experience, and you don't mind a little whimsy, you may absolutely DM me.

BDSM Play Partner29 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Orleans

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