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PuckishPuppet
Pup looking for Caretaker/s

Looking for someone that could gentle Dom and praise me, even for little things, primarily online, but open to irl play in the future! Interested in exploring being someone's puppy, relationship doesn't need to be inherently sexual, caretaker and puppy is perfect as well!
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 40 years ● 500km around Poland Szczecin
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SubSlutLondon
SE London sub seeking Mistress

Based in SE London, looking for a dominant woman.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 60 years ● 15km around UK London
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rockymountainmoose
Dom looking for the right sub.

Expirienced. Strong. Enthusiastic.

Im looking for someone who can keep up. Someone who listens.

Lets chat about it.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 25km around Canada Cochrane
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hannon
Looking for a companion

Looking for a companion to explore with this can be either in the online space or in reality sub or Dom love both equally, female or trans only
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 76 years ● 25km around Ireland Dublin
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master4u85
Dominant for sub or subs

I’m a single dominant male for single submissive female or females for a long term relationship
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 305km around USA Concord
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CaddyDom
Older Dom looking for fun and adventures!

Ideally I would love to find a submissive female masochist who is also a swinger and at least bifriendly. I am open to ltr as well as short term. I have no problem with dating and earning submission. I don’t like being an internet Dom, and definitely not interested in pen pals.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 105km around USA Waycross
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unanimous_5223
New and wanting to explore sub dom relationship

I’m looking to chat and learn more about myself and sub dom relationships
BDSM Play Partner ● 27 to 33 years ● 25km around Canada North Bay
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sissypet69
Looking for dom

Looking to be a sub for a mistress/goddess that I can serve
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 125km around USA Wallingford
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TopCitySwitch
Any females wanting to humiliate a small dick sub?

Just looking for pic exchange and dirty talk:) like my post and I’ll message you 🥵 trans girls also may apply 😍
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Topeka
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TheHauteMistress
Mistress seeking male sub/switch ages 28-60

When reaching out to me if you do not include your age with your location city & state in the message it will be ignored.

I am seeking a male sub/switch who is between the ages of 28-60. Absolutely NO EXCEPTIONS to that age range, so don't even ask.

Looking for someone who can fully to commit to a minimum of 2+ sessions per month and medium online interaction between sessions such as kinky calls and messaging.

Where most people are only vetting for similar kinks and STI free, I'm vetting for compatibility, longevity, and overall satisfaction of the dynamic as well. This means I have an extremely thorough vetting process and do not do casual encounters. If you are looking for immediate play or one time interactions do not respond to this posting.

I’m seeking a cisgender male sub/switch between the age of 28-60 located in the Dallas/Fort Worth Texas area or Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii. I would prefer someone who is into sensual domination, that also likes impact play and anal play. Must be drama and drug free and have a current full 10 test STI panel within 90 days or less. I’m not looking for a one time use sub/switch, but rather someone who is wanting regular sessions at least 2+ times per month or more. Weekly sessions is ideal. I am willing to take on subs/switches new to Femdom, but l have an extensive protocol regarding that type of interaction. I am open to all body types & ethnicities. Tattoos and body modifications are ok, and I like facial hair.

The expectations I have for my subs is pretty simple:

Transparency and honesty
Commitment to our dynamic
Consent
Respect my limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

About me:

Kink since 2003. BDSM since 2012. Domme leaning switch since 2019. Currently I am engaging in M/s dynamics only as of late 2024.
What I offer my play partner is the opportunity to engage in a safe and consensual dynamic where their needs are met, their limits are respected, and their consent is required. I want to leave my partners better off than the way I found them.

I offer my partners:

Friendship
Emotional Support
Positive Guidance
Healthy Habits & Routines
Physical Intimacy
Safe Kink Exploration
Aftercare
Transparency & Honesty
Respect
Consent
Commitment
Respecting limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 60 years ● 25km around USA Dallas
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cm25247
Switch seeking someone to play😊

Hiii, switch looking for fwb i am more sub leaning honestly but let’s talk!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Uniontown
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cutesysub
Weres my Dom

I need to be dealt with
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 50km around USA Waldorf
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TampaDom10
DOM IN NEED OF SUB

Experienced Dom with the pleasure of owning a weekend home in Georgia which I frequent often. I need an obedient little Sub to come to me when here and release herself to me to train, tease and enjoy. Let me be very clear I don’t rush so she must be able to play for hours and hours on end. I never rush. I don’t require experience but I do require you have the need and desire to submit and learn in a safe environment. This could be a situation where we meet and enjoy our time together or you come and stay all weekend as my Sub and play toy.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 185km around USA Macon
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skorpio911
Seeking a Sub/Slave/Baby Girl

Hi fellow kinksters, I am a well educated and grounded person who is looking to find the person for him. A person I can return to every single day.

I am a pleasure dom, so I can be soft and firm, depending upon your kinks and desires. ***d orgasms and overstimulation while bonded, are my top kinks. Apart from rough sex, lite impact, roleplay scenes, I have been through threesomes, foursomes, couple swaps, and group plays. So, if you have a kink similar to these, don’t hesitate I am pretty open minded and is just a message away.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 85km around USA Wesley Chapel
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lavanger
Curvy Sub needs her Daddy

Please message me doms and daddies. I need someone to take care of me for the night <3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 500km around USA Boston
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Justalittle-5253
Seeking playmates

Seeking bulls/service subs/ playmates to join macs32069 and I for the occasional playtime - IRL. In person meeting required prior to being invited to play. If interested, please contact macs32069. Hope to see you naked! 😊🥵😈💋
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 60 years ● 75km around Canada Winnipeg
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ninja_sam
M looking for a sub/pet

Toronto dom looking for an obedient sub. Feel free to reach out...
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around Canada Toronto
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Doogles
Looking for help

Trying to gain a better understanding of the aspects of BDSM - specifically dom/submissive. What are the proper dynamics? How to keep it from being ? What are common themes or scenarios? Not into , not into ***, simply looking for tips, advice, and a friend to talk with about all of it.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 45 years ● 500km around USA Pullman
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Chris5508
Sadist seeking maso

New here, feel free to reach out and send me a message x

Sadist/owner
Mostly hard kinks
Always exploring :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Australia New Farm
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denver68088
Sub Needed

If you are looking for a tall fit masculine man to take the lead, you found him.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 42 years ● 80km around USA Denver
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AdamC624
Seeking mistress

Looking for a dominant mistress to train me if interested text me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London
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Jakoby88888
Need a dom

Not a full member so message me if you want.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 465km around USA Springdale
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.