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wiw_the_wizard
Looking for a Dom

Looking for a New femme Dom.

I promise I'm very obedient 👼🏻⛓️😈

Kinks are on my profile
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 60km around UK London
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houston938905
Dom 4 Sub in Houston

Fairly new to domming but eager to try. Looking for a sub for me to practice and learn on. Open to some no strings attached, but really looking for something long term, someone who wants to do the cute couple stuff and the naughty stuff too.
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 37 years ● 80km around USA Klein
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Ladydragonfyre
Keyholder looking for new year lock up

Mature Domme seeking your Chasity keys for training. Feel inspired to go beyond the moment!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Victoria
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fetglass
Meow

Hi I'm looking for a fem dom or a cat girl or both :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 80km around USA Longmont
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sashamonroe
Female Dom needed for role playing

My fiancé and I are seeking a Dom female who would be willing to do all the kinky things to me that he instructs you to via phone you will do nothing to me without his permission because he can’t be present don’t be shy message me and I’ll explain in more detail.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 41 years ● 25km around USA Cleveland
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PittManJ
Looking for a LTR sub/pet

I'm a Dom who wants a LG or a sub that wants to be taken care of.

If you want to be pregnant all the time or have a large family we'll be a good fit long term.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 32 years ● 500km around USA Cibolo
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Ladydragonfyre
Seasoned mature Domme seeking You!

Hello kinky friends! I would love to meet a hung bi sexual Male sub . (Ideally) but open to all new friends. I’m poly ENM and hope to make ltr deep connections
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Victoria
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alexxxwild
Calm, Structured Dominant Seeking a Harmonious Sub

I am a Dominant who leads with presence, patience, and structure rather than . My authority is calm, consistent, and intentional. While my energy leans toward a Daddy-style dynamic, there is no age play or infantilization. I do not use or cruelty. I build my submissive emotionally, mentally, and physically. Obedience is met with care. Respect is mutual and non-negotiable.

I am seeking a submissive who values routine, service, and harmony; someone who finds peace in clear expectations and fulfillment in alignment, not resistance. I am not interested in bratty dynamics or constant power struggles.

This is for someone seeking more than occasional play, but not yet full-time cohabitation; a woman who desires a lifestyle-oriented power exchange grounded in consistency, care, and intentional leadership.

Further expectations, routines, and compatibility details are shared through thoughtful conversation.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 50km around USA Gatlinburg
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slavetoboots66
Dom women who like to be worshipped

I love a dom confident women
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 200km around Australia Kingsgate
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mastermid
Online subs?

Are there any subs looking for an online experience? Or anyone wanna learn abkut it an test the water? Please let me know.. I have experience as an online dom for more than 6 years. So, I am currently seeking an online sub to own or train (Sorry not interested on male subs). If ur ready to try the water, be ready to handle the heat as well😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Sri Lanka Maharagama
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abbyscooby
Need a actually daddy

Hey guys I need a daddy I haven't been on for a bit im in billings I do want someone in billings I am a sub and a little so please let me know i don't want a dom who just wants nudes
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 33 years ● 235km around USA Billings
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SavageMaster
Primal Daddy dom for long term sub

Primal daddy dom for long term relationship with sub. I like being outdoors when weather permits and you should too. *** sluts and anal whores front of the line.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 59 years ● 100km around USA Brown City
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muggins
Older sub

Looking for a domme in w lancs to please and own me.play as you wis
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 75km around UK Skelmersdale
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mastermid
Online subs/slaves for the master?

I am 25 M dom master with abiut 6 years of experiance. I am looking for online sub/slave to train, own or use. If you are into this kind of dynamic or curious about it, u can let me know. I am open for ANYONE and ANYTHING..
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Sri Lanka Maharagama
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Sirram2
Older male dom

Looking to tie tease and a female looks unimportant,just a willingness to be punished tied gagged and d.lancshire based but will travel. Over 25 yrs experience larger ladies most welcome.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 69 years ● 50km around UK Bolton
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biebie
Teachable Sub for Dom

I have always fantasized about being a sub/ pet, but I haven’t done this irl so, I’m looking for a guy (preferably older) who enjoys training, and is local in NYC
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Astoria
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Sub4RoughTops
Sub Bottom for Sadist Top (M4M)

I’m looking for select gentlemen willing and able to let out their misgivings with their life, job, etc…. on me. While I do have specific scenes in mind, I’d be more than willing to give you want you were looking for first, and then allow you to help me with what I’m seeking. It’s a bit much, so I won’t post here- but please don’t hesitate to ask and do allow your curiosity to be peaked if you’re the kind of man who refuses to take no for an answer, and likes to be more than the toughest kind of rough.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 80 years ● 100km around USA Alvin
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mesmerisia
Sexy hot subby little looking to hot masc dom💋

Hey sexy,

I’d love to meet you if your a hot and sexy masc dom🥰💋 I’m all you’re for the taking. Check my test results and come drive me insane 🥰 we could do it at yours xoxo
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 27 years ● 60km around Australia Melbourne
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marion68643
Hello

I'm looking to meet a dominate woman or a mommy dom I'm new to this and looking for more experience
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Marion
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RoWasTooShort
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Looking for a sub/fwb~ don't really use this app too often, but thought I would give it a try~ 🙃
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Thame
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.