HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who tought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.

I am looking for a LTR as well. One with mutual respect respect for consent and a Dominate / Submissive With great comunication so there is no arguments fighting or disrespect where we remain Respectful at all times of course you would have a say in dissions and transparency would asure that there is no cheating lieing or problems. I would have the final say and I base it on a fair judgement of whats best for the relationship and I would not let things happen like dating others or giving you to others to have there way just to dangerious now days with STD and HIV Love care and mental emotional and physical support always and I am a romantic at heart so I am not abusive mental emotionaly or physicaly I am looking for some one that is ready to settel down and explor new things who enjoys impact play and bondage and Shabari and is ready to give them self to me fully after a year fully and is collared in 6 months that is a lot like marriage then the CNC contract after one year where she is ready to fully give her self to me for our needs. It is because of scammers I have made it where you must verifiy your pictures on this site to message me. Im noi a I am a Master/Dominate have respect when you message me I am not here to play games. I am willing to take time to get to know you as friends first if thats what you need. I have a very high sexdrive so i am not looking for sometone who has to take 6 months to make up there mind while they scout other men online If your out of the United States I could be intrested in Internet relationship but video and voice is required. I can message you for the first 30 days after that you must be able to call me on the phone or video call me daily. I am not a perv I am a Master and have control over my sexual needs and I do not require nudes unless you want to send them to me or your taking part in our Nightly Ritual I am very kinky but I understand fully about the rights of consent and respect for my Submissive DDLG Slave Brat I take care of you mentaly emotionaly and physicaly After care and Safe Words and make sure you have a safe space to grow. If you are intrested you can message me here be happy to speak with you and answer any questions you may have and even fly you here by payig half the airfair if you need help but we must be well esablished for some time befor we do that so and you must be able to travel and relocate when the time comes. I love Brats I am a Sadist and infor not into hardcore thats ok you dont have to be as long as you enjoy Inpact play and Bondage you need to be Tamed message me. I am working on my Projects now Hanging the spanking rigngs on the wall and adding the tiedowns to my referbished bed and have plans to build a beam in the back yard so you can do some Shabari Saftey always first when it comes to suspention so if your a Ropebunny thats a pluse nothing more sexy then a bunny tied up in her submission and zone until then I am learning new things and will keep it to partial suspensions and pratice is needed so hours of being tied upp off and on trying new stuff "I am not a expert when it comes to Ropes but I enjoy Hemp Ropes they are my rope of choice to use in Shabari also like wax nipple and clit thys and breast and butt inpactplay and *** is a lot of fun all within safe limits "Hope to here from you soon Master/Dominate Rave.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “” seeking s, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or gift cards sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

BDSM Play Partner30 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Milwaukee

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    A sadist is a Dominant who enjoys inflicting pain on a submissive partner or partners. However, it isn’t always that a sadist enjoys inflicting all kinds of pain on others. They may well enjoy specific sadistic tortures. They may prefer using a particular instrument like a whip or a cane or they might enjoy adding a sadistic element to other BDSM activities such as rope and restraints. Sadists get pleasure from inflicting pain on others. This is always consensual and agreed in advance. They can enjoy the visual evidence of the pain they’ve inflicted in bruises and welts and red skin. They often enjoy the noises a masochist makes while they are inflicting pain on them and enjoy watching the way that masochist moves as they are tortured. They may even enjoy restraining the masochist so they can’t easily move. Not all sadistic torture leaves marks. Sadists can use electric that inflicts lots of pain on their masochist but doesn’t leave lasting marks. Not all sadism is focused on the physical. Sadists often use fear and control to play with pain without inflicting any physical damage at all. This is called a mind fuck. Many people often ask what is a sadist? There isn’t one simple answer. Every sadist is different. Sadists are most often Dominants but can be switches. Even masochists and submissives can have a sadistic streak. Enjoying inflicting pain on another person, maybe because they understand the thrill of feeling the pain themselves. Sadists can become sexually aroused by inflicting painful torture on others, it can also be simply about submission and control. Sadists often spend many hours honing their skills with one particular torture implement to get the most sadistic pleasure out of their implement of choice.