My name is Skit, I'm 19 years old, and I'm planning to move to Melbourne next year with a friend for my studies. I'm mostly interested in non-sexual connections since I am a virgin and have experienced some sexual trauma, which means I need to build complete trust with someone before anything sexual can happen. I'm totally open to discussing our hopes for the future (including what sexual things we want in the future), but I want to clarify that I'm not into sexting or sharing sexual pictures.

I identify as aromantic, which means I don't experience romantic attraction, but that does not mean I can't love you. I am trans female-to-male pre-transition, and I am hoping to get top surgery soon. I value honesty and communication above all else, so if you have any questions, please feel free to ask and I'll do the same!

I'm searching for someone who desires a genuine connection with me. Ideally, I'd like someone close to my age to late 20's, but I can be flexible if you are the one.

I would love to eventually live as a 24/7 baby, although I understand that might not be feasible with my current life situation. I'm looking to gradually ease into this lifestyle and become less and less independent over time. I want to remain fully non-sexual until I feel completely comfortable with you in real life and have been fully introduced to the ABDL community. Once I trust you completely, I'd be open to slowly incorporating some sexual elements into our dynamic. I'm very open-minded, so please be honest if you are looking for something specific. I'd love to sit down and discuss everything before we take any sexual steps forward.

Im looking to have someone take complete control over pretty much anything, and slowly introduce me into this lifestyle and other kinks. I also love the thought of getting "groomed" so going from a friendly stranger to friends then slowly getting more and more intimate.

My limits include , intentional , impact play, any kind of calls, pretty much anything in my mouth (due to *** issues), and likely more that I haven't realised yet. When you reach out to me please share a little about yourself, what you expect/are looking for and any questions you might have

BDSM Play Partner19 to 28 years ● 300km around Australia Melbourne

18 year old trans male (FTM) (pre-op atm however i do want top surgery) from australia looking for someone who is into the idea of having a stay at home adult baby to care for and look after. This would be completely platonic for me as i am aro-ace but i am ok bit nsfw elements and am very open-minded, i would be ok with sexual things happening eventually but only IRL and not over messages. this would however all be irl not rp or erp i am not interested in any of that. i want this to be a lifestyle for me.

i am looking for someone who loves the idea of forcing me back into diapers and s me to "be a baby". this would be done by mittens that lock around the wrists so i cant pick up things properly, a lockable diaper cover so i need to rely on you for everything, boots that have spikes on the bottom so that i cant walk and have to crawl everywhere, instead of having a "normal" bedroom i would have a nursery with everything a baby would have like a crib, changing table, rocking chair etc, have rules that i have to follow that a baby would have, be d to sleep in a crib, watch cartoons, play with baby toys, things like that.

i love the idea of having no control just like a baby and having to be completely reliant on someone else for everything, i want to lose all control over everything including my bladder and bowels the thought of having to rely on you for everything and have to wait for you to be ready like you decide that my diaper isnt wet enough to change or you strap me into an adult baby bouncer that i cant get out of and i just have to bounce there waiting for you ly.

id prefer someone who is possessive and/or protective, strict but doting and would love to spoil me at any given time, will treat me just like a baby no matter what and is ok with the idea of having me as a 24/7 stay at home little. if this sounds interesting or something you would like please send me a friend request on discord to littlebby. i am very open minded so feel free to ask any questions or anything like that, or if you like something that isnt here. My only limits are striclty sexual stuff, i dont want this to be about sex i want to be
d to be a baby, ***, id be ok with spankings if it was a last resort, choking, feminisation, misgendering, mean yelling and hard degrading. If you enjoy something that i havent listed and isnt in my limits tell me about it id probably be willing to give it a go.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years Australia Colac

Hi, I am glad to here from you I am a Dom of 20+ years experience
I first started out as a submissive and served under a Mistress for 5
years. The reason i am messaging you today is you asked me to reach out
to you or you found me on your own from the sight. I am seeking a Submissive, Pet, Slave, DDLG for Domestic and Sexual services. I am very kinky and enjoy all types of Bondage, Orgasms Control, Some Hardcore Impact Play Caning, Spanking, Flogging, Leather Straps, Switches, Ropes Including Shabari floor and some partials suspensions.
because of the risks of safety we would have to have a conversation About the risks of Suspension about what you seek knowing that i am a student not a professional in Suspension. Since I do not know anything about you or your training I ask that you fill me in on what it is your looking for? Expectations and any Medical History that I need to understand like Seizers and Mental Illness. Or are you looking to start out if your a beginner?

Things that I enjoy are Nipple and Clit impact play and spankings Thys, Butt, Breasts, Pussy Lips, This is only done with Consent. you must be 18+ to enjoy this lifestyle. I dislike body hair, so if you become my Submissive you will be asked to shave your pussy hair legs underarms and keep them shaved...once a week I ask that you lotion Nipples, Breasts Pussy lips and Clit and Lava and BUTT Cheeks, Crack, Around the Hole nightly and your Full Body once a week. I am into Orgasms' Control so no Sex or Orgasms' including Masturbating without permission.

Bedtime If you are not here I require that you sleep in a shirt only No panties or bra at bedtime and you could be asked to not wear them under clothing unless your Bleeding. Communication and Honesty and full Transparency nothing is done without permission. I am very strict I do not keep you from having friends But do not allow Toxic Friendships or Dating, What you eat wear and do is regulated based on Behavior.

I do use spanking Corner or Couch time Kneeling and Impact play as Discipline and none discipline to keep you inside Subspace. Nudity, Anal training with Butt plugs and Being bound to a wall or bed and punished are how I correct behaviors. I do enjoy spanking but you do not have to be punished to be spanked I usually do this if not here by flat brush across the bottom of the cheeks across the top of the Breasts or Thys depending on your need and consent.

This can be done as you need to help keep you in subspace and a good girl. You can receive your collar in 6 months and is a Honor not a right and I will offer you a full contract that I will attach to a *** if you like to request to see what is involved anytime. and let you look at in 1 year depending on your needs experience and Discipline in the lifestyle. I am NOT HERE to be you Pay PIG! You should be Independent minded and a adult and understand you pay your own bills work and travel at your own expense.

I do not require you to give me anything, When you move in you will be required to pay rent after 30 days just like I do Family Property but the utilities are paid and the family will not require nothing more. We will work as a team on food and things that are needed. I do not share you with others to dangerous (STD). Only time another female is asked to join the circle is with your consent and requested she must be polly and this is the only group activity I will allow. You and I will have a monogamous relationship Unless you ask for a NSA but she must follow and agree to the same rules NO MEN!

You must of had a STD checkup once a year or seen by a doctor with a clean bill of health sexual 18+ I do enjoy all three holes but if you do not like anal you should let me know things you like and dislike and console in me about things you want to try or do not want. Your communication Safety and Loyal service means there will be NO Fighting, Arguing, Cheating, Lies, Deceptions, You will be Disciplined to do as your asked without any confrontation.

Your opinion really does matter and your Happiness Mental and Emotional Health. You will be able to submit a Journal where you can truthfully express your emotion and this will help me understand your mental and emotional state nothing you put into the Journal can be punished. You could be asked to explain why you feel this way about anything negative or harming to the relationship.

The honesty and understanding of your Journal will bring us much closer so I can understand when I hurt you emotionally or mentally and it can be addressed. Well that is all for now just gave you a few things to think about and read the document is a contract that will be given once you reach 1 year and you can get your collar in 6 months a collar like your bruises are a mark of honor its better then a wedding ring and you work hard to get it so you cherish it much more. If you have any questions please ask and I hope we can build something long lasting and great together.

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BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

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