I will wine and dine you, walks on the beach near my home, lots of laughter and playful fun as we get to know each other. This may take a whole evening, a few days, or weeks as you are welcome to stay at my home in Monterey near the beach and enjoy a little vacation (or not). I provide the dining out for meals, and serve you breakfast and coffee in the morning. You will learn that I am a safe, responsible, and protective, kind of man. I do not ask you for anything as we build a relationship of trust. I wait for you to feel comfortable enough to engage with me……

I enjoy
-Watching you model lingerie
-Teasing me
-Toys
-No sex is required
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If you prefer or need lessons, I will provide them.
You'll begin your lessons by wearing the lingerie we've ordered for you. You'll stand silently waiting in submission with your hands behind your back, head lowered and eyes to the ground. I walk circles around you, whispering in your ear, snapping the crop against your tender skin. It may sting. And you may find yourself saying "Thank you Sir” or “Thank you Daddy"
We may engage in erotic, unspoken acts with safety (No fluid exchanges)
If you fail to follow directions, I've been known to offer up spankings and other playful deeds.
Your pouting somehow arouses me......just as the punishments may arouse you !
You will learn that you may stay at my home or return at any time you feel the need to engage further.
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I am a well educated, quietly-confident man living in Monterey, CA.
I’ve been told I’m a caring man with a big heart !

I hope to hear from you and look forward to learning more about you !
Thank you for reading
Sincerely
David

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