*As it seems many are too lazy to read my entire profile NO MEN, NO TRANS, NO DOMINANT WOMEN,MEN OR TRANS. All STRAIGHT WOMEN please read entire profile before messaging. Im seriously getting tired of people acting interested then blocking or friendzoning me over sonething they wouldve know IF THEY READ THIS.

BACKGROUND
Im 38 male new to this site and the fetish world but i have a lot i want to try out.
I was born and raised in New Hampshire USA, raised on a horse farm with 16 horses, 2 dogs and 3 cats at any given time. I graduated class of '06.
I am not one that normally opens up right away but I feel to find the proper people I need to be a certain level of open, i am on disability for bipolar though it is mostly under control at the moment. so I am not living the high life there are months where I barely get by but I survive and give my all to any relationship im in.
At the moment I live with friends so I will not host. I believe getting to know each other online first is the safest way to do it these days. I prefer getting to know someone for the safety of us both before moving it to in person, one because the internet is not always what it seems, two because more than a few times have I had people stand me up, three because relationships are more than just physical. I will admit I struggle with connecting on a deeper level sometimes, but I am more than willing to try.
I have 12 years of relationship experience, which ended in a mutual divorce. so I know what I need and I know how to get what I want, but on the other hand I know how to treat you right with what I have.
im into history, nature, walks, chats, video and board games, a nerd that lays DnD abd Daggerheart, listens to white n needy. i can be a little crazy but I like to think its in the best way.
Tonight it came to me God had promised me eternal life, why do I need to hurry as long as im in him it is mine. I think its time to slow down appreciate the moments I have instead of letting the moments slup away in the chase for the moments that may potentially come or may not. my life has taught me that there is a loving God that has and will take care of me. that said im not here to judge as the religious part might imply, but here to truly find someone to love, learn and grow with.


come chat and let's see what happens.

LOOKING FOR
A friendship that develops into a LTR dom/sub relationship. Again distance isn't an issue as its better for the development of the dynamic.
im looking for honest, trusting, open communication. if we do not have these things anything else will crumble, as they say Rone wasn't built in a dsy.

RED FLAGS
1 asking to move to another spot within minutes of chatting
2 leaving messages read but not being clear one way or another of your interest
3 selling content or asking for ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.##
4 asking about ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## am or what's app nothing but scammers on them
5 acting interested then not replying only minutes in, make up your mind
6 "dominant" women, granny's, men of any type not interested you'll be blocked

death, mass amounts of or permanent , etc