Exactly what I want

So true, that’s also important for me. A sub that knows what will make me happy and does it without having to be asked all the time. That’s the dream

Your profile says you worship better than anyone- well if that’s true, it’s better to list why. You wouldn’t go to a job interview and say you should hire me because I’m the best, you’d give examples and reasons why. Just my initial opinion though. It’s difficult because as you said, there are a Read more… lot of sub men and not as many dom women so you have to try to really stand out, especially with sites like this your profile and opening messages need to be really good to stand a chance.

I think you should make an effort to ask her on a date at this point, something simple like dinner or coffee. Because you can’t actually be sure that she really does like you or want to see you more or that she’s available etc. Be prepared to be turned down, and then will you feel awkward going in Read more… there in the future? Also, I’m curious why you’ve already decided that she’s not suitable for anything long term without even getting to know her

Honestly makes no difference to me I don’t really notice

I’ve been in the same situation it feels strange and unnatural at first but pretty quickly I got really into it! And of course it’s great to be pleasing your partner and seeing them enjoy it.