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Kink couple going 24/7 - advice?


Wise02

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My husband and I are kink in the bedroom but have recently decided to go 24/7.

The dynamic would definitely work for us as it will compliment our vanilla roles now.

Curious if anyone has advice for this transition. Tip, tricks, wisdom...anything really would be great. 

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Talk about everything. If something changes or lf something isn't working, talk about it. We have a safe word for vanilla situations too, so if something is off but we really cant say so than that's a way to speak up. Really make sure you are both on the same page about practices and expectations too.
Good luck and congratulations! 🥰💝

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You might look into writing up a Domme/sub contract. Even though you're married, it might be nice to kindof define your roles, likes/dislikes, hard limits etc, and you can make it for a short "trial" period (say 1-3 months), to make sure you both like it being "official". Then either go back to how it was, or write a new longer contract 😁 Orher things I would suggest are a collaring ceremony to celebrate entering this new phase of your relationship, and you might possibly want to look into chastity. There is a wealth of information out there if you look (and like to read). Congrats!

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Thank you!!!
We have spent a lot of time discussing, reviewing, and covering desires/expectations.
We are currently working on a contract 😁 he is overseas at the moment so we are having a slow transition into the 24/7.

Super excited for the collaring ceremony when he returns home also!

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