Some people need to lose control

[lostInSwizzerland]

🖤SOME PEOPLE NEED TO LOSE CONTROL.

Not because they’re weak or want to be broken, but because they’re tired of being strong in a world that never lets them remove their armor.

Some crave ***, others control. Some want to kneel; others want to command.

Beneath those games is one question:

“Can I show you the darkest part of me and still be safe in your hands?”

Maybe submission isn’t about obedience, and dominance isn’t about power.

Maybe the real kink is finding someone who knows where you break—and chooses to understand you instead.

— A thought for the beautifully complicated🖤

[Ar****]

That is deep as fuck and accurate as hell...

[do****]

So true

[Loganmjol]

Yeah that’s a very good insight into my brain right now as I go through this journey. It’s hard as fuck tbh but finding the right sub/woman who can allow me to be myself, not be judged and have a journey of onsite, discovery and look deep into each other as well as in to ones self can be enormously enlightening.

[le****]

Well, this was beautifully written if you have not considered potentially writing poetry, you should 

[ls****]

Love this 🩷

[Im****]

Get out of my head lol... You just about summed me up. Tired of being the strong one. Tired of being the one to have to take control, to issue the commands, to make someone else hit their knees. Yeah you summed it up. Id also say this is fairly true of a brat as well. The difference is the brat is asking for you to show them your darkness. More of an exchange while choosing to eventually yield their darkness to the command of yours

[va****]

This is the sexiest post I’ve ever read

[va****]

I’ve always wanted to go to Switzerland… if I do I’ll hit you up

[lostInSwizzerland]

55 minuti fa, val19473 said:

I’ve always wanted to go to Switzerland… if I do I’ll hit you up

I am waiting for you

[Pr****]

Yes! Wow! We all want to be truly seen and loved in spite of it.

[Cu****]

💜

[Ba****]

It’s another armor submissive puts around him. The thought I’m strong BUT just too complicated/tiered or whatever - so I need to find someone who will caress this fragile me - is another wall between you and real you - and another burden on your partner which is enormously harden the search of interactions. You are who you are with cravings that you have. Nothing more needed.

[my****]

Beautifully said...

[Lu****]

That’s a very intriguing point of you

[li****]

interesting. I have noticed I am always there for others. When someone provides an offer for unconditional help to me, I get anxiety. It's so uncomfortable to take it. If I reach out to someone for help, that is ok. Maybe I just need someone to train me.

[lostInSwizzerland]

10 minuti fa, likeitslow said:

interesting. I have noticed I am always there for others. When someone provides an offer for unconditional help to me, I get anxiety. It's so uncomfortable to take it. If I reach out to someone for help, that is ok. Maybe I just need someone to train me.

Maybe you don’t need someone to train you. Maybe you need to discover why receiving what you so freely give to others feels so uncomfortable.
There’s a strange vulnerability in being the one who always holds space for everyone else, then not knowing what to do when someone offers you the same.
But perhaps one of the hardest things to surrender is the belief that we must always be the ones holding everything together.