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I don't really know, but it sounds pretty good
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When you give total control over to your Top you given them a most precious gift and those that willing to do so are rare.
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Be careful though. It's nice at first but you can literally lose yourself in a relationship of this dynamic.
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It comes down to what the collective needs are and is the dynamic a good fit.
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This is known as Total Power Exchange or TPE. But, be extremely careful when pursuing a TPE relationship. While it is a great goal to pursue; it takes time, and should take time, to achieve that level of trust between the Dom/Domme and the sub. There are many inexperienced Doms/Dommes out there who would jump into this not really knowing or understanding their responsibilities in such a relationship. Not to mention dishonorable and dishonest people who pose as Doms/Dommes. Find yourself someone who you enjoy and believe you can trust and let the relationship grow naturally from there.
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I lived this but didn't realize others viewed it as controlling and abusive. I realized that it was that because I never actually agreed to it and he didn't have my feelings and well-being in mind while doing it. I then fell into another relationship where it was similar but less obvious because he did so by manipulating me into what he wanted.

I think I've always been drawn to relationships like that because it's what I like. But actually finding someone who gives a damn about me while doing it would be a life-changing experience.
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That is so sad to hear. My sub and I had a contract, what was agreed etc. She used to write a daily journal that was to express her true feelings with no comeback. It was a good form of communication and worked well for us.
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17 hours ago, Curiosityanxiety said:
I lived this but didn't realize others viewed it as controlling and abusive. I realized that it was that because I never actually agreed to it and he didn't have my feelings and well-being in mind while doing it. I then fell into another relationship where it was similar but less obvious because he did so by manipulating me into what he wanted.

I think I've always been drawn to relationships like that because it's what I like. But actually finding someone who gives a damn about me while doing it would be a life-changing experience.

Literally same. Some on here (I won't calk them out ) very much made it seem like he was such a good tpe dome but once we started going he very much did not have my best interest in mind and he also wanted to rush into it which red flag

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Practice basically repetition till comfort soothes the conflict the move on
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