***Please read as I will not bend my boundaries regardless of who you are or where you're from. If you do ask/expect me to bend these for someone I don’t know then you will be sadly mistaken!***
I have fallen in love with the submissive world, as I have so far learned vanilla's just don't know how to truly sexually satisfy me. I am only interested in Dom/Domme's who actually knows how to dominate with respect rather than arrogance, maybe whilst sharing me either with their partner or group of equally respectful men and women is definitely a dream. Because being a prized possessions why wouldn't you want to share for all to enjoy?! 😇
I have been drawn to this world since a young ***ager I only started to actually explore this world since my marriage ended (which was very vanilla) so started down this rabbit hole in 2021/2022 so I only have limited experiences as being a submissive, as putting yourself in a *** and possible dangerous position you need to ensure that you have the right person for yourself who I can trust and that it’s not true ***!
And trying to find someone who I don't scare away, similar/same kinks and who also has the rest of the package is really hard to find.
Regardless of experience I do have ideas in my head which I'm hoping to fulfil and I've been told I have a very creative mind but I do need to find that connection / sexual attraction to someone. I find trying to find a male I'm attracted to much harder then with women, so I do see myself more lesbian then straight!! For this reason I do currently spend a lot of time unicorning 🦄
I am currently in an open dynamic as a sub/slave and happy to find another.
If by some miracle I manage to find another person who makes me feel like that I will be your dream good girl and will do anything to please (within my limits). However, if the respect isn't shown back or you take advantage of my kindness and caring nature then you have lost me!
I will not settle for less than what I deserve and desire and neither should you. I have high standards for what I'm looking for to ensure only those who deserve my submission gain it. With gaining that submission only then do you earn the title of Sir from my lips. I do hope to one day find love but this is clearly a challenge, I'm slowly learning I was not born to receive the love I give the world and that's ok.
Please don’t feel you can guilt me into being a pitty sub for you, if this is your tactic then you shouldn’t consider yourself a Dom until you have addressed any personal, self-esteem and self-confidence issues you have to be able to hold that position for everyone’s safety.
You don’t know me the same way I don’t know you, you only see the image I portray on here just the same as you do!
Please note just because of the labels I have chosen for myself does not mean I will go with anyone.
Just because you label yourself a 'Dom' doesn't mean you can command my attention or steal me! When I'm serving I will not dilute and devalue the loyalty and commitment I make to someone!!
I do have self confidence, self esteem and respect for myself to stick to my standards and I am no one's ego boost! I need that connection there, however I'm happy to chat, when possible, to most people.
If you are in a relationship/ married then I am not the right person, if you are in a completely open relationship who is aware and happy with the arrangement then I will be happy to chat. Saying she knows but you don't share details with her is not acceptable for me.
I only ask you not to mislead me and to be honest from the start. Honestly if you are cheating and looking for someone to be your dirty little secret from your wife do not contact me as I will not be the reason for a broken heart in another woman and I will not apologize for my own personal morals. Please don't think you can talk me into believing deception and betrayal can ever be acceptable, you will not change my mind or my morals!!!
Kink is something that will be completely separate to my vanilla life so please don't ask or expect me to apply any rule or conditions to my vanilla life and I don't feel comfortable sharing to much vanilla information and will respect your vanilla privacy in return.
I am a single parent so unable to host and don't have a supermodels body. I do work full time so that and parenting does come first. I'm unable to do weekdays so it's weekends only. Due to commitments I can't do last minute plans.
Good hygiene and protection is a must so no breeding and STI testing required.
Only profiles with photos as I've been put into difficult positions before with people deliberately deceiving me therefore not knowing who I'm talking to feels like a level of deception! If you don’t like that then please don’t message. If you feel I will take screenshots and share your photos then clearly you have misunderstood my very honest and open profile, I have no reason, desire or time to do this so don't think you can negotiate with me about this as I don't know you and you currently don't mean anything to me, sorry!
If you are too far away sorry I'm not looking for online fun but actual meet ups. ***, social standing, and luxury life style doesn't influence my decision on whether I meet someone or not and pushiness and pleading is a definite put off, sorry! My decisions are all based on the person you are.
If you feel that you are not good enough or handsome enough for me then you would be correct, as this tells me you have judge me as shallow without actually knowing me! Looks are not important to me its purely whether there's that connection there in person. I don't judge so please don't judge me.
Please don't ask to swap numbers as I won't swap numbers until after we've met in person, and I will not meet anyone I don't know what they look like.
These are my boundaries and I won't bend them for anyone. Safe words Red for Stop and orange for slow down/give me a moment. Thank you for taking the time to read and respect that ☺️I look forward to expanding my kink friendship circle x x x
You can also find me on my Instagram baby.bailey86 (please could you DM that you're from here so I can approve your follow request ☺️) or more often on FetLife (BaileySexSlave)
Where you won't find me is on other platforms or OnlyFans! I don't sell myself, plus who would pay for that 🤣😝
No face on profile or shared in messages = No reply!
And the very last thing, thank you for reading and respecting me 💖💖
